Most and Least Attractive Male Hobbies

Gamisch

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I'm surprised clubbing, marijuana, and drinking are on the list of unattractive hobbies. From what I've seen, men who partake in those hobbies have an easy time getting a woman.

I'm also surprised that comic books only barely made the list of unattractive hobbies. I'd guess comic books are perhaps the least attractive hobby.

After all, who's going to struggle more with the ladies? A real life Sheldon Cooper (comic book fanatic)? Or a man who goes clubbing and smokes weed?

Makes me question the validity of the list.
Gotta understand the context.

Women apparently meant THEIR partner/date/lover .

If she dates you, she doesn't like it whenever you do an activity that MIGHT include being around other women.

Collecting comics is innocent. It's neither cool nor corny.
 

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I have a bookcase full off European comics/graphic novels (like Milo Manara, Moebius, Hugo Pratt, Franquin, Walthèry) and a few American comics (Calvin & Hobbes, Pogo, Krazy Kat), that I've been collecting since I was 10-12 years old.
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While most women are not really attracted to my collection, a few enjoyed perusing them, and my collection never negatively influenced my attractiveness. However, I'm not a Comic Con nerd, so maybe the data (which seems to be based on American women, not European) wouldn't see my collection as 'comix collector'.
Yeah: Superhero and Star Wars comics are what drive off most red-blooded heterosexual women For all the "systemic" challenges facing modern men, we here in The Anglosphere have been stabbing ourselves through the temporal lobe with an ice pick for over a decade now, by putting down cash on everything The MCU has churned out after Avengers I

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pretty much became the norm throughout our culture from the late '10s-the present, despite the fact that (as recently as the beginning of the prior decade), that sort of crap being unacceptable was self-explanatory
 

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I've got an American friend that speaks primarily speaks English but also Russian and Spanish. It's like magic when he runs across a girl at a bar and uses it.

Two of my favorite hobbies are attractive to a lot of the women I run across and have opened many doors for me.

The more interests and hobbies you have, the greater your chances of connecting with someone.
 
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Great thread for discussion.
I would want to see an age demographic, I would imagine others seeing different perspectives from their 20’s through their 30’s.

To add:
Astronomy is what women delve on because they need a sense of direction, regardless if it is proven or not. I’ve had great success with spiritual and astronomical talks
To add to this: women love the entertainer and the artist. What do they have in common? They exist to perform for the world whether actively or passively. To create fantasies. Learn to write, read some books, or some other activity if you want to be attractive in your hobby.

Personally, the hobby doesn't ever sell the man. The man sells the hobby.
 

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Yeah: Superhero and Star Wars comics are what drive off most red-blooded heterosexual women
The thing is that I started my collection with Guust Flater (Gaston Lagaffe by André Franquin)
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and my collection slowly grew to encompass comics aimed at adults with books by Milo Manara and Hugo Pratt and Moebius
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I wasn't into the immature superhero adventures and I didn't dress up like a cartoon character. Even the American comix that I liked were Fritz the Cat from Robert Crumb and Krazy Kat by George Herriman and, later, Calvin & Hobbes by Bill Watterson.

So women don't think my collection is 'childish' or 'immature'.
 

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To add to this: women love the entertainer and the artist. What do they have in common? They exist to perform for the world whether actively or passively. To create fantasies. Learn to write, read some books, or some other activity if you want to be attractive in your hobby.

Personally, the hobby doesn't ever sell the man. The man sells the hobby.
That's the biggest problem with threads like these. While this 'data' could give you a clue why she didn't enjoy your cigar smoking or collection of matchbox cars, some members might be drawn to pursue a hobby that has 'female approval', but that rarely works out, just as you should read because you like to read, not because you want to appear more intellectual or attractive to women.
 
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