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Master Don Juan
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Yeah, actually the real game is won inside your head. When you genuinely stop caring, you win.
Met that girl in the club tonight
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powersize
Senior Don Juan
I would not say just stop caring - more important is to realize your true value. It took me 2 months of reminding myself every morning - I am the prize, I am the high value man, I do not tolerate BS anymore, and stuff like that (I still do it every morning). And now combine it with the progress at the gym, work on my purpose, the fact that I started dress better, removed some fibroma sh1t from my face that I had from the birth - that gave me that feeling that man, that dude is just nothing compared to me now, and if he is you plan for tonight, than damn, I thought you can do better.
powersize
Senior Don Juan
Met her after work on Wednesday. At the beginning the convo was kinda dry, and I could feel the pressure in the air between us. Than we went in pub to drink some beer and this was the time where we melted the ice wall. I was holding my hand or her knee all the time, we were laughing and talking a lot about our childhood and stuff we loved to watch. Funny that almost thrown out after the Mexican beer with Tabasco sauce.
So on our way back we finally had That Talk. She started telling me that I act like i hate her and ignore all the time. I said I did not like her behavior, the stuff you were ignoring me and acted disrespectful, and that is because I started to ignore you. She apologized. Than I stood in front of her, looked in her eyes, and said “Listen me very carefully now. I am the sort of the guy that you most likely will never find again in your life. I do not tolerate such stuff, and if it is gonna continue - you will never hear from me back again”. I never told any girl stuff like that in my life, and it felt good man. Than we were also talking about other stuff that happened before, she told me that she has boyfriend in her home country (in South America, while we are in Europe), and all is kinda complicated now. Than I said I don’t wanna be just a friend. She did mention that I acted before like I am her boyfriend which indeed is true. After that we were talking about some sexual stuff, and I walked all the way to her home, did not ask to come in, we kissed and I went my way home.
I think the best what I can do now is to focus on meeting other girls and building my rotation, but keep it fun when that girl comes back and initiates. She mentioned that she does not care if I am with other girls - so I will consider her as FWB prospect which should me prioritized below other plates that I will find.
So on our way back we finally had That Talk. She started telling me that I act like i hate her and ignore all the time. I said I did not like her behavior, the stuff you were ignoring me and acted disrespectful, and that is because I started to ignore you. She apologized. Than I stood in front of her, looked in her eyes, and said “Listen me very carefully now. I am the sort of the guy that you most likely will never find again in your life. I do not tolerate such stuff, and if it is gonna continue - you will never hear from me back again”. I never told any girl stuff like that in my life, and it felt good man. Than we were also talking about other stuff that happened before, she told me that she has boyfriend in her home country (in South America, while we are in Europe), and all is kinda complicated now. Than I said I don’t wanna be just a friend. She did mention that I acted before like I am her boyfriend which indeed is true. After that we were talking about some sexual stuff, and I walked all the way to her home, did not ask to come in, we kissed and I went my way home.
I think the best what I can do now is to focus on meeting other girls and building my rotation, but keep it fun when that girl comes back and initiates. She mentioned that she does not care if I am with other girls - so I will consider her as FWB prospect which should me prioritized below other plates that I will find.