Most dates are boring and most women only good for one thing.

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I have come to realize this is true for the most part. Most girls are stupid and are only good for sex. Only once in awhile do we come across a girl who we really fall for.

I was out on a date with a girl last night. I wasn't really interested in what she had to say, I just wanted to get back to her place to hook up. Needless to say, I think she is on to me.

If you are only interested in the girl for sexual reasons, most dates tend to be boring. However, as guys, we have to go through all the B.S just to get some action.
 

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Maybe its not the girl, maybe its you.

Not trying to flame you or anything but a date should be based on something that "YOU LIKE TO DO" and she is there for the ride. She could be a mute and you should still have a good time because you are doing something "YOU LIKE TO DO".

If you want to have a date where you sit down for coffee and talk about stuff for 2-3 hours well then that gets old pretty fast and ends up being boring for the both of you. If a girl is bored or not attract to you, she will be on the defence that you are only after sex, if she is having a good time and attracted to you then its game on and she will want you to fvck her.

Action dates are the key, less talk about the two of you, more action and excitment between the two of you.
 

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I'm with DJD. It's either the person who set up the date and/or the people on the date.
 

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DJDamage said:
Maybe its not the girl, maybe its you.

Not trying to flame you or anything but a date should be based on something that "YOU LIKE TO DO" and she is there for the ride. She could be a mute and you should still have a good time because you are doing something "YOU LIKE TO DO".

If you want to have a date where you sit down for coffee and talk about stuff for 2-3 hours well then that gets old pretty fast and ends up being boring for the both of you. If a girl is bored or not attract to you, she will be on the defence that you are only after sex, if she is having a good time and attracted to you then its game on and she will want you to fvck her.

Action dates are the key, less talk about the two of you, more action and excitment between the two of you.
I thought the whole point of a first date was to get to know the woman better.
 

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Vanilla said:
I thought the whole point of a first date was to get to know the woman better.
Yes that too but the main goal is to increase her interest level (unless you don't like her) in order to set the stage for the next date. The first date sets the tone of the direction this relationship with her will go. If a woman doesn't like you on the first date, its pretty much over on the spot and many clueless guys get eliminated by the first date. If a woman likes you and can't wait for the second date then there is not a whole lot you can do wrong and you probably will end up fvcking her by the third or fourth date (Just make sure you increase her interest level with each date, kino her more, make her more excited while still being mysterious and challanging at the same time).
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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DJDamage said:
Maybe its not the girl, maybe its you.

Not trying to flame you or anything but a date should be based on something that "YOU LIKE TO DO" and she is there for the ride. She could be a mute and you should still have a good time because you are doing something "YOU LIKE TO DO".

If you want to have a date where you sit down for coffee and talk about stuff for 2-3 hours well then that gets old pretty fast and ends up being boring for the both of you. If a girl is bored or not attract to you, she will be on the defence that you are only after sex, if she is having a good time and attracted to you then its game on and she will want you to fvck her.

Action dates are the key, less talk about the two of you, more action and excitment between the two of you.

Great response! I totally agree! :up:
 

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Think, Mahon, Think.
If a woman frequents biker bars, she will conclude that men in general have poor hygience, swear incessantly, drink to astonishing excess and have an innate disregard for the law.
If she frequents art galleries and literary circles, she wil think that men are generally eductaed, witty, intelligent, well read, and desire the finer things in life.

In other words, if you would prefer a find a certain type of woman, go to places most likely to host such women. You will not find the well-read philosopher, or the wordly travelled conoisseur, dressed like a ***** in a nighclub.
If you only find stupid girls, it is because you do not look for smart ones. If your dates are boring it is because you do not take them on exciting dates.

You are the problem, not the women.
 

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I have come to realize it's not just the girls who are completley fvcking retarded.
 

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Action dates are the key, less talk about the two of you, more action and excitment between the two of you.
I concur, but to that I add films and concerts, both of which have been very good for me. Gets the gal to feel something, and when a gal feels something, she'll be more inclined to feel you.
 

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What I really mean is:

Most girls I meet I am sexually attracted to them, but that is it. All I am interested in is hooking up. When you are truly attracted to a girl, it is more than just sexual...you are drawn to them and want to spend time with them anytime you can. I can't seem to meet a girl where I can have both.
 

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Actually they're only good for 3 things:

-Cooking
-Cleaning
-Fvcking

But good luck finding a girl that can do the first 2 things in this day and age.
 

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girls honestly, most times, annoy the shiit out of me. maybe im just more accepting when im with friends, but when im with a girl something always annoys me... usually its the amazing amount of talking they do and how retarded most of it is. im with frank off of everybody love raymond. women are annoying as hell.

but christ i love sex and every now and then you get a good one
 
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DJDamage said:
Maybe its not the girl, maybe its you.

Not trying to flame you or anything but a date should be based on something that "YOU LIKE TO DO" and she is there for the ride. She could be a mute and you should still have a good time because you are doing something "YOU LIKE TO DO".

If you want to have a date where you sit down for coffee and talk about stuff for 2-3 hours well then that gets old pretty fast and ends up being boring for the both of you. If a girl is bored or not attract to you, she will be on the defence that you are only after sex, if she is having a good time and attracted to you then its game on and she will want you to fvck her.

Action dates are the key, less talk about the two of you, more action and excitment between the two of you.
How about some examples? so you usually go to football games for dates and stuff? because last time I checked I had my buddies to do what I liked to do. Date is usually gettin to know the girl better (LTR material or not) and increasing her attraction to you so you can eventually bang her.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
How about some examples? so you usually go to football games for dates and stuff? because last time I checked I had my buddies to do what I liked to do. Date is usually gettin to know the girl better (LTR material or not) and increasing her attraction to you so you can eventually bang her.
Yes, you do need to get to know the girl before you bang her but don't do it to PLEASE HER, do it to PLEASE YOURSELF. You should be calling the shots anyway at the begining so why not go on a date where you can have fun?! if you have fun then she will have fun and if she doesn't then she doesn't really LIKE YOU! the date represent what you bring to the table so essentially the date IS ABOUT YOU!, The more a woman like's a man, the more she will want to spend time with him and she could care less where the date is and what you two are doing as long as you are able to keep her interest level in you to remain high. If you do something boring or something that you think will only please her that she will associate you with being boring or think that you are just kissing her ass to get into her pants.

If after couple of dates you find that the girl is really into you but doesn't really like sports, should you go to a sporting event with her?? YOU BET!! If you get excited watching sports and get really into it most likely she will mirror you and do the same because ITS FUN!! Just think for a moment how through out any proffesional sporting event, you hardley hear or see any chicks talking about sports but if the local team gets into the playoffs all of the sudden you see those girls go out hardcore and support the team! The reality is that they are doing it because a playoff atmosphere makes Men excited which also makes the women around them excited as well.
 

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Marlimus said:
If a woman frequents biker bars, she will conclude that men in general have poor hygience, swear incessantly, drink to astonishing excess and have an innate disregard for the law.
If she frequents art galleries and literary circles, she wil think that men are generally eductaed, witty, intelligent, well read, and desire the finer things in life.

In other words, if you would prefer a find a certain type of woman, go to places most likely to host such women. You will not find the well-read philosopher, or the wordly travelled conoisseur, dressed like a ***** in a nighclub.
There's true insight in those words.

My world is full of smart, successful chicks. So.. I tend to think women offer a pretty full package.

Figure out where the smarter, better girls are. Then your luck and outlook will change.
 
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