European-DJ
Master Don Juan
We all know how easy it is to give advice when it isn't your situation, and how hard it is to spot or realize signs when you yourself are in the situation.
So I was hoping to get some response, and your take on the following, just in a overall objective way.
The girl I have knows for about 3 months, we chat often, and the tone is always fun - I have made out with her everyone I have seen her.
I wanted to know what your take on this story was:
After a reunion, we hit the club. At the club, I met this one girls friends (a girl I honestly like a bit - they were not part of the reunión).
After chatting with her friends, they told me that she would actually arrive at the club, within 30 min.
She arrived, and we sat for 3 hours laughing, and having a blast - at one time I mentioned she should come over to my house later, but I forgot this during the evening.
So time hit 3A.M, and I told her I had a blast, and was going home now. And that it was nice seeing her again, to which she answerd:
"Oh, so now I'm not getting invited to your place anyway?".
I was caught off guard, and simply told her that u was going home now, and she could was welcome to follow me.
It was pretty obvious what she wanted, but I simply had the greatest walk home - never laughed that much with anyone - so when we came home, I couldn't get myself to have sex with her, I couldn't even initiate it..
Next morning we headed out the door the same way, again we laughed a bit, and said goodbye.
About 10 hours later I messages her on Facebook, just letting her know I had a good time.
This was 2 days ago, I haven't received any answer, and I know she has been online since then (Facebook alows you to see it).
I don't know what I should do, but I was planing to write her again this Friday; but should I act like she didn't ignore my message, or should I mention it?
Example 1:
"Ignored.. Well I guess I shouldn't push forward with the lunch plans the 15th?" (We talked about going to lunch there.
Example 2:
"Hi, what's up, hitting the club tonight?"
I'm looking forward to some response, thanks guys!
So I was hoping to get some response, and your take on the following, just in a overall objective way.
The girl I have knows for about 3 months, we chat often, and the tone is always fun - I have made out with her everyone I have seen her.
I wanted to know what your take on this story was:
After a reunion, we hit the club. At the club, I met this one girls friends (a girl I honestly like a bit - they were not part of the reunión).
After chatting with her friends, they told me that she would actually arrive at the club, within 30 min.
She arrived, and we sat for 3 hours laughing, and having a blast - at one time I mentioned she should come over to my house later, but I forgot this during the evening.
So time hit 3A.M, and I told her I had a blast, and was going home now. And that it was nice seeing her again, to which she answerd:
"Oh, so now I'm not getting invited to your place anyway?".
I was caught off guard, and simply told her that u was going home now, and she could was welcome to follow me.
It was pretty obvious what she wanted, but I simply had the greatest walk home - never laughed that much with anyone - so when we came home, I couldn't get myself to have sex with her, I couldn't even initiate it..
Next morning we headed out the door the same way, again we laughed a bit, and said goodbye.
About 10 hours later I messages her on Facebook, just letting her know I had a good time.
This was 2 days ago, I haven't received any answer, and I know she has been online since then (Facebook alows you to see it).
I don't know what I should do, but I was planing to write her again this Friday; but should I act like she didn't ignore my message, or should I mention it?
Example 1:
"Ignored.. Well I guess I shouldn't push forward with the lunch plans the 15th?" (We talked about going to lunch there.
Example 2:
"Hi, what's up, hitting the club tonight?"
I'm looking forward to some response, thanks guys!