More attracted to cute women than hot women?

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I find myself more drawn to women who rate as cute as opposed to hot. Anybody else feel the same?

I rate myself as a 7 to 7.5, perhaps we subconsciously think a cute girl (also 6.5 to 7.5) is more in our league?

Check out this video and go to 6:50. The woman on the right is the epitome of "cuteness" and I would not call her hot. I was immediately attracted to her.

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I find myself more drawn to women who rate as cute as opposed to hot. Anybody else feel the same?

I rate myself as a 7 to 7.5, perhaps we subconsciously think a cute girl (also 6.5 to 7.5) is more in our league?

Check out this video and go to 6:50. The woman on the right is the epitome of "cuteness" and I would not call her hot. I was immediately attracted to her.

| RUSSIA | How Beautiful Are You From 0 to 10? - YouTube
Yeah I definitely feel the same way, always have for some reason
 

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I would seperate face and body when talking about cute. Her body can only be hot or not, but the face is where many nuances and variables come into play. She can have cute face, hot face, gorgeous face, but I can't be attracted to cute face without a hot body, even if I prefer it over hot and gorgeous. So I wouldnt call cute a 7 (numbers suck anyway).
 

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I am much more attracted to a chick who has a naturally cute/beautiful look than a woman who has a made up/sexy look. Probably because I am as much or more attracted to a woman's personality as her looks.

The cute girl next door look does it for me. Not some bean pole Victoria Secret model.

If a woman can be just as attractive with little or no makeup and her hair pulled up as she is when she gets decked out for a formal event, I seem to really be allured to it.
 

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It could stem from inner insecurity, as you said.
Also, the hotter the woman, usually the more crazy she is.
Sometimes as men, we just want our peace.
 

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A hot girl is a cute girl with more makeup, more done to her hair.
 

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If she puts a lot of effort into her appearance, she's likely going to be high-maintenance.
 

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No woman is hot without makeup and fake parts.

It is interesting that the 4s, 5s and 6s rate themselves 9s and 10s while the cute girls have a more modest approach.

I guess thats proof for the wisdom that mediocre women are in general more annoying then the cute ones.

Simps simping hard for mediocre pvssy (supposedly low hanging fruit) are to blame for this.
 

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Ive been with those girls who get lazy and stop looking good for you. Hard pass for me.
I like a head turner when she walks in the room
Yeah if she's not naturally cute, there's going to be issues one way or the other imo. You want a girl who puts some effort in, but not someone who needs a entire makeup department to look good.
 

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Not true, I've seen many 10s with no makeup, nails, etc. Go to Russia, Ukraine, Slovakia and places like that.

I'm dating a solid 9 from Slovakia. She is 99% natural. She is almost perfect (for my tastes of course)
I concur, my dad is Slovak and we are gorgeous. ;)
 

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Interestingly, no one has mentioned that everyone's reaction on this thread, with one exception, is the key reason for hoeflation.
 
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