messed up situation

[excel]

Hey.. I have a screwed up situation here. I became really good friends with this girl this year and we're basically best friends. Over the past few months I've developed feelings for her and I think I'm getting these feelings because she's show TONS of interest in me as more than a friend. Thing is she has a bf.. they'll break up soon, all they do is fight but I don't know what to do. I think if I told her I had feelings with her she'd seriously rethink her current relationship. I don't know if I should tell her I have feelings for her or wait for her and her BF to breakup. I'm getting serious one-itis with this girl but I can't stop it. I haven't seen her in a while because I've been on vacation and all I could think of on the trip was her. Playas... what the hell should I do?

 

[unknowntim3]

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=46380

i have the same problem but minus the boyfriend... but if ur sure they are breaking up, then b/f has nothing to do with it...

we have the same problem =\

that link is a full thread on it tho, read up

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

I have 2 thoughts on this...

1. Don't tell her you love her just yet...calm down...you can ask her..."So you are having problems with your b/f, are you taking any newcomers? She'll get the hint! if she doesn't get the hint then take her indiiference as a no!

2. Do nothing..she sees you only as a friend and she is already aware that you are infactuated with her - this is no secret to her. She'll come to you when she is ready to dump this guy. You'll just be the next pimp in line!

Just don't be act like a chump and drivel all over her. And quit being 'friends only' with girls that you like!!!!

And no, this is not a messed up situation, it is your head (thinking) that is messed up!

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Do not, I repeat do not tell her straight that you like her and for the love of god don't drag the word feelings into it.... Those are things you can do AFTER you've gotten with her