More Young Men Giving Up On Marriage Because Women Aren't Women Anymore

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Maybe a woman over 27 won't give him the time of day.

How do you know the girls don't 'break it off' with him after 2-6 months because they find another sugar daddy?

A 45 year old experienced man having sexual relations with a 23 year girl who just graduated college? That's not a relationship, that's a mistress.



Or these men don't know how to get married and get a woman pregnant.

What does our 'government policy making' have to do with 'unlimited female sexual partners.'? The way a man looks, his height, his hair, his dress, his education, his friends, his overall presentation has nothing to with what a government decides to do. Imagine a man going to the top actress in Hollywood, 'hey, our government said women get 50% in a divorce, now come sleep me.'

Brutal.
The man I am referring to is Desdinova. Ask him directly. When I interviewed him he was dating a 23 year old. He even has a well argued theory about women and age. He argues that women over 27 come with a host of problems.

Call it what you want, he is over 40, successful and has a 23 year old gf/Mistress.

In regards to government....I admit, the morals and values of our culture are the primary source for unlimited sex partners. Government is secondary, so I might edit that.

One thing I will say with certainty is you will have absolutely no success whatsoever going up to an actress or the maid and saying "now come sleep with me."

Fortunately, I am an expert at getting women to have sex, if you need help I am happy to give you some tips. Do you need help opening?
 

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The man I am referring to is Desdinova. Ask him directly. When I interviewed him he was dating a 23 year old. He even has a well argued theory about women and age. He argues that women over 27 come with a host of problems.
Fair enough. I could argue that women over 27 are too mature for him.

Call it what you want, he is over 40, successful and has a 23 year old gf/Mistress.
Not sure what 'successful' is, but OK. On another note, you don't know if he is paying her to be his mistress. Remember, people don't tell others everything, they tell others what will make them look good. Especially anonymous people on the internet.

In regards to government....I admit, the morals and values of our culture are the primary source for unlimited sex partners. Government is secondary, so I might edit that.
:)

One thing I will say with certainty is you will have absolutely no success whatsoever going up to an actress or the maid and saying "now come sleep with me."
I've been pretty direct before with results.

Fortunately, I am an expert at getting women to have sex, if you need help I am happy to give you some tips. Do you need help opening?
Sure give some tips. Let's go for the opening.
 

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Structured openers? Like JGF? Or a longer theoretical discussion of opening/mindset, etc.? I cover that in my book. The key is to recognize that feeling like fear and anxiety are chemical and structurally designed into the brain. I use techniques and systematic applications of tools to deal with these emotions.

Much of this just comes down to work/practice (I have my guys opening 3 women a day, etc). I also use a system similar to Anti Dumps Machine. It is different in important and fundamental ways, but has a similar structure.

Wifey just brought me dinner, brb.
 

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Since the 1960 where i live marriage been around 20%.. divorce raté around 60%

We removed religion from our lives... churchs are been turned into condo and library, concert hall

Out of my city, 100 church.. only 10 works regularly

People always associated marriage to religion.. that's death

Civil marriage came in.. people found out that love wasnt worth the légal paper.

Why get married? When you can just live together
Life minus the sacred = the new barbarism.
 

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What is the purpose of marriage in modern times anyway? Everything eventually loses its relevance over time. For instance we don't still use horses and carriages for transportation or typewriters to write or dial-up for Internet anymore these days. Why not accept that marriage might be a Dinosaur past its prime?
Morality does not work like technology. It has a timeless essence, which every age in its own way will be drawn to one way or another. In contrast, you can see a linear progress to technology which is primarily about power. I wonder if one subverts the other.
 

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everything is going as planned.


the end goal is complete individualism. everyone will live in tiny single person living units, instant connection to the internet will be used to keep everyone in full blown virtual reality. in the real world drugs and crime ill be rampant, ala judge dredd type ****.


the family unit destroyed,nationalism vanquished, population in check, feudalism in full effect with the rich and powerful at the top and the masses controlled and subdued and used for resources. the nefarious aspect of this is we are allowing it, wanting it to happen. technology will enslave us. its just like the old adage of slowly cooking the frog in the water...he doesnt even know hes slowly being boiled until the water gets too hot and it is too late.

so basically you clowns need to realize this is much greater then "feminism". if you dont think the flip us (us men) arent just as fked up as these girls are then you are out of your mind. social engineering has destroyed the identities of all sexes and this is just the beginning. there is much larger plan at work and these things you guys are experiencing are just symptoms of a terminal illness of this planet.
Viva la revolution!:)
 

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Imo the best moments in life are right after you cvm. It's the only time your body gives your mind peace and lets it be free of the obsessive haze that it normally exists in, for a moment. It's also my #1 tool for filtering women, is if I think I still want to be with her after I've cvmmed.

All the bullsh!t you go through with women, money you waste, effort you spend, has to feel like it's for something more in the end than relieving an urge. If it isn't, it's not worth it the time and energy. I personally can't wait for the day when I'm not compelled to think about women anymore and can just enjoy life.
This is hedonism. A life which is just about the pursuit of pleasure is self-destructive. Ask any addict.
 
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However, 1997 was about the time the whole self-help/men's seduction market took a foothold and began to take off to become what it is today: a multi-million dollar industry that is oversaturated with interest and competition. Books, websites, tv-shows, youtube channels, seminars, cinema movies, dating coaches, etc. Even women want to get into the market of helping men with their game. The fundamental idea of not putting women on a pedestal went big time and mainstream.

I don't think the drop in one and the rise of the other is a coincidence. Feminism is certainly a factor in it all, but I believe this trend is being driven by a men's movement within a market that aims to teach men to stop behaving like doormats.
Excellent observation! The internet and its ability for alternative memes to find sustenance should be thought of as the anti-pill (i.e., The Pill) in how much it has changed attitudes.
 

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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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The man I am referring to is Desdinova. Ask him directly. When I interviewed him he was dating a 23 year old. He even has a well argued theory about women and age. He argues that women over 27 come with a host of problems.

Call it what you want, he is over 40, successful and has a 23 year old gf/Mistress.
I'm 39. My GF just turned 24. I only had a mistress when I was married. I think you might be getting me mixed up with bigneil.

you don't know if he is paying her to be his mistress.
Why in hell would I pay for sex when I can get it for free? She's always buying me 5hit, so maybe she's the one paying for me :eek:

Anyway, back on topic...

There are two classes, one I call "Failure to Launch." These are the young guys living in their parents basement.

The other group are older guys, what I call High Achieving Men Opt Out Syndrome ." These guys went after education, careers, families and then got ****ed over by the system.
I honestly believe that men should be throwing away women who show themselves to be trash. Tattoos? Garbage. Orbiters? Garbage. Disrespect? Garbage. Can't cook? Garbage. Single mom? Garbage.

Women who are garbage are already crying out that there's no good men. That's only a half-truth. Good men are difficult to come by, but they do exist. However, good men are going to filter out the garbage, and that means a large majority of the women out there. Good men are either going to remain single, or they're going to fvck and dump until they find someone worthy of keeping.

The problem is women are currently in control of the content released into mainstream media. Men aren't going to get the message out that tattoo-covered self-righteous single moms with a plethora of orbiters are undesirable and unattractive because the women are busy telling everyone that they ARE attractive. They don't realize that the only people who see them as attractive are other women

I'm not sure how things are going to change in the future. Perhaps the rise of trannies posing a threat to women will usher in a wave of strong men to set things straight. Perhaps not. Only time will tell.
 

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LMAO such a beta move. Why not just jump up and down in front of her, waving your hands and screaming "Pick me! Pick me!"
Sn overt attempt to control her by shaking her confidence, which obviously she saw right thru. You want to know why she chose to blatantly hurt you by dropping the bomb that she wasn't on love with you? Because you tried to play these games with her in an effort to make her second guess potential thoughts of moving on from you with, in her mind, younger, better men.
Your negging backfired and she got the last neg in. She had you in HER frame all along, you just didn't see it.
Anytime you are getting mad at someone.. I know that guy is doing or saying something right.
 

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Anytime you are getting mad at someone.. I know that guy is doing or saying something right.
Brilliant!

@sazc and @BeExcellent both snapped today - on the very same day. Why today? It's my birthday. My most powerful day of the year. They are wilting from my power.

Both wished the worst for me, both tried to revise history and say a previous lover dumped me (the truth was, I dumped her the moment she started to pull away). Both tried to rub in the fact that I am no longer with a girl so young and hot that they had steam coming out their ears ever since I first mentioned her. Both took back anything nice they ever pretended to say (trust me, neither of them ever had anything nice to say - they went from skeptical to pleased to raging). Both revealed that they are not without guile. They cannot be trusted. They will tell you what they think you want to hear, all the while plotting and scheming against you, collecting details they can use against you. They do not belong here in male forum and are no longer welcome.

My only question is this: are they the same person?



 

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Brilliant!

@sazc and @BeExcellent both snapped today - on the very same day. Why today? It's my birthday. My most powerful day of the year. They are wilting from my power.

Both wished the worst for me, both tried to revise history and say a previous lover dumped me (the truth was, I dumped her the moment she started to pull away). Both tried to rub in the fact that I am no longer with a girl so young and hot that they had steam coming out their ears ever since I first mentioned her. Both took back anything nice they ever pretended to say (trust me, neither of them ever had anything nice to say - they went from skeptical to pleased to raging). Both revealed that they are not without guile. They cannot be trusted. They will tell you what they think you want to hear, all the while plotting and scheming against you, collecting details they can use against you. They do not belong here in male forum and are no longer welcome.

My only question is this: are they the same person?
Women hate that men have more "time" in life to reproduce and increase their market value the same way men hate that women don't have to work for sex.

I don't think they are the same person. @BeExcellent is generally more level headed and consistent in what she says. I think they both snapped today because the truth hurts.
 

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hey guys check out a couple of these strippers im banging...the asian one is named lingling and the blonde i bedded on the frist night ;) i took her to the vip and dropped 700 bucks on her but it was worth it because i can tell she wants me. u wish u could get em like this hahah @bigneil 312123.jpg 1212.jpg


ohyeah i took these myself with my dslr
 

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Well happy late birthday Neil. May you have a wonderful birthday and an abundant new year.
 

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I'm 39. My GF just turned 24. I only had a mistress when I was married. I think you might be getting me mixed up with bigneil.
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I'm not sure how things are going to change in the future. Perhaps the rise of trannies posing a threat to women will usher in a wave of strong men to set things straight. Perhaps not. Only time will tell.
No, it was you. I thought you were over 40. I know it was not mistress, I was responding to the claim it was your mistress. I mentioned you because you match perfectly my Successful male opt out paradigm. In fact I coined the term after I interviewed you. Remember, the bunch of questions I asked? I also read your high score theory theory.

In any event, guys, good marriages are possible. I am 55, not particularly rich, and my wife will rob banks for me. 15 years younger than me(40 but looks 32) that is her in my avatar, pic is 10 years old but she has not aged. Treats me extremely well, brings home a fat paycheck and either buys or cooks me dinner everynight.

She is a product of my system. It is all about picking the right one (I devote several chapters to this process in my book) and then managing the relationship properly.

It is not easy, you must be disciplined and do the work. It gets easier after a while, but you still must do daily maintanence. Women operate from a "Process oriented Paradigm." Men operate from a Problem-solution Paradigm. You can't properly manage a relationship using the problem solution Paradigm. It is brain chemistry and evolutionary hardwiring. The paradigms were necessary for survival. You need both types.

You can view brain differences using MRI. This is real science.
 

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It is not easy, you must be disciplined and do the work. It gets easier after a while, but you still must do daily maintanence.
What kind of maintenance are you referring to? My gf is very low maintenance. However, it's possible that the maintenance you're referring to is just stuff I do automatically. If you're referring to emotional fluctuation, I do that without even thinking about it. I'll piss her off after making some smart ass comment, and then I won't apologize for it. I know I've done it when she calls me a d1ck or an *******.

I've found that different women need different levels of emotional fluctuation. The ones that bring tons of drama into their lives need lots of fluctuation. Ones who just have friends because their lives are drama-filled but have little-to-no drama in their own lives don't need a lot of emotional fluctuation. In other words, some women absolutely love a ride on the rollercoaster, some just like watching it.
 

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Always amusing when men will attempt to so viciously shame other men who refuse to tow the party line. Even on a site like this. @Trump posts could have easily been written by a post menopausal women. Calling a man "immature" because he prefers younger women. Really...?
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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