Mixed Signals. Need help!

[Bussey]

Okay here's the situation... its confused me to **** as to what the next move is....

Girl I met at work, high interest level right off the bat... Always catch her looking at me... anyways we flirt, kino, etc... anyways, she wants to hang out sometime, so she gives me her number and she takes mine.

Today at work she wants to know if I want to hang out tonight, and I say 'maybe but I might be going out with a few buddies', she says okay and goes back to work. Later when she finished her shift she comes over,

ME: What are you still doing here?
Her: I was shopping, I saw tons of stuff I wanted but decided to just get a thong.
Me: Oh yea?
Her: Yea, wanna see? (Starts ruffling around in her bag)
Me: Oh you're not wearing it?
Her: No, but I'll wear it tonight and show you then so its some enticement to go out!
Me: Haha we'll see.

So I get home, and she calls me asking if I was interested. I say, maybe but that I'd call her back.

So 20 minutes ago(11:40) I call and some guy picks up and goes 'oh its zach' she gets the phone and says 'whats up?' and I tell her (which was my plan all along) that I was busy and maybe some other time...

Now the question I have... is, is that the boyfriend? And I can't be for sure that it is, because I know she was having a couple people over, but I wouldn't answer a girls cell unless we were together... so what do I do next? try to hook up some other time? Ask her straight out? Next?
Thanks guys, I'm just leaving now, so look forward to reading **** in the morning.

 

[Saffs]

Common man, she showed you the thong she bought and told you she'd try it on for you. She asks you to go out ever other 5 minutes. Dude, this chick is into you, and I guarantee that you will **** her the night you actually do hang out with her. As far as the guy on the phone, I would just forget about it. If it was a boyfriend, which it probably wasn't, obviously it doesn't matter anyway with the way she was acting. Plus she would probably try to hide everything from him if he was, and she doesn't seem to be doing that. Let her ask you to hang out again, forget about the guy who answered the phone, and you should be all set to toss that freaky ***** around her room all night long. might wanna bust out the digital camera and send me those pic's of her in that thong.

-Nick

 

[Badmannaz]

*clears throat*


lot's of things wrong with this picture


1.Is she not hot for you not to go over??
2.Were you too tired??
3.Are you scared of competition
4.do you have self-confident issues
5.ARE YOU ALLERGIC TO WOMEN TELLING YOU THAT THEY'LL TRY ON THONGS FOR YOU IF YOU COME OVER??!!!!!!!!!!!!
6.Are you just scared of women??
7. Do you love rosey too much to actually have your D*ck inside a tight warm hole??
8.Are you banging another girl??
9.Does she have an STD??
10. Is she too young??

I ask these simple questions because they are all excuses i have heard from my buddies....F*ck Sosuave there is no reason why you shouldn't have went over there and tried to hook up with that chick.....Start thinkin for yourself homie!!! That's what the master DJ's are trying to teach us!!!!!!

I suggest you take your hand away from your nads and try to hook up with her it's not hard to see when women like you they wear there emotions on the sleeves...in all just go for it!!























11. umm are you gay?:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Bussey]

1.Is she not hot for you not to go over??
No shes very sexy.

2.Were you too tired??
I went out with this other girl which I planned yesterday.

3.Are you scared of competition
Nope, deal with it everyday. (business owner)

4.do you have self-confident issues
Not at all

5.ARE YOU ALLERGIC TO WOMEN TELLING YOU THAT THEY'LL TRY ON THONGS FOR YOU IF YOU COME OVER??!!!!!!!!!!!!
I told her she would have to do it next time and she agreed.

6.Are you just scared of women??
Nope

7. Do you love rosey too much to actually have your D*ck inside a tight warm hole??
LOL!!!

8.Are you banging another girl??
Not tonight, just a *******

9.Does she have an STD??
Not that I know of

10. Is she too young??
Nope shes my age.

Althought Its possible I could be gay :crackup:

 

[Badmannaz]

^^^^


lolz!!! you awnsered....but seriously those are not mixed feelings i hope you bang her
























:woo:

 

[Badmannaz]

oh and what business do you own?????


























:woo:

 

[TxCowboy]

Just read this dudes interpretation of what signals to look for ... very good ... check it

http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/showthread.php?t=5041

 

[Bussey]

Lol, yea I answered. I couldn't sleep lol.

I own a marketing company 'Strategic Partnerships' and a power washing business 'College Bound Power Washers'

 

[catch]

man,
dude how did you get a business your 19!!!!!!:cheer:

 

[Bussey]

Lol, I started College Bound Power Washers when I was 17, I got a government grant to do it and won 2 awards for the business plan.

http://www.ontariocanada.com/ontcan/page.do?page=5856
http://www.ontariocanada.com/ontcan/en/youth/success_stories/sc_zachary.jsp
(In the second link is a terrible picture of me lol, I look about 7 years old Lol.)

Its just something I had a lot of interest in, making money... I also ran a concert promotion agency (519 Sound Productions), which I have put on hold for now.....

 

[Badmannaz]

i wish i could do that how did u do that.

 

[Bussey]

Think of a good idea and write a business plan.. thats the start anyways... then if you are under 30 look into government programs that sponsor young entrepreneurs, you can get free money, and interest free loans. Its competitive, so be prepared to defend your plan infront of bank managers, industry professionals and professors... if they approve and like the concept you'll get the grant/loan.

 

[nectarine]

Yeah. What the hell is wrong with you?

Why the stupid f'n games? She's hot to trot and you're making excuses? And then you go limp because of another mans voice on the phone.

Well, the guys voice is understandable, but your reluctance... is not.

Like the other guy said, whoever the bozo on the phone was, he isn't a problem. If he was boyfriend she'd have been ****ting herself. If he's just boning her... what do you care? But he was probably just some guy, and you still don't care.

Next time: you aren't busy, and if you are i'd seriously reconsider your work-leisure priorities, at the age of 19. You aren't meant to be taking important calls for another decade yet!

 

[Bussey]

Lol didn't you read after that? I had plans with this other girl, so I went with her. Lol, and when I posted, wasn't really thinking it through. So appreciate the advice! Thinking clearer now lol

 

[Boner da Stoner]

where are you from?

Dude are thongs like flashing in your face all the time?

I'm sure that girl justs wants to prove to you as her AFC bestest in the whole wide world that she too can fit into society?

I don;t care!

Where I am from, if any girl tells you she will wear a thong, than later call to know if you are interested is anxiously awaiting your manly advances.

 

[Bussey]

It didn't have anything to do with the girl, I know she is into me, it was that I had other plans that night, and what knocked my stance was that the guy answering the phone coulda been me lol, it didn't have to do with me freezing up, or not being interested and losing my game. It just pushed me off my plateau, usually, (if I already have plans) the girl doesn't make other plans and chills at home that night, this one didn't follow that trend, so it shook me up lol.

I had plans with another girl, who sucked my ****, shoulda got more, but her friend showed up unannounced and it killed the night lol.

The girl is coming over to my house this weekend, making supper (I love to cook) and watching a movie and of course drinking (likely pop a bottle of champagne as I am addicted to it). Sunday, or based on things... Monday I'll post you a follow up lol.

 

[Bussey]

Okay this is a follow up to my original post.... (I've been out with a bunch of other chicks since lol, but still want to hook up with this one)

So since I first posted this the plot sort of thickened...

I called her last Saturday and left a very brief message telling her to call me back. She didn't call back... Kinda ticked, so this Friday I called back and she picked up and I told her that I was disappointed she hadn't called me back. She was just going into class and told me she would call me back... No Call back... So I decide thats it, I'm not putting up with this **** anymore.

Today(Sunday) I work with her. Kinda snub her when I first saw her and then on break she was there.. She says something, I just shake my head and ignore her.

She says something else, I look up and say 'Really let me down, thought you were better then that... Bad judge of character I guess'... She gets all appologetic and is begging me to forgive her and comes over and wraps her arms around my neck, then goes back to work after that.

End of the shift I'm cleaning up my department and she comes over behind me and wraps her arms around my stomach and asks me to hide her from out manager and at the same time shes rubbing her hand right at waist level (A little lower would have been money)... So I'm still kind of snubbing her, not giving her the attention she is basically begging for. Anyways I get back to work and a co-worker comes over and says 'You know she has a boyfriend right?" (the guy who answered the phone last post)

So I laugh and nod my head at her. IN the break room as we're punching out she comes over and wraps her arms around me and says 'I'm not letting go until you hug me back', so we stand there for like 30 seconds and I tell her if shes going to keep this up if she can massage my back while shes at it.

Manager is coming so I hug her back and then punch out. She says she'll make it up to me by buying me drinks at this bar she wants to take me too.

Lol, so my plan is to go and flirt with her friends and act partially disinterested in her.
Any comments would be appreciated.