Mind Reading...

[random afc]

Hey everybody, i learned something cool while reading a book about NLP. you can find many cues about how a person thinks (or what they are thinking about) by looking at their eyes and which direction they point when they "imagine something".

If you ask a person to imagine something, you can get a general drift about what they are thinking about.

Here are the Visual Accessing Cues for a "Normally Organized" Right-Handed person (all directions are from the person who is doing the looking's point of view):

If they are looking up and to their right, they are thinking about visual constructed images. (These are things/imges that they imagine or come up with a picture in their head.)

If they are looking up and to their left, they are thinking about visual remembered (eidetic) images. (These are things/images that they remember or have seen before.)

If their eyes are defocused, it is also indicates visual accessing.

If they are looking to their right, they are thinking/hearing in their mind constructed (imagined) sounds or words. These are sounds/music that the person comes up with

If they are looking to their left, they are thinking/hearing in their mind remembered sounds or words.

If they are looking down and to their right, they are thinking about kinesthetic (physical) feelings.

If they are looking down and to their left, they are thinking/hearing auditory sounds or words as well.

Also very important, for a left-handed person, these right/left directions will be reversed.

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So what does this mean?

It means that when you are talking to somebody, and you can accuratley access thier visual cues, you can ask them, "what are you picturing in your head?" or "what are you hearing right now?"

You may want to practice these techniques on someone who you are not at risk with of destroying some relationship or having them think you are crazy.

But, once you get the technique down well enough, people will begin to think, "you always know what i'm thinking," or "it's like you can always read my mind!"

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I thought this would be interesting to post and i guess (though haven't tried) that it can be used for seduction. i recommend you all read some user-friendly books on NLP

GOOD LUCK!

 

[Vronski]

I sometimes use it to see if the chick is kinky. lol Of course you need tons of rapport and it helps if you slept already.

First, let them imagine something they did before, like playing with something, or skiing, or driving a car. Notice which way she looks. Aha!! She's normally organized.

Oki. Now you can say something like: "You know, I've been looking at one magazine and there was a very interesting picture. There was this girl tied up and lying near a whip, can you imagine how perverted people have become???"

And then just look at her. If she looks up and to her right, then she's never done it before. If she looks up and to her left, then baby, you've got a **** chick laying beside you. Then watch her pupils, if they dilate, its your invitation to take the belt out.


The eye movement never fails and can be used for interrogation, lie detection and finding out if your gf cheated on you in 2 minutes and most civilized manner. There is nothing she can hide from you. Nice

 

[Turbobird]

It can be really helpful to get cues from others eye accessing. It’s interesting that it took so long time before the psychologists got the theory about this stuff right.

This is a really great link with a nice java-applet for practicing eye accessing patterns:
http://www.manifestation.com/neurotoys/calibrate.php3

…and here you can read about the method and see the results from the research:
http://www.kevinhogan.com/NLPeyeaccess.htm

Marry X-mas and a happy new year!

 

[wildchild]

hmm how could you use it to see if a girl has cheated ? how would you word it or watever and do u think they subconciously pic up on your eye movements?

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

Originally posted by wildchild
hmm how could you use it to see if a girl has cheated ? how would you word it or watever and do u think they subconciously pic up on your eye movements?

Let me give you an example.
She told you that she was going to a party.
Then you meet with her and ask her questions about the party, like how many people were there, or if the music was good, how long she stayed there.

If she looks up and left (her right), she's making images, or if she looks left (her right again) she's making sounds.

So she's creating things to say to you !
And creating is lying !

If she really went to the party, she would look to the right (her left), because she'd be remembering all the details, REMEMBERING, not creating !

This is just an example but I hope you can get the idea.

And there are 3 exceptions :

1 - If she's left-handed, and her brain is "left-handed" too.
2 - If she's right-handed, but her brain is "left-handed".
3 - If she's from certain areas of Spain (the Basque Country)

#s 2 and 3 are very hard to spot, and #1 is less difficult but still difficult.

Hope you get the idea.

BBB

 

[wildchild]

Hmm you said if shes left handed her brain is left handed and if she is right handed her brain is left handed? so no matter what handed you are your brains always left handed? soz i dont understand that bit n wat difference does it make if shes from the country?..peace

 

[oreo_renegade]

Originally posted by Vronski


The eye movement never fails and can be used for interrogation, lie detection and finding out if your gf cheated on you in 2 minutes and most civilized manner. There is nothing she can hide from you. Nice

unless she wears sunglasses....dark sunglasses! lol

 

[oreo_renegade]

bump

^ hahahah, i was such a crackhead!

 

[Duke]

Perhaps this is what is inferred with the statement: "eyes are the windows of the soul."