Modern Polygamy is the death of civilisation

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When 5% of men have 50% of the women there are disastrous effects as numerous amounts of men are left without the stabilising force of a family and become unsatisfied with society. This desperation to get into a relationship leads to crime, terrorism, and war.

The top 10 countries for polygamy are currently in a civil war as young men die just for a chance to gain a wife
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The west is heading in the same direction as Online Dating has let a small minority of men once again monopolise the sexual market place.

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Being poly is natural. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Certainly wouldn’t prefer to be married in a sexless marriage just because it’s what’s socially expected of me. Fvck that right up the wazoo
 

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I'll bet 5% of the men control all the wealth in those countries as well. What's that tell you about women seeking men for what they can provide? They are willing to tolerate other women for financial security.

As far as male virginity increasing, I have no doubt why. Too many 15-35 year old men lack masculinity relative to older generations. Too many of you guys were raised my single mommies and your dad was absent.

I've seen it right here in sosuave. Been a member since 2008.
 

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You met women from Tinder so you are part of the 5%?
 

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Nothing wrong with being a male virgin though. Sex is not like eating where its a necessary part of life.

The Traditional Marriage system where every guy got married at 21 as long he worked any job gave men unrealististic (and unnatural) expectations.

Men need to understand they neither NEED nor DESERVE sex from women.

But hey, sex (or the promise of it) sells and what better way to motivate and manipulate young men than by using their desire for sex.
 

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Nothing wrong with being a male virgin though. Sex is not like eating where its a necessary part of life.

The Traditional Marriage system where every guy got married at 21 as long he worked any job gave men unrealististic (and unnatural) expectations.

Men need to understand they neither NEED nor DESERVE sex from women.

But hey, sex (or the promise of it) sells and what better way to motivate and manipulate young men than by using their desire for sex.
Pretty sure being a virgin sucks, it sucked for every dude I knew growing up.

As I've said before, sex is the only double entry on Maslow's Hierarchy chart.

Kind of a weird post tbh.
 

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When 5% of men have 50% of the women there are disastrous effects as numerous amounts of men are left without the stabilising force of a family and become unsatisfied with society. This desperation to get into a relationship leads to crime, terrorism, and war.

The top 10 countries for polygamy are currently in a civil war as young men die just for a chance to gain a wife
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The west is heading in the same direction as Online Dating has let a small minority of men once again monopolise the sexual market place.

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If I recall correctly you are east European.

I am love watching interviews with Russian prisoners of war. But what stood out to me was that ALL those guys were married. I've seen like 40 video's and literally all of them were married. Didn't matter if the man was 19 y.o or 50 y.o, bald or a Greek God , all of them had a wife. And PRETTY women too (mostly).

I am not sure if these men would also be married if they lived in a western country. What do you think about this?
 

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If I recall correctly you are east European.

I am love watching interviews with Russian prisoners of war. But what stood out to me was that ALL those guys were married. I've seen like 40 video's and literally all of them were married. Didn't matter if the man was 19 y.o or 50 y.o, bald or a Greek God , all of them had a wife. And PRETTY women too (mostly).

I am not sure if these men would also be married if they lived in a western country. What do you think about this?
I'm of Caucasian descent (think Dagestani and Chechan) most people in my culture get married and have children. In the west most couples adopt dogs instead of kids.

There seems to be a real agenda against people getting married in the west, there is 100% a concentrated effort by the elites to lower the birth rates.
 

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Pretty sure being a virgin sucks, it sucked for every dude I knew growing up.

As I've said before, sex is the only double entry on Maslow's Hierarchy chart.

Kind of a weird post tbh.
Sex is primarily for reproduction. Some of you guys are too desperate and demanding.

You want sex because you want a sense of love and validation. The more stressed you are the more you want sex. It is all weakness.

Polygamy is not gonna be about some 23yr old Chad from Tinder. Plygamy will benefit real Alpha Males who can change society, look after men and women in their community, bring about positive change etc. These are gonna be men in the 40s, not 20s. We are just not there yet.

Why should you or anyone get laid? What have these men done to make the world a better place for humanity? Where are the women saying you are the bomb, where are the women that came into your system cos it brought them happiness.
 

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As far as male virginity increasing, I have no doubt why. Too many 15-35 year old men lack masculinity relative to older generations. Too many of you guys were raised my single mommies and your dad was absent.
Hmmm... 15-35 year old men lack masculinity... Raised by single mothers because dads bailed... Dads are presumably a generation older than 15-35 and are thus relatively more masculine... So masculine dads created the current generation of pvssies by being so damn masculine they said "fvck it" to caring about family and just left?

Sounds like you're saying too much masculinity is causing too little masculinity? Maybe the current generation of feminized men will produce the next generation of masculine men then? That is if they ever get so far as to reproduce...

I'm just tired and throwing around thoughts, but I found it funny that you're essentially saying the absent dad generation is basically more masculine and it's failing epically.
 

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Civilization works as long as EVERYONE has at least something to lose.

Nowadays it's not even about getting laid, have a family or a decent job...the average man is a walking target for anyone wheter it's predatory women, taxation, toxicity and so on.

Even if you're a nerd working by himself in a lab and retreating to play videogames in your hole, they will come after you demanding to videogames to be more inclusive, for you to pay higher utility bills for the "environment", more taxes to help whatever useless demographics their decided need more help.

It's like that guy that build a tank out of a truck due to frustration but on a bigger general scale.
 

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Hi Zimbabwe,
What a crazy post...These ten countries that supposedly represent Western Civilization are mostly unknown to me...Burkina Faso?....The young Men are fighting because they were pressganged into it by War Lords bankrolled by Religious Zealots in the Arab Nations..The happiest places are those with relaxed svexual attitudes,Margarat Meade studied the Samoans and found them the happiest folk she had come across,Thor Heyardall similarly thought that of the Tahitians...Many years ago the Royal Navy sent a Boat called the Bounty to Tahiti,Its Sailors were so blown away by the Islanders laid back life style that they mutinied and put their Captain over the Side....So Zimbo I am Fletcher Christian you are Captain Bligh,It's over the side with you,a longboat a compass and some rations and off you go...Me and the Boys have our Beautiful Island Girls and it's off to Pitcairn!
 
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Nothing wrong with being a male virgin though. Sex is not like eating where its a necessary part of life.

The Traditional Marriage system where every guy got married at 21 as long he worked any job gave men unrealististic (and unnatural) expectations.

Men need to understand they neither NEED nor DESERVE sex from women.

But hey, sex (or the promise of it) sells and what better way to motivate and manipulate young men than by using their desire for sex.
Wrong.
 

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Imagine being such an entitled loser that your just a 22yr old guy and you think you DESERVE to get laid but you aint **** and aint done ****.

At the end of the day, guys like me are doing alot in the game, i have learnt and developed and done alot since I was 22. So what I am gonna get for that for if some 22yr old nobody kid is gonna be getting laid too.

If every young 20yr old punk kid is getting laid then what does a 40yr old Alpha Male get.

You guys just need to show respect to older experienced guys. We come from a marriage based system where every average guy and even below got married and got laid. We are not in that system anymore and we are moving away from it everyday.

Young 20s boys are still getting laid because most 35-55yr old men are into marriage and monogamy. When it changes and those older men start competing with the 20-25yr old boys for the 19yr old girls, those 20-25 yr old boys will soon realise its a mans world not a boy world.

In a real competitive world as laid out by nature for elite species like humans, sex is primarily for the best whether the top 5% or 50% but it sure aint an equality thing like we had historically with every guy getting it.

Manopshere/Red Pill whatever content creators are pushing this narrative that all men inc young nobodies should be getting laid, but in this world the Alpha Males havent yet spoken. When the Alpha Males take their position everything else has to change and accomodate it.

Women want real Alpha Males not entitled 20yr old nobodies with 0 Game and Masculinity.

Its about respect for Masculinity, Alpha and Game. The average guy, especially young guy, has too little so he shouldnt be getting laid. It looks like this is where its gonna go, even Chad will be dominated by Alpha.
 

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Imagine being such an entitled loser that your just a 22yr old guy and you think you DESERVE to get laid but you aint **** and aint done ****.

At the end of the day, guys like me are doing alot in the game, i have learnt and developed and done alot since I was 22. So what I am gonna get for that for if some 22yr old nobody kid is gonna be getting laid too.

If every young 20yr old punk kid is getting laid then what does a 40yr old Alpha Male get.

You guys just need to show respect to older experienced guys. We come from a marriage based system where every average guy and even below got married and got laid. We are not in that system anymore and we are moving away from it everyday.

Young 20s boys are still getting laid because most 35-55yr old men are into marriage and monogamy. When it changes and those older men start competing with the 20-25yr old boys for the 19yr old girls, those 20-25 yr old boys will soon realise its a mans world not a boy world.

In a real competitive world as laid out by nature for elite species like humans, sex is primarily for the best whether the top 5% or 50% but it sure aint an equality thing like we had historically with every guy getting it.

Manopshere/Red Pill whatever content creators are pushing this narrative that all men inc young nobodies should be getting laid, but in this world the Alpha Males havent yet spoken. When the Alpha Males take their position everything else has to change and accomodate it.

Women want real Alpha Males not entitled 20yr old nobodies with 0 Game and Masculinity.

Its about respect for Masculinity, Alpha and Game. The average guy, especially young guy, has too little so he shouldnt be getting laid. It looks like this is where its gonna go, even Chad will be dominated by Alpha.
 

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As far as male virginity increasing, I have no doubt why. Too many 15-35 year old men lack masculinity relative to older generations. Too many of you guys were raised my single mommies and your dad was absent.

I've seen it right here in sosuave. Been a member since 2008.
Yes, this makes sense to me.
 

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I'll bet 5% of the men control all the wealth in those countries as well. What's that tell you about women seeking men for what they can provide? They are willing to tolerate other women for financial security.

As far as male virginity increasing, I have no doubt why. Too many 15-35 year old men lack masculinity relative to older generations. Too many of you guys were raised my single mommies and your dad was absent.

I've seen it right here in sosuave. Been a member since 2008.
Because the quality of women has gone down.
 

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Because the quality of women has gone down.
This is true, but men are willing to dumpster dive. Men are thirstier and thirstier. There are also women with many orbiters and simps, such as OnlyFans girls.

As far as male virginity increasing, I have no doubt why. Too many 15-35 year old men lack masculinity relative to older generations. Too many of you guys were raised my single mommies and your dad was absent.
My dad was mostly absent from my life, though he was not fully absent until my parents' divorce at 15. My father's absence did affect my masculine development. I ended up learning a lot about being a man on the internet. My maternal grandfather was present in life and my uncle (mom's brother) has been involved in my life and continues to be. It's still not the same. My uncle was a phone call away during my teens and early 20s, especially after my father went full absent. There is a difference between a uncle doing the best he can from a longer distance and an active and present father. What I had was better than nothing.

Fathers are so important to their children.

With that said, I don't think a lack of fathers is the only factor in the increase in male sexlessness. There are plenty of sexless Millennial and Gen Z males that had a father present in their home lives, either as an active divorced dad or as a married dad. Boomer men that managed to stay married to Boomer women couldn't even prepare their sons for the sexual marketplace that Millennial men have faced since the early 2000s.
 
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