Today around noon, I wuz gettin somethin to drink and I see this HB right in front of me, I had more than a minute to say somethin but I just couldn't get anythin out of my mouth. You could say I was nervous or something, now lookin back I messed up badly. The problem is that I have so many limiting beliefs ingrained in me by my parents. They tell me that if I approach a woman she'll think im desparate, that in order to get a woman I must have good looks and lots of money. Whats the best way to get rid of the nervoussness inside u?
Messed up really bad today
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Don Juan
Well I had the same problem when I was younger, couldn't open my mouth, when I did never said the right things..and the list goes on and on. Being Nervous is a natural thing and you can't do away with it, you sure can control it. Just talk man, say a "What' up?" it won't hurt, she might say something back she might not..take the chance, your not going to lose anything..if she doesn't want to be in your kingdom, so be it...there are plenty of others waiting to join.
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Senior Don Juan
Simple, go talk to ten other women. Depending on where you are skill-wise, you could talk to uglies, or HBs, or just anybody who walks by. If you have trouble with what to say, try some of the canned openers found at fastseduction.com.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Don Juan
Well the thing is this...pick up lines don't work. The thing that works for me is a simple HELLO..or WHAT'S UP. Keep it simple. Since you say you can keep a conversation going, I think that would be the best start. Try it, it works .. even if their not interested at first.
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Don Juan
Oh yeah and read the articles
