Background:
I've been talking to this girl for a while. She usually initiates kino for no reason, and sometimes I kino her. We tease each other a lot, talk to each other, the likes. I recently got her number.
Situation:
I texted her and we had a short little flirty conversation. I ended it because I was tired. The next day, we flirted in class. She said something and my friends made it overtly sexual. I added in one comment ("We need to go to dinner before we do that"), she responded with a joke of her own, and that was it. My friends kept the innuendo going, but I didn't.
So later that day, I end up asking her to Prom. She says yes.
THEN...the next day, she texts me telling me she was really waiting for someone else to ask her, that she only said "yes" because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, and that she feels really awful about the whole thing. I respond with something along the lines of "Oh well, I'll have to find another girl".
Mistakes:
I think I wasn't aggressive enough with her.
#1: It took me a WHILE to finally ask for her number
#2: She initiated most of the kino and I didn't reciprocate most of it
#3: The whole sexual innuendo thing from the other day...I didn't take advantage of it to create sexual tension
#4: I developed a sort of half-assed one-itus for her
So I may be in the friend-zone with her, but I'm not sure. I've read ways to get out of the friend-zone (don't communicate as much for a little while, increase kino when you do communicate), so I may be OK there. But what do you guys think? Is she still interested, did I blow it completely, or am I partially in the friend-zone?
Also, should I still text her and should I ask her to hang out sometime? Obviously not now, but sometime soon? Should I still try to game her even though she's going with someone else to Prom?
I've been talking to this girl for a while. She usually initiates kino for no reason, and sometimes I kino her. We tease each other a lot, talk to each other, the likes. I recently got her number.
Situation:
I texted her and we had a short little flirty conversation. I ended it because I was tired. The next day, we flirted in class. She said something and my friends made it overtly sexual. I added in one comment ("We need to go to dinner before we do that"), she responded with a joke of her own, and that was it. My friends kept the innuendo going, but I didn't.
So later that day, I end up asking her to Prom. She says yes.
THEN...the next day, she texts me telling me she was really waiting for someone else to ask her, that she only said "yes" because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, and that she feels really awful about the whole thing. I respond with something along the lines of "Oh well, I'll have to find another girl".
Mistakes:
I think I wasn't aggressive enough with her.
#1: It took me a WHILE to finally ask for her number
#2: She initiated most of the kino and I didn't reciprocate most of it
#3: The whole sexual innuendo thing from the other day...I didn't take advantage of it to create sexual tension
#4: I developed a sort of half-assed one-itus for her
So I may be in the friend-zone with her, but I'm not sure. I've read ways to get out of the friend-zone (don't communicate as much for a little while, increase kino when you do communicate), so I may be OK there. But what do you guys think? Is she still interested, did I blow it completely, or am I partially in the friend-zone?
Also, should I still text her and should I ask her to hang out sometime? Obviously not now, but sometime soon? Should I still try to game her even though she's going with someone else to Prom?