Met girl from internet tonight and things went pretty bad.. Did I do the right thing?

[My Name is Nobody]

I have been talking ot this girl from the internet for a few months. We both love to play tennis, so we decided to meet for the first time tonight to play tennis.

I drove an hour to meet her.

She was a little late, so I was laying on top of my car waiting fior her.

When she got out and I gave her a hug she said " I Just saw someone hiding in the back of your car"

I was Like WTF? So she must think I brought someone along to kidnaop her or something.

I opened all the doors in my car for her to see nobody was in there and she was like fine.

So we went to talk for awhile and Im like "Well lets go play tennis, that is what our plans were"

And then shes like I dont feel like playing tennis anymore. "Cant we just sit here and talk".

So Im like "no I dont feel like just sitting here. How about I take you to a movie or a nice restaurant"? Shes not hungry and doesnt want to go see a movie.

So again, I asked her lets play tennis, THATS WHY I DROVE AN HOUR TO SEE HER N THE FIRST PLACE.

And she changed her mind because of an imaginary person she saw kiding in my car.

So you know what? I said you are not in the right mindframe and Im out of here.

Got up, walked away and sped off liek a motherf-ucker while she went back to her car and just sat there.

FINALLY I got home and got onto AIM.

She was online.

I told her "her i made it home alright"

She said "Thats good" and logged off.

what a b!tch

Should I block her for good?

I think I deserve an apology.

 

[tmpgstx]

LOL .. you got yourself a first-class nut-case .. a girl with some serious deep issues. Talk about paranoia and mood swings .. lol. Not good at all.

Probably shouldn't brought your buddy along in the back ..wow did he get out of there fast without being seen. You guys are good.

 

[FoolsCause]

Were you there just to play tennis, or did you want to get some :moon: ? If the latter, you could have just sat there and talked.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

LOL .. you got yourself a first-class nut-case .. a girl with some serious deep issues. Talk about paranoia and mood swings .. lol. Not good at all.

Probably shouldn't brought your buddy along in the back ..wow did he get out of there fast without being seen. You guys are good.

Man,

first of all..

I DID NOT have anyone else in the car. She imagined it.


The sole reason I went is to play her in a match of tennis and she changed her mind at the last minute.

Did I do the right thing by just cutting out?

 

[tmpgstx]

I know .. was just being sarcastic. She's obviously a mixed up girl.

I had a stripper do the same thing to me ..thought me and a buddy were going to rape her ..but there was no-one else. She was spaced out on drugs.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Were you there just to play tennis, or did you want to get some :moon: ? If the latter, you could have just sat there and talked.

No, I seriosuly just wanted to play tennis and have fun. Sex isnt the only way to have fun,

 

[fbplayer06]

LOL .. you got yourself a first-class nut-case .. a girl with some serious deep issues. Talk about paranoia and mood swings .. lol. Not good at all.

Probably shouldn't brought your buddy along in the back ..wow did he get out of there fast without being seen. You guys are good.

LOL!

In all seriousness, you should end all communication with her. She's obviously got issues (as tmpgstx pointed out), but if you are still interested in her, you're not going to make progress by signing in the moment you get home and chatting it up with her (albeit two sentences).

You're done with her until she comes back (if she does at all). Find some new, sane women!

 

[st_99]

LOL, I am sitting here on a Sunday night reading your story and well... I am pissing my pants in laughter. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Dude, just forget about it and move on...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

The end of this sage so ar is this:

I FINALLY got home from my hour long drive and she was on AIM.

So I lt her know I made it home OK.


She said "thats good"

and logged off AIM.


What a b!tch.

Yet, could she still be interested in me?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

LOL, I am sitting here on a Sunday night reading your story and well... I am pissing my pants in laughter. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Dude, just forget about it and move on...

She owes me an apology. She has my number. If she apologisez, she may deserve another chance.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Uhhh...dont drive an hour to see a girl you dont know.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^Basically ..lol...she was justfiably nervous & you just sorta lost your temper at that and the "can't we just sit her" comment put you over the limit..

You're the one in the wrong,might as well block her she ain't gonna talk to you no more..

 

[KarmaSutra]

She owes me an apology. She has my number. If she apologisez, she may deserve another chance.

How about driving back and giving this cvnt your wallet and your balls? If you're considering giving this idiot another chance for any reason you should just marry her and get it over with. That way you can enjoy your punishment as quickly as possible.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

^Basically ..lol...she was justfiably nervous & you just sorta lost your temper at that and the "can't we just sit her" comment put you over the limit..

You're the one in the wrong,might as well block her she ain't gonna talk to you no more..

YOU ARE WRONG. Check yourself fool.

SHE INVITED ME TO PLAT TENNIS.

When I got there, yes we did sit for 20 minutes and talked but she RENIGGED on her deal to play tennis!

She flaked, and I deserve an apology.

ALSO

When she said no tennis, I offered to take her to a movie, and she said no. Then a nice restaurant and she said no.

HOW AM I AT FAULT HERE

 

[ryannath]

You're not at fault. That girl is an idiot or just wasn't as interested as she thought she was.

 

[Serialized3]

:crackup: @ "Check yourself fool"

Bro, telling someone that they aren't in the right mindframe to hang out with you because she wants to sit and talk and then jumping into your car and speeding off like a frustrated baby is not the right thing to do.

Although she sounds like a weirdo, so neither of you owe each other an apology. Just get over it.

 

[lookyoung]

What happened is when this girl seen you, you were not her type. She was not attracted to you and that is why she acted the way she did. You made a bad situation worse by not talking to her.


Be honest with yourself and ask yourself. If this girl was very attracted to you when she seen you do you think she would have pulled this sh1t?

There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You will never be able to hook up with this girl again. Cut off all contact.

 

[Obsidian]

^ ^ ^ ignore the looks-only heretics on this board, Nobody.

When I got there, yes we did sit for 20 minutes and talked but she RENIGGED on her deal to play tennis!

if she just wanted to chat, you could have done that over the phone or online. I think you may have overreacted a bit, but yeah I'd say she was in the wrong. You're a man. Men pursue action, not idle womanly chit-chat. (And if you do pursue chit-chat, rest assured that it will not be a turn-on for women.)

She sounds like a h0r who wanted to lead the "relationship." Probably best to let her go. Maybe she can have some unattractive girly man who she claims she desires.

 

[John-467]

Okay, so this was a "flake."

Try to take a different approach to dating and relationships then what the Majority will tell you.....try my way, I think it would be more suitable and successful for you.

You must adapt a highly sexual attitude to your personality. I mean, you need to become a very sexual person, and when I say that....I mean you are very non-verbally, subtly, thinking, behaving, etc., very sexual. Try to understand what I am trying to tell you.

You need to add this to your personality, and just let IT work through you. I want you to live in it, like a church person lives in the "annointing" and "flow" of the spirit at church, I want you to live in this newly found sexual flow that you have.

And now, notice how while living within in it, notice hwo you will behave a little diffferently. You might move a little slower, you might feel a little more seductive. You might find yourself really just relaxed and cool around women, very open and sexual but seductive...and you will actually find beauty in women as a whole...you will find them enjoyable as a group....

Get To This Point First.

Now that you are here, women will attract you to naturally, without tips and techniques, and being a challenge, and being a PUA, and bein a DJ, and all that other stuff.....

Women are 100% sexual, it's only the sexual guys that attract women, all the other guys don't attract women so they have to buy women. And some guys buy women with their money, some buy women with their "popular and exciting worlds" some buy women with their "being funny" some buy women with their "protection" some buy women with their "being nice." And the list goes on.

But true success with women is when you ATTRACT women to you, not when you DO SOMETHING to attract women to you.

You add sexuality to your personality, you become a sexual person. You do this, because this is apart of embracing your true nature as a Masculine Male. You will enjoy life more, you will feel more like a NATURAL MAN, your creativeness will increase, your health, your entire world.....

This ATTRACTS women to you. So when you now go around women, they notice you.....

Now when you go to speak with a woman, still be in your flow, and she will be attracted to YOU....only now does "Just Be Yourself" makes sense.

Another thing, stop dating women.

At the beginning, get a woman's number and have phone sex with her over the phone first....trust me, it might seem a little akward but women like this.

After the phone sex, NOW spend your gas money and go pick her up to go have sex.

By going to get her before, you can't judge her horny level. And no matter what OTHERS HAVE TOLD YOU.....a woman MUST really need to fvck you first, before she will ever LOVE you. It's not the other way around..and that's why so many men are having problems today.

- DJF

 

[DJDamage]

FINALLY I got home and got onto AIM.

She was online.

I told her "her i made it home alright"

She said "Thats good" and logged off.

what a b!tch

Should I block her for good?

I think I deserve an apology.

that was so funny lol

First of all I don't get what you were trying to accomplish by saying that "you made it home alright"?! this girl had low interest in you and she wouldn't care if your car exploded on the highway and you ended up dead.

It didn't work out, move on, forget about an appology, delete her MSN and start sarging other women.