Met a Girl in my Apartment Building... bad idea?

[Industry]

Hey... I met a girl that lives 2 doors down from me. She's damn cool and a total cutie. But I won't be able to "DJ" her if she lives that close.... and she will know when I'm home or not. Whata you think?

I'm smelling a good, old fashion, BOOTY CALL.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

depends how much you like your apartment...

 

[Ronin I]

Yeah dude - I say go for it. There are potential complications but it's also very convenient.

I remember my freshman year in college, the girl right next door to me always wanted it, but I never gave it to her because I wanted to avoid any problems if things went sour.

I've always regretted that. Her and I fought all the time anyway (about noise, etc) so I might as well have gotten some.

 

[tamales]

Industry

Didn't you already post something about this and mainly got that it was a bad idea. Looks like you're going to do this anyway and as I recall you also have an ex that you can't get over. So go for it. I mean why do we all ask such questions when we already know what we are gonna do. Nothing against you. I am very guilty but just human nature.

You post should say, I am planning on nabbing my cute neighbor and how would you go about this without losing face afterwards if things doesn't work out. Any experience in detail about handling this so she doesn't become a drama queen or worse me onitus.

Just a thought. But be warned. ANd keep the want ads for new apts. handy.

Good luck.

PS I suppose you could ask to borrow a cup of sugar.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

I wouldnt suggest you jump in without finding out whether this chick is a psycho or not, Just my 2 cents.

 

[princelydeeds]

IMHO DJ's don't live in fear of what might happen. If you start banging her, just be a man. If you wanna screw other broads, its your life, and Its your world. You are the 400 pound gorilla, sh!t, eat and Fvck whereever you want, with whomever you want to.

Why wouldn't you screw her? Cause she might get angry later? Oh please, thats the dumbest reason ever. Cause she might act "crazy"? WTF?!? Please bang this broad and deal with her like you are the man.

 

[Quick]

You can DJ no matter where she is. DJing is more an attitude than a series of tricks. It's only a danger if your DJ moves are being faked. That is, if you only pretend that you're busy, or you don't have any real hobbies or interests. If that's the case, you were going to get exposed sooner or later, no matter what girl you're with. Just because you're home doesn't mean you're available to her. You're also free to date, though i wouldn't bring too many girls into her view. Admittedly you can't wait 5 days to call, but that was never a necessity anyway.

 

[Paradox]

Nice replies from everyone so far. This situation could be dangerous. The outcome depends on how YOU act.

Take Quick & princelydeeds advice --Sneaking around and playing games is not a real option here. Do what you want but be forward and upfront about it.

LouieVaton Don brought up a good point but most psycho girls don't let you see their crazy side until it's too late...

You must set some ground rules otherwise you'll be in for a full-scale invasion.

If you don't know what you are doing then don't light that stick of dynamite.

 

[OleRyder]

So did I, and have no quips about it... BUT, I'm moving out by the end of summer, so I am not taking any risks here. You have to assess your own situation.

 

[Industry]

Yeah. She seems interested... but how much I don't know. I'm really not ready for anything (relationship wise) yet so I'll just let my intentions be clear... "If you wanna knock boots at 2am, you know where I live. If you want someone to go shopping with, then I'm out of town."

 

[Ashlee Angel]

DON'T DO IT.

This is a bad idea man. There are tons of hot girls all around your town.

Fellas think for a minute of all of the " Booty calls" we've had, the majority have wanted to take it to the next level.

She knows when your home and when your not. It's way to risky and it's probably not worth it.

If you don't take my advice at least play it off like this. I think I read that your not ready for a relationship? Tell her this.

Be up front with her and say something like I am just looking for somebody to chill with nothing more. Trust me when your open and honest about sh!t like this it will make everything easier.