More reaons not to LTR a single mommy!

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There's already a thread on this. And in the interest of fairness, I dated 3 other single moms who were great. I didn't post any threads on them of course, since I don't have any questions about those relationships. One of them I was with for 3 1/2 years. We split up on very good terms. We're still friends.

Oh, and also in the interest of fairness, this is an example of a messed up female in action. Mommy has nothing to do with it. And to be perfectly fair, it's also an example of an AFC in action. :p
 

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Re: Re: More reaons not to LTR a single mommy!

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
So does that mean that the other 98% of all posts on this site that DON'T deal with single mothers are "More reasons not to date single non-mothers"?
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blu- what your deal?

live and let live

hell if i was even borderline thinking about a single mom nothing you have written would have changed my perspective
 

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Different thread, same dead horse.
 

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I guess blu thought starting one thread on this topic wasn't enough.

Listen blu, you can have your opinion... everyone can have their own opinions. But you can't force your opinion down people's throats if they don't agree with you.

It's still based on generalizations, like a lot of decisions and opinions are. Not all single mothers are the same, just as not all women are the same, just as not all human beings are the same.

I will be the first to admit that there are ****ed up people in this world... but by saying "Oh I've documented so-and-so cases of people doing this..." doesn't mean that EVERY person does that. There are a lot of things I can say about parents or non-parents, or men or women, or people with "blu" in their name... but it doesn't hold true for every case.

You just have to let people judge everything on a case-by-case basis. No one is trying to tell you that you have to date a single mother, but you're never going to convince the ENTIRE world not to either. You might convince a lot of people, but let the rest of them have their own opinions based on their own experiences ... and you can have yours, based on your experiences.

I'm not starting a national "DATE THE SINGLE MOTHERS" campaign... there's no need for you to start a "DON'T DATE A SINGLE MOTHERS" movement.
 

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Originally posted by ZeeOwl
There's already a thread on this. And in the interest of fairness, I dated 3 other single moms who were great. I didn't post any threads on them of course, since I don't have any questions about those relationships. One of them I was with for 3 1/2 years. We split up on very good terms. We're still friends.

Oh, and also in the interest of fairness, this is an example of a messed up female in action. Mommy has nothing to do with it. And to be perfectly fair, it's also an example of an AFC in action. :p
Definitely a messed up woman who happens to be a mother. Single moms aren't bad as long as they are good parents and understand that the man in their life is as important as their children. Not an easy thing to do so it if anyone finds single mother with her act together, don't discount her so easily just because she has crumb snatchers.

Oh yeah, my ex-wife had a three year old and a sixteen year old when we married. Overall, one of the best decades of my life, no regrets.
 
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