Met a girl in pub need couple advice

[Frienchiese]

I was in somekind of group activity with friends then i saw waitress (that's the girl). We started talking i made couple jokes everything seemed right to me until one moment i was alone with her outside the bar. I decided to take her number but screwed up, panicked. I sad something, turned my back and left her there. We hanged in pub 1-2 hours i only looked her once and left. Does it still possible to go there and take that number? If it's yes whats the plan ?

 

[Frienchiese]

You need more practice. Practice practice practice.
Your body is going to scream fight or flight for a few months.
Your going to fck it up. Just push through it and keep on trying.

Im a fan of a short template to start with. Not a script but a template. Trying to go natural at first is worse.
Watch this video. This guy is no longer alive but hes part of the Troy Francis tree.
Notice how nervous the 2 dudes are at the beginning verses at the end. Good template.

Yeah man you are right about practice i know. I think i am having a kind of i need to **** her situation. I just desire her. Any advice through the that girl besides general tips.

 

[Black Widow Void]

Although there might be potential here, there's also something else to consider.

When I'm chatting it up to someone in the service industry, I also have to consider that being sociable is also part of their job. Sometimes it can be difficult to determine if they are just doing their job or if there's an actual interest.

Good luck with her.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I dont like the idea of going back just to see if you can get her number. If you happen to be back for some other reason (meeting friends or something) and she remembers you, just shoot your shot.

if she rejects you then so be it. Its part of the game but know you now. Move on and spin plates.

 

[derby1]

If your a novice to this, a waitress will spin your brain. They are the biggest players out there.

 

[Frienchiese]

If she detected your hesitancy or fear. Maybe not but not knowing the situation you just have to go for it.
If it is a local place your frequent a lot you might want to tread lightly. Meaning dont shyt were you sleep kinda thing.

If you creep her out ten other ladies going to findout you creeped her out. Just saying. But if you dont care? Thats cool too. Just own it.

No i dont even go there.

I dont like the idea of going back just to see if you can get her number. If you happen to be back for some other reason (meeting friends or something) and she remembers you, just shoot your shot.

if she rejects you then so be it. Its part of the game but know you now. Move on and spin plates.

Will do just like that