Missed my chance?

[BEST BEFORE DATE]

Liked girl, she was in rocky patch with long-term bf, dropped big hints that she liked me, she eventually dumped her bf, like a tw@t I did'nt ask her out, thought its too soon, don't want to be the rebound guy.

Next time I see her, is now back with bf, as he wanted to try again, he convinced her, she agreed. Now realise what a tw@t I was.

Shes maybe still interested but probably thinks I'm not.

What now? Ignore bf and ask her out or accept I had my chance and blew it?

Also this is a girl I see on a regular basis, so don't want to fall into friend zone.

 

[BEST BEFORE DATE]

I think the only reason I'd be in the friend zone is if she'd convinced herself that I wasn't interested, which wouldn't be difficult seeing as I was acting like a big gay around her.

The hints she dropped about liking me were clear enough, she was obviously looking for that next 'branch' to grab onto, as she was in a mediocre relationship, but I didn't give it to her.

I now know what a ***** I was and I'm beating myself up about not making the move when I had a chance.

 

[BEST BEFORE DATE]

You guys think I should just ask for her number regardless of the bf?! Only thing is I have to see her on a regular basis, so once I do it, it could make things a little uncomfortable between us.

Pisses me off because I could have had this hottie a few months ago without ANY problems. The perfect chance will never come along guys, do it today!

 

[NatureGuy]

I think it depends on how often you see
her and in what capacity. If you're sure you could have "had her" before, I would ask for her number now, regardless of her bf. She will either accept your interest now, or later when things go wrong with the bf again.

 

[NewMan]

Tough....

But even if she's back with the BF - chances are it's not going to work out - things don't just change over night.

Keep doing what your doing - use some kino, be a flirt - but I wouldn't ask for her number - just let her know your interested

 

[BEST BEFORE DATE]

Originally posted by NewMan
Tough....

But even if she's back with the BF - chances are it's not going to work out - things don't just change over night.

Keep doing what your doing - use some kino, be a flirt - but I wouldn't ask for her number - just let her know your interested

Thats what I thought, they've been on the slippery slope for over a year and she eventually dumped him a few months ago. They've been together for over 6 years so shes probably just making sure.

But I know what its like, and I think this applies even more with women, once that 'feeling' has gone you can never really get it back.

I'll just slowly turn up the heat, but try to avoid the friend zone.
Thing is how long can I keep that up? I can't expect her to throw herself at me, she already dropped two huge hints a few months ago and I didn't respond.

So she now probably thinks I don't find her attractive. Maybe I will have to lay it on the line and ask for her number.

 

[violator]

I know how you feel bro. Through much of last year and the beginning of this year, this much younger girl (21 yrs) was giving me big hints that she wanted my ass.

The thing is, I felt she was just too young and immature for me (I am 35) and so naturally I never asked her out. Not that I was not tempted ( she was a fine piece of ass). And there is no question that I could have fycked her. Damn, she even came to my house last Christmas eve, but being a dope that am, I did not make a move.

Naturally, this chick gave up and is probbly banging some other dude.

The point is, is like in my case, there was something in your gut telling you that she was not good for you. If you are 100% pure bonafide player, then you have no issues, and will take advantage of the situation just to get a lay. . But, you analyzed the situation like a true DJ (I think), and determined that in the end she was not for you.