Bluepills don't believe in tingles. They think that they must invest and pay for stuff before they can earn her pvssy. It's creepy.
it is not about red or blue pills , it is about that people try to find someone external to blame for their lack of success in different fields
in this case , because a guy is not smooth enough he will hamster wheel that women do not do this , because if they would , he would get laid from the 1st
the truth is that the woman most likely would , but he is not smooth enough
same thing with guys who do not get laid , they think that you need to be brad pitt to get laid , because otherwise they would do too
being critical and fair with you , is the first step in getting good in whatever you want to