Iight. I met this girl at a party about a month ago through one of my good friends. Imediately she showed an attraction to me and I did the same to her as soon as we met. Now skipping ahead here a little bit, this girl is a very flirtatious friendly type girl who likes to drink and have fun and blah blah. Anyway, we pretty much spent the whole night together hangin out with her friends and my friends and everything seemed to click in one night and we both seemed to like eachother alot.
We hooked up later on and i spit some sweet words to her, not a big deal, but for some reason i really liked her alot and i wanted to know more about her...not just see how much i could do with her in one night. As the night went on everything was going fine and I figured we felt the same way about the situation based on how she acted around me that night and texting and all that. Well a few days later i found out she broke up with her BF who she was absolutley in love with for like 2 years and i was sort of in a wierd spot.
Now before i found that out i had told her that i liked her but not really how i felt. So the awkwardness went on and after like a week i didnt know what to say or how to tell her that i liked her alot and everything so i just backed off a little and just tried to be the nice guy that i am and just have a good time as friends and make her laugh. i eventually had a conversation with her about how she felt about her EX BF and obviously she still had strong feelings for him. So again i really didnt say anything i just continued to be sweet and kind to her and what not and whatever.
about 1-2 weeks i called her and told her how i felt and that the night we met wasn't about just hookin up but i wanted to get to know her alot better and everything. this went on for a few days and every time i got the same basic response like "no your lying to me. you don't mean that. stop." ETC ETC...and everytime i told her i really meant it and i wasn't screwing around lol..that really got me nowhere and after like another week 2 weeks we didnt really talk to eachother or hang out.
Now after these couple weeks we saw eachother at another one of the same parties and she gave me a look like she was surprised to see me. Later THAT night she calls me and out of the blue tells me all this crap that i give her a headache and how she really liked me but didn't want to like me (now i dunno who says that but the only possitive guess i can come up with is it had something to do with her ex bf, otherwise its bull****)....She told me also that a couple of her friends told her that we would be perfect for eachother and that she didn't know what to do.
I pretty much ignored all this since again she was drunk saying all this to me but the next few days she called me everyday and wanted to talked to me all the time so i started talking to her again. I'm prolly and dumbass for even sticking around but i really liked the girl and i dunno what the hel to do..
Another thing...I'm the type of dude who gets stuck in this type of situation ALOT..I don't know if it's the girls that i meet or somethin in the friggin food but my question is...
WHAT THE FUK....
We hooked up later on and i spit some sweet words to her, not a big deal, but for some reason i really liked her alot and i wanted to know more about her...not just see how much i could do with her in one night. As the night went on everything was going fine and I figured we felt the same way about the situation based on how she acted around me that night and texting and all that. Well a few days later i found out she broke up with her BF who she was absolutley in love with for like 2 years and i was sort of in a wierd spot.
Now before i found that out i had told her that i liked her but not really how i felt. So the awkwardness went on and after like a week i didnt know what to say or how to tell her that i liked her alot and everything so i just backed off a little and just tried to be the nice guy that i am and just have a good time as friends and make her laugh. i eventually had a conversation with her about how she felt about her EX BF and obviously she still had strong feelings for him. So again i really didnt say anything i just continued to be sweet and kind to her and what not and whatever.
about 1-2 weeks i called her and told her how i felt and that the night we met wasn't about just hookin up but i wanted to get to know her alot better and everything. this went on for a few days and every time i got the same basic response like "no your lying to me. you don't mean that. stop." ETC ETC...and everytime i told her i really meant it and i wasn't screwing around lol..that really got me nowhere and after like another week 2 weeks we didnt really talk to eachother or hang out.
Now after these couple weeks we saw eachother at another one of the same parties and she gave me a look like she was surprised to see me. Later THAT night she calls me and out of the blue tells me all this crap that i give her a headache and how she really liked me but didn't want to like me (now i dunno who says that but the only possitive guess i can come up with is it had something to do with her ex bf, otherwise its bull****)....She told me also that a couple of her friends told her that we would be perfect for eachother and that she didn't know what to do.
I pretty much ignored all this since again she was drunk saying all this to me but the next few days she called me everyday and wanted to talked to me all the time so i started talking to her again. I'm prolly and dumbass for even sticking around but i really liked the girl and i dunno what the hel to do..
Another thing...I'm the type of dude who gets stuck in this type of situation ALOT..I don't know if it's the girls that i meet or somethin in the friggin food but my question is...
WHAT THE FUK....