Mind Goes Blank

[Mitza]

I've noticed something happening to me, and I would like a few advices.

I have read a lot of this and other forums, books, articles, etc. And I can say that I know a lot of stuff about seduction, but my problem is when I go in field ... I know about bodylanguage, I know about how to use words to seduce, ...a lot of things that I've been tought in this forum, but in field my mind goes blank, everything I knew is gone I don't think about stuff learned here on forum.

Did you experienced a problem like this, and if your answer is YES, please tell me how you resolved this problem. Waiting advices.

Thanks

 

[young_gun]

YES. And that was because I tried to go out with these "pre-scripted routines" that I read online. Once I stopped trying to be someone I wasn't, I started having successes. Seriously, all you have to do is relax. I used to go to malls, stores like Target, etc. with the specific intent to meet women, but now I just make it a goal to talk to women if I happen to run into them in the places that I go. I'll make a comment about what seems to be going on at the time, the food, something like that. That's the best way to go if you ask me.

Remember, you don't have to have a 30 minute conversation with her / get her to be your girlfriend when you first meet her. All you have to do is get her phone number.

 

[Mitza]

But I would like to be aware of the things tha happen around me, and notice them. I forget about attitudine. mindset, everything.

 

[marinetti]

http://www.charismaarts.com/blog/Dimitri/230

this post by an instructor at Charisma Arts (Juggler's company) explains several different exercises that may help you keep your eyes open around you. It certainly helped me.

 

[Mitza]

This article has something interesting, but not enough. I need more tips to increase my awareness.

 

[marinetti]

no you don't, you need to get out and start using your eyes.

there's no magic bullet on the internet. you have to take action. there's no way around this. get off the computer and go our right now.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

throw urself into the fire enough times and eventually you'll be resistant to (crashing and) burning