Entitlement, which is essentially the expecation that we DESIRE something for some REASON by LAW or CONTRACT or RIGHT has become a common misperception amongst people these days.
In prior times, people were grateful to feed and shelter their kids. Opportunities were hard to come by, but when they appeared, people took them because they knew such things were few and far between. Moreover, they CREATED opportunities. They never expected things to just COME to them.
Chance
Providence
Luck
All these things came as a result of repeated EFFORT and WORK.
My aim is to get you to realize that no LAW of ENTITLEMENT exists, either in the constitution or the Bible with respect to WHAT YOU DESERVE or DON'T deserve. And that by this realization, all desire CAN only be obtained by getting it, AND, consequently, to NEVER ALLOW PEOPLE to obtain something that they have not worked for or given value for. This applies handily to women, as they can be the BIGGEST promoters of ENTITLEMENT EVER.
It's lethargic to assume that just by existence, we ought to have a good job, a great woman, a nice car, great friends, and so forth. The only thing fixed is that LIFE SHOULD RESPECT LIFE. We are all a part of life, of a force ebbing and flowing, and return it as such one day. We are all of the same entity, simply different processes inside.
Entitlement also consumes a woman who's beautiful into assuming she's deserving of some lifestyle or deserving of perfection. By what right, law, or contract was thus given this entitlement or claim?
You see, entitlements and claims are mere myths. Perceptions.
Nobody and nothing has any power except that which you give them.
You GIVE it power. You GIVE it thought (which is power). And you can take it away.
We are entitled through effort and work. If you work and create value, and increase the energy levels of those around you, you are entitled to MORE MONEY, and will receive it for giving.
I have worked alongside some very philanthropic and giving people, and have witnessed how value for value, and raising energy levels, and creation can benefit one another.
You and I are but 1 sperm and 1 egg. We are the result of the FASTEST, STRONGEST, and MOST CAPABLE sperm rushing to the available egg. Perhaps this is why men are competitive? One has to think, with 500,000,000 sperm rushing to one egg, we do the work to get there, the egg only sits back, shows up once a month and says "I'm here, come for me boys!!!"
Sort of gets to the mentality of women doesn't it? Even on the reproductive, microscopic level we're in pursuit and in competition. Being the result of the BEST and MOST ABLE, it only serves the purpose that the minute we win, THE RACE, THE GAME, IS ON! YOU'RE off and running. The egg/sperm combo is endowed with spirit, infused with mind through childhood, experience, and evironment, and becomes a body through life and genetics.
Brad Pitt in Fight Club noted such things, and you noticed how living in squalor, enabled them to enjoy the finer pursuits of life without the encumberences of too many doo-dads and too many needs.
You see, when you feel "entitled", when you're without these "entitlements," you feel lack.
If you EXPECT to have a girl NOW because your friends do, you'll feel bad until you get one, emitting negative energy.
If you expect to ALWAYS drive a new car, you will feel bad until you do, and you will feel worse because you allowed negative emotion to sucker you into a $500/month payment.
Can't the Ego at work be a devil? Always saying "we must, we must, we must." We must be respected, we must eat fatty foods, we must wear these clothes, we must have a girlfriend and be married by...."
When people say there's a matrix, there is, it's the Ego. It's that little voice programmed repeatedly by SO many voices that tries to tell you what to do, how to live, when to do things, what to feel, as if you're some robot.
When you realize entitlement exists on a grand scale, and slap it down, you realize that women can no longer come to expect things without giving in return. That TAKING without GIVING, is stealing, and one CAN'T steal energy, or life, from another being on this planet with creating lack and negative energy.
What's it all mean?
That at birth, you were preordained with only what you were given and told: MAKE SOMETHING OF THIS. SHOW ME WHAT MAN YOU ARE.
It's like being given a Lego Box, no directions, and missing pieces, and told to make the Sistine Chapel. That's life. It's a box of Legos, missing pieces, with no directions. You don't win the contest, there's no winning, because each person will create a work of beauty each unto their own eyes. That which lies beautiful to them.
It's only those who cry: I'm MISSING PIECES, I HAVE NO DIRECTIONS, I WANT A NEW BOX!!!!
Well...everybody is given a box of missing pieces, and some are given good directions (parents/friends/mentors). Some are given the pieces, but no directions and they lack creativity. No matter how you spin it, nobody is born complete.
We are entitled nothing but that which we work for. A guy who is jerk is honorable, yes honorable, because he has WORKED for what he has gotten, a desirable woman. A guy who owns a company at a young age is honorable because he has worked to have such a worthy goal. But it is those who loathe how life operates that are given nothing, and more often, actually lose SOMETHING.
When you believe in entitlement, you believe in expectation. You believe you are expected to be liked, to be expected to be found attractive. NO! You create these things. You are respected because you are part of life, but you cannot be respected in business until you have earned such an honor. To do so would discredit those before you who have done the work to earn the honor.
Entitlement is the mindstate of lack. It's a something for nothing thought. It's like: I'VE SHOWED UP, HERE I AM. GIMME!
I know that you have all come for reasons unknown to most. Even if you say girls, usually it's deeper than that. And even if you get a HB10, keeping her is more notable than getting her number, or even shagging one night. Were we to spread out all of lifes little dillemmas according to "boxes" you would see different compartments.
Love/Dating/Sex
Money/Investing
Career
Friends YOU
Family
Health/Body
Mind
Spirit
But on the counterbalance of the equation, YOU are there.
If you're too heavy with burdens, thoughts, problems, issues, then the scale is imbalanced.
If you're too light with strength, responsibility, or caring, you will be thrust off the scale and be unable to manage any of them.
By taking care of YOU, all other aspects come into balance.
Life is formless, like water. Just as are women, and relationships. If you become a concrete foundation, we can stick any tactic to it and succeed.
A great website, in addition to SS...
www.becomeaplayer.com
A woman, even due to beauty, is entitled to nothing but that which you give her. And you, are entitled to nothing but that which you work for, and give yourself. If you do not give yourself permission to do something, then you will not have it.
In accordance with my article titled "Why Life's Not Fair" I wrote this one, as a 2nd follow up. Give up the mindset that:
Good job, Good finances = Good Woman.
There are men like that, and some are abusive, based on such superificial traits, would it seem logical or just?
Entitlement can be damaging as one believes:
Good behavior = Good reward.
It doesn't.
In closing...Jim Rohn said.
"Become a millionaire for what it will make of you as a person."
What he's saying is that the person $1,000,000 requires to be earned is far different than you are, and that it would be a great goal to achieve. Become a man of plenty, a man of honor, a DJ (if I must use the term), not for what benefits you receive, but BECAUSE OF WHO YOU BECOME IN THE PROCESS.
Don't see the end goal, for there isn't one, it's always moving, but see the MEANS, the disciplines, the LIFE.
A-Unit
In prior times, people were grateful to feed and shelter their kids. Opportunities were hard to come by, but when they appeared, people took them because they knew such things were few and far between. Moreover, they CREATED opportunities. They never expected things to just COME to them.
Chance
Providence
Luck
All these things came as a result of repeated EFFORT and WORK.
My aim is to get you to realize that no LAW of ENTITLEMENT exists, either in the constitution or the Bible with respect to WHAT YOU DESERVE or DON'T deserve. And that by this realization, all desire CAN only be obtained by getting it, AND, consequently, to NEVER ALLOW PEOPLE to obtain something that they have not worked for or given value for. This applies handily to women, as they can be the BIGGEST promoters of ENTITLEMENT EVER.
It's lethargic to assume that just by existence, we ought to have a good job, a great woman, a nice car, great friends, and so forth. The only thing fixed is that LIFE SHOULD RESPECT LIFE. We are all a part of life, of a force ebbing and flowing, and return it as such one day. We are all of the same entity, simply different processes inside.
Entitlement also consumes a woman who's beautiful into assuming she's deserving of some lifestyle or deserving of perfection. By what right, law, or contract was thus given this entitlement or claim?
You see, entitlements and claims are mere myths. Perceptions.
Nobody and nothing has any power except that which you give them.
You GIVE it power. You GIVE it thought (which is power). And you can take it away.
We are entitled through effort and work. If you work and create value, and increase the energy levels of those around you, you are entitled to MORE MONEY, and will receive it for giving.
I have worked alongside some very philanthropic and giving people, and have witnessed how value for value, and raising energy levels, and creation can benefit one another.
You and I are but 1 sperm and 1 egg. We are the result of the FASTEST, STRONGEST, and MOST CAPABLE sperm rushing to the available egg. Perhaps this is why men are competitive? One has to think, with 500,000,000 sperm rushing to one egg, we do the work to get there, the egg only sits back, shows up once a month and says "I'm here, come for me boys!!!"
Sort of gets to the mentality of women doesn't it? Even on the reproductive, microscopic level we're in pursuit and in competition. Being the result of the BEST and MOST ABLE, it only serves the purpose that the minute we win, THE RACE, THE GAME, IS ON! YOU'RE off and running. The egg/sperm combo is endowed with spirit, infused with mind through childhood, experience, and evironment, and becomes a body through life and genetics.
Brad Pitt in Fight Club noted such things, and you noticed how living in squalor, enabled them to enjoy the finer pursuits of life without the encumberences of too many doo-dads and too many needs.
You see, when you feel "entitled", when you're without these "entitlements," you feel lack.
If you EXPECT to have a girl NOW because your friends do, you'll feel bad until you get one, emitting negative energy.
If you expect to ALWAYS drive a new car, you will feel bad until you do, and you will feel worse because you allowed negative emotion to sucker you into a $500/month payment.
Can't the Ego at work be a devil? Always saying "we must, we must, we must." We must be respected, we must eat fatty foods, we must wear these clothes, we must have a girlfriend and be married by...."
When people say there's a matrix, there is, it's the Ego. It's that little voice programmed repeatedly by SO many voices that tries to tell you what to do, how to live, when to do things, what to feel, as if you're some robot.
When you realize entitlement exists on a grand scale, and slap it down, you realize that women can no longer come to expect things without giving in return. That TAKING without GIVING, is stealing, and one CAN'T steal energy, or life, from another being on this planet with creating lack and negative energy.
What's it all mean?
That at birth, you were preordained with only what you were given and told: MAKE SOMETHING OF THIS. SHOW ME WHAT MAN YOU ARE.
It's like being given a Lego Box, no directions, and missing pieces, and told to make the Sistine Chapel. That's life. It's a box of Legos, missing pieces, with no directions. You don't win the contest, there's no winning, because each person will create a work of beauty each unto their own eyes. That which lies beautiful to them.
It's only those who cry: I'm MISSING PIECES, I HAVE NO DIRECTIONS, I WANT A NEW BOX!!!!
Well...everybody is given a box of missing pieces, and some are given good directions (parents/friends/mentors). Some are given the pieces, but no directions and they lack creativity. No matter how you spin it, nobody is born complete.
We are entitled nothing but that which we work for. A guy who is jerk is honorable, yes honorable, because he has WORKED for what he has gotten, a desirable woman. A guy who owns a company at a young age is honorable because he has worked to have such a worthy goal. But it is those who loathe how life operates that are given nothing, and more often, actually lose SOMETHING.
When you believe in entitlement, you believe in expectation. You believe you are expected to be liked, to be expected to be found attractive. NO! You create these things. You are respected because you are part of life, but you cannot be respected in business until you have earned such an honor. To do so would discredit those before you who have done the work to earn the honor.
Entitlement is the mindstate of lack. It's a something for nothing thought. It's like: I'VE SHOWED UP, HERE I AM. GIMME!
I know that you have all come for reasons unknown to most. Even if you say girls, usually it's deeper than that. And even if you get a HB10, keeping her is more notable than getting her number, or even shagging one night. Were we to spread out all of lifes little dillemmas according to "boxes" you would see different compartments.
Love/Dating/Sex
Money/Investing
Career
Friends YOU
Family
Health/Body
Mind
Spirit
But on the counterbalance of the equation, YOU are there.
If you're too heavy with burdens, thoughts, problems, issues, then the scale is imbalanced.
If you're too light with strength, responsibility, or caring, you will be thrust off the scale and be unable to manage any of them.
By taking care of YOU, all other aspects come into balance.
Life is formless, like water. Just as are women, and relationships. If you become a concrete foundation, we can stick any tactic to it and succeed.
A great website, in addition to SS...
www.becomeaplayer.com
A woman, even due to beauty, is entitled to nothing but that which you give her. And you, are entitled to nothing but that which you work for, and give yourself. If you do not give yourself permission to do something, then you will not have it.
In accordance with my article titled "Why Life's Not Fair" I wrote this one, as a 2nd follow up. Give up the mindset that:
Good job, Good finances = Good Woman.
There are men like that, and some are abusive, based on such superificial traits, would it seem logical or just?
Entitlement can be damaging as one believes:
Good behavior = Good reward.
It doesn't.
In closing...Jim Rohn said.
"Become a millionaire for what it will make of you as a person."
What he's saying is that the person $1,000,000 requires to be earned is far different than you are, and that it would be a great goal to achieve. Become a man of plenty, a man of honor, a DJ (if I must use the term), not for what benefits you receive, but BECAUSE OF WHO YOU BECOME IN THE PROCESS.
Don't see the end goal, for there isn't one, it's always moving, but see the MEANS, the disciplines, the LIFE.
A-Unit
