Most cute girls everywhere are already taken

[latino158]

I have surfed Facebook profiles for months if not years. I'm better looking than 95% of any girl's boyfriends, yet I cannot find a girlfriend, and is not that I have high standards or anything, I'm shooting for 6.5/10, but every single girl that I find attractive, who gives me looks and smiles, always has a boyfriend or married. Their boyfriends on facebook, don't even lift, and have nothing special going for them in terms of looks, or money, just plain average guys, yet for some reason, these cute girls fell for them. Obviously is because, there was some chemistry between them. You may say, well you probably creep them out by approaching awkwardly, that's why they lie to you, not really

If anything, now with Facebook, you can easily find out if a girl is single or not, you don't even have to approach and risk embarrassment

I would even dare to say that in any college classroom with girls of all looks, out of 20 girls, 18 are either in a relationship or married.

Same thing for work, gym, or any social setting, any cute girl you may come across, not even an 8/10, just average or slightly above it, even if she seems interested in you, chances are she is already in a relationship.

This would explain why there are so many desperate guys on online dating sites, PUA forums, the internet in general, and also in real life. You don't really see PUA or seduction sites made for women, they are very rare, is all for desperate men.

Men are aware of this discrepancy, which is why most are afraid to approach, even if the girl show signs of interest, she very likely has a boyfriend, what most men are afraid of is not so much rejection, but making a fool of themselves.

If you are good looking guy, women in relationships will give you looks, so you look them back, feed her ego, is the reason why many women with boyfriends or married, join online dating sites, to get an ego boost from all the desperate men, even if the girl is really single, they always have orbiters, waiting for their turn, they are never single like men are.

Also, most women rarely stay single for long, this is because, they crave the honeymoon phase of a relationship, but real relationship begins, once the honeymoon phase ends, but most women are too idiotic and simplistic to understand this.

IF you cannot even know for sure, if a girl is single or not, by she giving you looks and smiles, what are your chances with girls who don't even look at you, NONE

THIS IS WHY, whenever you approach a girl, you go from alpha to beta, INSTANTLY, you are at her mercy, your pride as man depends now on her decision and response, is the most beta thing to do, SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS

IF she says, I have a boyfriend, doesn't matter of she does or not, YOU LOST your pride as a man

 

[TheException]

A sorry a$$ attitude.

1)Women don't care about looks like men do. So you thinking you look better than 95% of boyfriends means diddly sh1t.

2)You are handicapping yourself by making excuses. 18/20 women in college have boyfriends? I think not.....

 

[Huffman]

No they're not.

Except maybe if you live in England or New Zealand? Simply because there's so few pretty girls to begin with

 

[Huffman]

THIS IS WHY, whenever you approach a girl, you go from alpha to beta, INSTANTLY, you are at her mercy, your pride as man depends now on her decision and response, is the most beta thing to do, SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS

Replace YOU with I, because you're speaking for yourself.

 

[Chronocidal]

I have surfed Facebook profiles for months if not years. I'm better looking than 95% of any girl's boyfriends, yet I cannot find a girlfriend, and is not that I have high standards or anything, I'm shooting for 6.5/10, but every single girl that I find attractive, who gives me looks and smiles, always has a boyfriend or married. Their boyfriends on facebook, don't even lift, and have nothing special going for them in terms of looks, or money, just plain average guys, yet for some reason, these cute girls fell for them.

I'm not sure if you realize it, but you've answered some of your own questions.
- Why rely on Facebook? It's clearly not offering you what you're looking for in your life.
- You talk about the other men not lifting. Who cares whether other men lift or not? If you enjoy lifting, then do it for your own benefit. If you want a woman who cares about fitness and enjoys an active life, it's up to you to go and find her. Other men's lifestyle choices aren't going to locate your target women for you and teleport them into your lap.

If anything, now with Facebook, you can easily find out if a girl is single or not, you don't even have to approach and risk embarrassment

Do you really think that men haven't risked social embarrassment even with women they've known were single?

If your hangouts are toxic and your online network's a failure, then ditch them. Yes, it can get lonely at times, but no one's going to be able to identify the "marital status" of the next person ahead of time, especially outside online-game. Even online, do you really think everyone always tells the truth about themselves and their relationships?

 

[BraddH]

What is this guy talking about?

 

[Roni_88]

I have surfed Facebook profiles for months if not years. I'm better looking than 95% of any girl's boyfriends, yet I cannot find a girlfriend, and is not that I have high standards or anything, I'm shooting for 6.5/10, but every single girl that I find attractive, who gives me looks and smiles, always has a boyfriend or married. Their boyfriends on facebook, don't even lift, and have nothing special going for them in terms of looks, or money, just plain average guys, yet for some reason, these cute girls fell for them. Obviously is because, there was some chemistry between them. You may say, well you probably creep them out by approaching awkwardly, that's why they lie to you, not really

If anything, now with Facebook, you can easily find out if a girl is single or not, you don't even have to approach and risk embarrassment

I would even dare to say that in any college classroom with girls of all looks, out of 20 girls, 18 are either in a relationship or married.

Same thing for work, gym, or any social setting, any cute girl you may come across, not even an 8/10, just average or slightly above it, even if she seems interested in you, chances are she is already in a relationship.

This would explain why there are so many desperate guys on online dating sites, PUA forums, the internet in general, and also in real life. You don't really see PUA or seduction sites made for women, they are very rare, is all for desperate men.

Men are aware of this discrepancy, which is why most are afraid to approach, even if the girl show signs of interest, she very likely has a boyfriend, what most men are afraid of is not so much rejection, but making a fool of themselves.

If you are good looking guy, women in relationships will give you looks, so you look them back, feed her ego, is the reason why many women with boyfriends or married, join online dating sites, to get an ego boost from all the desperate men, even if the girl is really single, they always have orbiters, waiting for their turn, they are never single like men are.

Also, most women rarely stay single for long, this is because, they crave the honeymoon phase of a relationship, but real relationship begins, once the honeymoon phase ends, but most women are too idiotic and simplistic to understand this.

IF you cannot even know for sure, if a girl is single or not, by she giving you looks and smiles, what are your chances with girls who don't even look at you, NONE

THIS IS WHY, whenever you approach a girl, you go from alpha to beta, INSTANTLY, you are at her mercy, your pride as man depends now on her decision and response, is the most beta thing to do, SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS

IF she says, I have a boyfriend, doesn't matter of she does or not, YOU LOST your pride as a man

Are you a relative of Skinny guy ?,, Same defeatist whiny,,crybaby attitude..

 

[zekko]

I'm better looking than 95% of any girl's boyfriends

I doubt that. If you'd believe the posters here, we have the greatest collection of of model level good looking guys here in the world. Abercrombie and Fitch should start a talent search here, they would clean up! "I was a 4 last week but I started lifting weights and now I'm a 9". Lol and

Anyway, I have noticed recently that the women who I find most attractive, both in looks and in terms of "nice girl" personalities (which I prefer), I find practically all of these girls are married. Bear in mind however, that I am an older gentlemen, and most of the women I find attractive are a little older than the club girls that most guys on this forum go for.

This may just be a phase though. Sometimes with girls it seems like feast and sometimes it seems like famine.

 

[The411]

I have surfed Facebook profiles for months if not years. I'm better looking than 95% of any girl's boyfriends, yet I cannot find a girlfriend, and is not that I have high standards or anything, I'm shooting for 6.5/10, but every single girl that I find attractive, who gives me looks and smiles, always has a boyfriend or married. Their boyfriends on facebook, don't even lift, and have nothing special going for them in terms of looks, or money, just plain average guys, yet for some reason, these cute girls fell for them. Obviously is because, there was some chemistry between them. You may say, well you probably creep them out by approaching awkwardly, that's why they lie to you, not really

If anything, now with Facebook, you can easily find out if a girl is single or not, you don't even have to approach and risk embarrassment

I would even dare to say that in any college classroom with girls of all looks, out of 20 girls, 18 are either in a relationship or married.

Same thing for work, gym, or any social setting, any cute girl you may come across, not even an 8/10, just average or slightly above it, even if she seems interested in you, chances are she is already in a relationship.

This would explain why there are so many desperate guys on online dating sites, PUA forums, the internet in general, and also in real life. You don't really see PUA or seduction sites made for women, they are very rare, is all for desperate men.

Men are aware of this discrepancy, which is why most are afraid to approach, even if the girl show signs of interest, she very likely has a boyfriend, what most men are afraid of is not so much rejection, but making a fool of themselves.

If you are good looking guy, women in relationships will give you looks, so you look them back, feed her ego, is the reason why many women with boyfriends or married, join online dating sites, to get an ego boost from all the desperate men, even if the girl is really single, they always have orbiters, waiting for their turn, they are never single like men are.

Also, most women rarely stay single for long, this is because, they crave the honeymoon phase of a relationship, but real relationship begins, once the honeymoon phase ends, but most women are too idiotic and simplistic to understand this.

IF you cannot even know for sure, if a girl is single or not, by she giving you looks and smiles, what are your chances with girls who don't even look at you, NONE

THIS IS WHY, whenever you approach a girl, you go from alpha to beta, INSTANTLY, you are at her mercy, your pride as man depends now on her decision and response, is the most beta thing to do, SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS

IF she says, I have a boyfriend, doesn't matter of she does or not, YOU LOST your pride as a man

If you go by So Suaves "laws" every hot chick is dating models. This simply isn't the case if you actually leave your house and a diseased mind opening your eyes past your own delusions.

If you go to a large place populated with chicks like Vegas or Atlantic City you see tons of chicks and a lot aren't with some completely shredded super model looking dude. It's only seen that way from dudes who haven't gotten out at all and dream things up because it's easier to wallow in misery and attempt to depress other dudes than actually putting in work to improve themselves for themselves.

 

[foreverAFC]

most of the time when i get IOIs from a woman, its because she is trapped in a shtty relationship with some chump and needs ego boosts

 

[LiveFreeX]

My girl friends are having all the same problems... they are looking for white guys to date and it seems like everybody they speak to is taken.

PM me if you want to meet asian girls.

 

[The411]

My girl friends are having all the same problems... they are looking for white guys to date and it seems like everybody they speak to is taken.

PM me if you want to meet asian girls.

How's the "Happier Abroad" business going? LMAO :crackup:

 

[Robert28]

When you're single, you're right, they're ALL taken. They're all married, just got engaged, just started "seeing someone", etc. Then eventually you meet a hottie who is single and you start dating her. All of a sudden every d@mn gal in the universe is single and wants to date YOU all of a sudden. Happened to me MANY times. It's a mirage though, sorta like water in the desert. If you dump the girl you're with for some girl who you liked previously but was taken but now she's single and you think "this is my chance"....it isn't. Soon as you dump the girl you're with to get with the other one she "doesn't want a relationship right now" and you're fvcked. However, next week she meets some other dude and has a new boyfriend within the span of two or three days and you're still single because you just burned your bridges.

 

[skinnyguy]

This would explain why there are so many desperate guys on online dating sites, PUA forums, the internet in general, and also in real life. You don't really see PUA or seduction sites made for women, they are very rare, is all for desperate men.

Yes.

I'm in the working world and literally EVERY SINGLE DECENT WOMAN is married. The best ones get scooped up by the age of 25. The only ones who are single after that are either hideously ugly or gay.

Women can get into relationships extremely easily. Remember that men are the aggressors so all a woman has to do is pick. Women probably have 15-25 offers for sex every week, on average. Some have hundreds.

Telling the truth isn't being "defeatist". It's just telling the truth. Women can get boyfriends easier than men can get girlfriends and that's the truth. It's the 20%/80% rule at its finest.

I'm glad that someone with a good reputation, PairPlusRoyalFlush, agrees with me.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

"Risk embarrassment from approaching?" With that mindset, I'd start saving up for the best fleshlight money can buy.
Maybe there are so many "desperate" dudes because, like cramming frantically hours before a test, they failed (out of fear or laziness or some self-imposed crippling limiting belief) to put in the work and have set themselves up to (predictably) fall flat.
It sounds like you absolutely DREAD "making a fool" out of yourself. My advice to you would be to dedicate the next month or two or ten to repeatedly.........make a fool out of yourself! Get this toxin out of your system. Loosen the F up. Realize that you are going to die someday and that living free of these debilitating mental constraints and being YOU is all that really matters. Women AND men both fear rejection, but what separates the latter from the former is that they "face the fear and go for it anyway". Stop digging up facts and articles and numbers that essentially render you a quadriplegic, both figuratively and literally.
Personally, I don't give a sh1t about the percentage of chicks that are linked up with a dude. Means nothing to me because I choose for it to mean nothing. Instead, I ALWAYS assume the girl is single until it is blatantly brought to my attention that she is, in fact, taken. Have I nearly had to go toe to toe with some other dude because of this? Yes, but the better questions in my eyes are: has this kept me approaching and disregarding anything that stands in the way of my goal? Does this build character? Does this continue to drive my confidence and belief in myself higher and higher? What do you think...

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Telling the truth isn't being "defeatist". It's just telling the truth. Women can get boyfriends easier than men can get girlfriends and that's the truth. It's the 20%/80% rule at its finest.

No, but using "the truth" to justify why you aren't getting what you want IS defeatist. By the tone of your posts I'd swear that you have your walls at home completely covered with demotivational posters of weary average frustrated chumps sinking into their sofas on a Friday night all by their lonesome. Why not invest the bulk of your energy in learning and attempting to beat the odds instead of looking for more and more ways to get crushed by them?

 

[zekko]

Granted, most of the quality women are in relationships, no doubt.

Yeah, I know plenty of pretty young women who are carousel riders, strippers, single mothers, or just dumber than a box of rocks. But the women who are attractive AND quality (the types that I tend to connect with) are all married - at least the ones that I know right now, at this point in my life. Next month it may change.

 

[bcollarmechanic]

would have to agree on some part, mainly a lot of girls are already in relationships, few girls i was interested in, i found out soon enough they were taken, and nobody special, just some average guy

the whole "get into a relationship and theres single girls everywhere" has been a lie for me lol, ive heard it a lot but never experienced it, ive been in a few ltrs and i never got more attention or more opportunities with others chicks because of it

but you only live once and people couldnt care less about what you do as long as it doesnt directly affect them, no body cares if you make a fool of your self approaching so just approach

 

[latinnova]

There are a lot of fine girls out there that are single. But they all come with some kind of baggage. Just have to sift through it all, take the least damaged product you can find.

But, I can say this the one girl, with who I am great friends with, would be the one I would drop all others for if she was not married. She had hinted to me multiple times that we would be a better match, but seeing as she is married I do not even drop the little bit of interest, just continue being friends, and perhaps she might be single before I am not. Wishful thinking, I know, but it is what it is.

 

[boilingpoint]

A sorry a$$ attitude.

1)Women don't care about looks like men do. So you thinking you look better than 95% of boyfriends means diddly sh1t.

2)You are handicapping yourself by making excuses. 18/20 women in college have boyfriends? I think not.....

You're a fool. Women are into looks just as much as guys but they still reject good looking guys since they want chemistry right off the bat. It's called being spoilt for choice.

All cute chicks will have guys in the pipeline or one they're crazy about, but can't have and comparing to every other guy. She'll settle for whichever guy is the most persistent.