most guys are effing idiots.

[stubbornlights]

As I've been reading, I try to be more conscious of what I see out there in the field. Not only am I trying to be more aware of my game, but I've been watching other people too. I'm starting to come to the conclusion that most guys either fall into two prevailing categories.

The AFC's. They'll hang around HB's and stuff, but they're total supplicants. No balls. And it looks like they're trying to crawl into the girls heart that way... not going to happen. There are a lot of these guys.

The jerks/*******s/apathetic. Some of these guys actually have girls hanging around them in a sexual manner. But a lot of them are pretty sketchy. More often than not, their approach involves sheer brazen indolence, idiocy, and arrogance. They're amusing, and arouse a certain feeling of nausea.

...I'm starting to think that by reading the DJ bible and all the resources available to us, that we'll be lightyears ahead of the rest of the guys out there. Maybe this is just what the scene is like in my city.

What are you guys noticing? Would you agree that the DJ mindset elevates you above the vast majority? I'm liking what I'm seeing so far...

 

[the_reader]

lol while i have been in both the categories of ******* and Nice Guy. Now that i think back on it, I've had more girls chase me when I was the ******* (esp to them) , but I've had more female friends as the nice guy.

The DJ bible is good stuff, but it's stuff guys should already know (i.e being confident in your manner). But there are good hints on how to do Kino.

So yea, I'd say we're ahead of the pack. You just have to apply the stuff properly and be a good judge of character.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Hell yeah they are.

They're either too corny or complete nutjobs.I meet new people every other day but I want to keep my innercicle under half a dozen cuz honestly these mother****ers out here are either gay as **** or crazy or just herbish..

I don't think it has to do with afcish behavior it's the way of the world.I blame absentee fathers.


P.S.yes you should take advantage..I don't help anyone with "game" in real life.**** that people are too ungrateful.

 

[blinkwatt]

This reminds me of a guy at work. He comes up to me on day saying "Hey I think the new chicks think Im gay" and I said "Whys that?". He responded with "Because I told them that to try and get them to laugh". What a AFC huh? Now to top it off he comes up to me the next day and says "Dude I think Im gonna ask HB 7 out" and I tried to plead with him not to. Oh well he tried and got shot down. This same guy is 0 for 3 at trying to get at chicks at my job,you would think he would stop acting like he was in high school.

 

[AlphaChump]

This reminds me of a guy at work. He comes up to me on day saying "Hey I think the new chicks think Im gay" and I said "Whys that?". He responded with "Because I told them that to try and get them to laugh". What a AFC huh? Now to top it off he comes up to me the next day and says "Dude I think Im gonna ask HB 7 out" and I tried to plead with him not to. Oh well he tried and got shot down. This same guy is 0 for 3 at trying to get at chicks at my job,you would think he would stop acting like he was in high school.

You gotta give him credit for trying, right?

 

[blinkwatt]

Yeah I give him credit,his efforts make me laugh. You cant replace people that make work fun.

 

[Tomatoes]

Lets put it this way. I went to my local pub last night and it was swarming with people....dunno why more than usual .

I went to the back area of the pub. There was about 40 people in there. Out of that 40 there were about 8 HB 8-9. Really stunning girls. One was a 9.5! Very rare!

Anyways. All the other people in there were guys around the same age. So about 30 guys in there. These guys were all a bunch of scum. Pathetic morons who have no chance of succeding in life.

These girls were hanging around with these guys but even vastly outnumbered with compertition this terrority is perfect for proving your DJ worth. You can set yourself out from all the losers.

I gamed a total of 2 girls and got 1 # close. Unfortunatly i didnt gain the confidence to game the HB 9.5. Dumbass!

I see exactly what you mean.

DJ ways put you well above the average scum that the male populus consists of.

:woo:

 

[blinkwatt]

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Unfortunatly i didnt gain the confidence to game the HB 9.5. Dumbass!

I see exactly what you mean.

DJ ways put you well above the average scum that the male populus consists of.

:woo:

Do not take offense to what I may say. It is great that you picked up on your mistake,most people dont think as to why they didn't act,AFCs. We should be the ones who take out chances with unbeleivably gorgoeus women. Read my recent post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94652
not a sucess but also not a failure. You never know unless you role the dice.

 

[Tomatoes]

Originally posted by blinkwatt
Do not take offense to what I may say. It is great that you picked up on your mistake,most people dont think as to why they didn't act,AFCs. We should be the ones who take out chances with unbeleivably gorgoeus women. Read my recent post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94652
not a sucess but also not a failure. You never know unless you role the dice.

I have only in the last few months come out of my AFC shell. Since doing so i have had alot of success. Success that has help boast my confidence which has helped my success.....its a circle i like .

However when it comes to a HB7-8 I seem to have no problems in starting convosation and gaming girls of this calibre. I dont go lower than HB 7 anymore. However when it comes to gaming a HB9 I still revert to my AFC ways of putting to much importance on the girl throwing pressure on myself to succeed. I have yet to see a way to overcome this problem. Its the same with emotional attraction. I have slept with 2 girls in the past fortnight who I like but i am not really emotionally attracted to. Yet i have trouble gaming a girl who I am slightly (only Slightly) attracted too. Cant seem to gain the confiedence to Kiss close her.

 

[zerocelcius]

Hey I resembale that remark..no wait...who's side are you on?

No I agree I really find most guys who worrie about other guys effin idiots.....hmmm

sorry no I am not

thanks for the IMO by the way!! NOW start paying more attentiong to chicks and not guys...

Don't be Gay...

 

[AMF]

Sad thing is, a billion other guys are sitting there thinking the exact same thing about you sir. Youre no better than anyone else, so stop self-aggrandizing on the "basis" youve started visiting some website predominantely populated by lost/frustrated/typically unattractive guys.