Guys, chill. Its not like Im still drooling over her. Its over.
I learnt my lessons.
Many of us have made the mistake of spinning our wheels over a girl and are embarrassed by it, so the advice is harsh because we wish we could smack our old selves in the face for getting it wrong the first time. It’s not personal. That being said, if you haven’t already, you will date girls who will be so available to you it’ll blow your mind. I have told a girl with no prior warning “hey, if you can come over in 30 minutes I’ll have wine waiting for you” and she has shown up on the dot. Once you have a girl like that, even if she’s not your dream girl, you will never put up with flakes again.