Hmmm....
I read over the conversations you had with these Tinder chicks. You said you've been trying to build up more rappaport with them,but things still seem to be falling apart when you go for the date/number. I was trying to think of a delicate way to put this,but....I....I just can't simply find one.
Your conversations are...well.....
HORSESH1T. Just look at the topics you discuss.....
Ariel/"My little mermaid"
Serial killers
Pedophiles
getting kidnapped
being homeless on the streets
Dogs/sheep dogs/australian shephards. You talk about how smart they are and how they have great attitudes.
you even mentioned possibly meeting.....the
DOG.
You need to learn how to flirt better. It's not that your topics are horrible (well,not
all),you just need to get more ATTRACT based conversation. All you stuff is like comfort.
I don't do tinder,but do online dating,like Cupid. I just get to the point....like,I'll ask a chick out in the FIRST message. Do I expect her to just simply say yes? Course not,but that NOT THE PURPOSE of me asking her out from jump....it's to get a conversation going where us going out is THE TOPIC OF DISCUSSION. Then me flirting doesn't seem out of the blue because that's part of the subject matter.
Like I'll ask a girl out,then I'll mention how near year's eve is bout to show up and how I'm gonna need someone to hug and kiss on while ringing in the new year...with a smiley face with a sly grin. You got to get the ATTRACT based convo going FIRST,then you go to comfort later. You're all over the place.....pedophiles,kidnapping,being homeless,meeting people's pets,etc,etc.
Stop being around the bush,and get to the point. And just ask when is she gonna "hang out" with you,I'd drop the "coffee" line,you can decide on what the "activity" will be after she agree.
You just need to flirt more and let the TWO OF YOU MEETING be the main subject instead of going all over the place with all these different random convos.