Might get an arranged marriage

[skinnyguy]

Indian guys in India get laid because of arranged marriages. 99% of them are AFC including my dad.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The problem with arranged marriage is that there is no arranged divorce. As soon as she pops out a few kids, she'll get fat and lose interest in sex. Then societal guilt will force you to stay with her, even though you're miserable.

The only thing worse than not having a wife and not getting laid is having a wife and not getting laid. That is the eventual reality of most marriages.

I still don't see why you would restrict yourself to India in picking out a mail order bride. They really do have them from all over.

 

[Rave18]

Matrimonial ad > "My daughter is a young, smart, army officer. She enjoys karate, kickboxing and horse riding"

The lady (You need to be signed in, on FB, to view her profile.).

 

[foreverAFC]

So if you're ugly, overdosing on coke is the answer? Oh gee, thanks man.

you said you were thinking of shooting yourself, so yeah i think dying from a night of partying too hard with coke and wh0res is better

 

[dk1990S111]

OP how old are you?

My sister is married to an Indian guy (we are white). He is pretty beta, had like 2-3 gfs before marrying my sister. They even dated for a couple weeks in high school but she dumped him. Did he kill himself or get an arranged marriage? No. He did his thing, went to school and is on his way to becoming a doctor. My sister is a really smart girl, our family is upper middle class, and she could be considered very attractive if she lost a little weight (honest truth, not trying to be a ****). I only say that because its not like he had to settle for less than he wanted, he wanted to be with her and eventually it happened. Dont tell yourself that you wont get what you want, sometimes it just takes time. You need to get this idea out of your head that you need to find someone, its making you look desperate in your pick up attempts im sure.

Point is, you need to just focus on making yourself happy. Find some hobbies, you will probably meet the girl you are looking for soon after you stop looking and caring so much.

 

[sylvester the cat]

you're almost there OP. you're starting to bend to the way things are instead of forcing things to the way you want things to be.

but why marry at all? what's wrong with being single?

i think you care too much of what society and others think of you. fvck society. fvck what other people think of you. society is mostly made up of beta faggots who only do what other beta faggots think they should do anyway. they haven't got the guts to do what they'd really like to do. which includes being single because they're too scared what others will think of them which is why they marry ugly fatties like all my beta friends. well who cares what another beta faggot thinks of you?

don't worry about being single or being alone. enjoy yourself. enjoy your life. do what makes you happy. do the things you could never do if married.

THEN see what happens. i think you'll be surprised.

 

[foreverAFC]

the op is obviously a troll, but for the sake of conversation, if you really believed that you were going to be making serious money in 5 years that may actually make you more attractive to women, why the fck would you want to get married now? when you finally get the place in life when more women are receptive to you because of your career, you are stuck in some shltty marriage, sounds like a great plan.

 

[skinnyguy]

the op is obviously a troll, but for the sake of conversation, if you really believed that you were going to be making serious money in 5 years that may actually make you more attractive to women, why the fck would you want to get married now? when you finally get the place in life when more women are receptive to you because of your career, you are stuck in some shltty marriage, sounds like a great plan.

I never said I was going to make a ton of money in 5 years. I said I would marry a woman who has more money than me. And there's plenty of Indian chicks who are professionals making good $$$$. If she's cute, can cook, and earns, it's a win win for me and I didn't need to spit game in order to get her.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I think you should get the most smoking hot mail order bride (from anywhere but India) that you can find and marry her with the expectation that she will leave you when the green card arrives. But what's the wait these days, a couple years? That's about the time it takes any relationship to go to sh!t anyway. If you know the days with her are numbered, then that gives you a daily reason to Carpe Poontang and make the most of the time you have. In fact, that's how any relationship should be. Assuming that you'll be with someone forever just because you are happy together at any one time is naive.

 

[sylvester the cat]

I never said I was going to make a ton of money in 5 years. I said I would marry a woman who has more money than me. And there's plenty of Indian chicks who are professionals making good $$$$. If she's cute, can cook, and earns, it's a win win for me and I didn't need to spit game in order to get her.

lol. and which parent in their right mind is going to marry their daughter off to a man who earns less money than their daughter. many indians are very big on status and how others percieve them and a man who earns less than their daughter would be an embarrassment.

you need to come down to planet earth. as someone pointed out, at the moment you are very selfish. you have no consideration for others which is why no girl wants anything to do with you. what have you got that will benefit others? it's not your personality that's for sure.

when you're ready to start giving to others instead of always being on the take you will be ready.

 

[melancholy]

Indian guys in India get laid because of arranged marriages. 99% of them are AFC including my dad.

I'm Asian myself and work in an environment with a lot of Indians(I'm not indian myself). And based on the stories I've exchanged with them, I think arranged marriage works for Indians. Its part of their/your culture.

Reminds me of one of my colleagues who was a major AFC that somehow fails at arranged marriages. As in the bride actually rejected him when they saw him. And this went on for several times until he confided to me that he was going to give up. Eventually, he somehow met an arranged girl that was very into him, and they married happily. Ever since then, I've seen a change in him, and that defeatist attitude he had(which you seem to have, no offence) evaporated and he seem to be doing well now. I would say also that he is not being led around a leash by his wife, but is taking control. Props to him, and good luck to you if you do decide to try it.

 

[No.Danny]

You're a little *****, boho I'm Indian. Boho I'm a loser who can't get laid. Boho I whine instead of doing something about it.

 

[skinnyguy]

lol. and which parent in their right mind is going to marry their daughter off to a man who earns less money than their daughter. many indians are very big on status and how others percieve them and a man who earns less than their daughter would be an embarrassment.

you need to come down to planet earth. as someone pointed out, at the moment you are very selfish. you have no consideration for others which is why no girl wants anything to do with you. what have you got that will benefit others? it's not your personality that's for sure.

when you're ready to start giving to others instead of always being on the take you will be ready.

You're wrong. My sister is a doctor and she is marrying some guy who makes 30k a year. Indian parents have very little say these days.

I'm not a pauper and I have a professional degree. I make good money on my own but I want a wife who makes more so that it's less of a financial risk if we get divorce.

I'm sure that you "alphas" get laid by giving to others. LMAO. Do you buy girls drinks when you meet them?

 

[_sideways_]

You're ugly then....sorry to be the bearer of bad news...

Youre the worst gene and other genes are above you....

You will turn it around on your next adventures

 

[sylvester the cat]

You're wrong. My sister is a doctor and she is marrying some guy who makes 30k a year. Indian parents have very little say these days.

I'm not a pauper and I have a professional degree. I make good money on my own but I want a wife who makes more so that it's less of a financial risk if we get divorce.

I'm sure that you "alphas" get laid by giving to others. LMAO. Do you buy girls drinks when you meet them?

if indian parents have little say then might i suggest these are not arranged marriages?

i give nuggets of gold every day. that some see these nuggets as worthless is not my fault.

 

[skinnyguy]

Look I haven't given up completely. Right now I'm working on:

1. Not being boring
2. Picking up moms at Whole Foods
3. Doing something that breaks a sweat every day

I'm also trying to broaden my social circle as I'm tired of sarging alone.

 

[thunderbolt]

Indian guys in India get laid because of arranged marriages. 99% of them are AFC including my dad.

they prolly became that way because of stupid customs of arranged marriages.

 

[skinnyguy]

they prolly became that way because of stupid customs of arranged marriages.

My religion is extremely conservative and oppressive. Sex is totally taboo even though we supposedly invented the Kama sutra. I spent my teenage years whacking off to issues of sports illustrated swimsuit edition when my parents thought I was studying. I also didn't have sex with a girl until I was 20.

 

[El Payaso]

Is it possible that most Indian men are beta by default because they have been coddled by mommy and daddy from birth to adulthood including an arranged marriage so they never really got the chance to carve out something for themselves and by themselves?

 

[skinnyguy]

Is it possible that most Indian men are beta by default because they have been coddled by mommy and daddy from birth to adulthood including an arranged marriage so they never really got the chance to carve out something for themselves and by themselves?

Probably. I was extremely coddled as a kid. Also never went out just studied while the white kids were smoking weed and having sex. El Payaso I normally disagree with you but you are spot on this time. I tried carving out a life for myself but I guess I'm still a mommas boy.