Drmuscular
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2024
- Messages
- 20
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- Age
- 20
Context
So basically i went out with this girl, we hit it off pretty nicely, made out first date, grabbed her ass, tried to go to her place (I'm still a broke college student and she is three years older than me and independent, got no place of my own) but she refused saying that it was too fast or whatever, but verbally said "maybe in the second or third date", next week i invite her out, I sense a flake so I pre-emptively flake because my gut points out to a flake, everything adds up, her interest goes up after i cancel on her and she starts initiating more after that for some reason, I invited her out and then she cancels like one day before which is not good, I asked her out next week and she says yes.
NOW HERE IS THE **** UP
Basically because I was on a rampage I was juggling multiple women, like one every day of the week, I invited another girl to a similar venue for the same day but cancelled on her for this girl, problem is that I confused the venues and I went to the wrong one which is basically at the other side of the city, she calls me to ask me where I am, I told her where I was and she was in fact basically at the other side of the city waiting for me, I probably looked like a dumbass, anyways I told her "no worries, we cant change it right now but just enjoy the rest of the night, want me to come there or maybe come here" she said that she would come here, at that point I expected her to not show up, however just in case I bought some cheap chocolates, and waited for like 40 mins (yes it was that far away)... turns out she did come!
The date
I spat out my game on her, never accepted fault and changed subject but she kept bringing it up, it was funny though she laughed a lot, I handed her the chocolates later that night, she said "ill give you a hug", I said no, so she kissed me but then stopped and said "I just remembered" she was still a little pissed I think, did not verbally apologize though until the end of the night where I was going to kiss her, she pulled away and said "admit it was your fault" I said ok my fault, she did it again until I said it again and then she kissed me, I think this last thing was not good though seems kind of submissive.
After the date and what I'm trying to figure out
Now guys the problem here is that her interest clearly dropped anyways, I think she did come because she was still willing to see what I was going to do or how I was going to behave after that, the date ensured that she still responds to my texts and I think is still possible, **** if it wasn't because of that I'm 100% sure I would have facked her that night.
Anyways the problem is that I invited her out the next week, and she flaked with the lamest excuse! I said "ok don't worry tell me when you have the time" so I basically put the ball in her court, its been two weeks and while she has initiated texts and we have texted back and forth, she hasn't even mentioned meeting up, I think that if I invite her out I will look weak as ****, but not sure maybe I could try again? is there anything else I can do? I feel kind of powerless and don't want to lose this one because of a dumb mistake, I do like her. I think maybe putting the ball in her court was a mistake? I don't want to loose too much frame man.
So basically i went out with this girl, we hit it off pretty nicely, made out first date, grabbed her ass, tried to go to her place (I'm still a broke college student and she is three years older than me and independent, got no place of my own) but she refused saying that it was too fast or whatever, but verbally said "maybe in the second or third date", next week i invite her out, I sense a flake so I pre-emptively flake because my gut points out to a flake, everything adds up, her interest goes up after i cancel on her and she starts initiating more after that for some reason, I invited her out and then she cancels like one day before which is not good, I asked her out next week and she says yes.
NOW HERE IS THE **** UP
Basically because I was on a rampage I was juggling multiple women, like one every day of the week, I invited another girl to a similar venue for the same day but cancelled on her for this girl, problem is that I confused the venues and I went to the wrong one which is basically at the other side of the city, she calls me to ask me where I am, I told her where I was and she was in fact basically at the other side of the city waiting for me, I probably looked like a dumbass, anyways I told her "no worries, we cant change it right now but just enjoy the rest of the night, want me to come there or maybe come here" she said that she would come here, at that point I expected her to not show up, however just in case I bought some cheap chocolates, and waited for like 40 mins (yes it was that far away)... turns out she did come!
The date
I spat out my game on her, never accepted fault and changed subject but she kept bringing it up, it was funny though she laughed a lot, I handed her the chocolates later that night, she said "ill give you a hug", I said no, so she kissed me but then stopped and said "I just remembered" she was still a little pissed I think, did not verbally apologize though until the end of the night where I was going to kiss her, she pulled away and said "admit it was your fault" I said ok my fault, she did it again until I said it again and then she kissed me, I think this last thing was not good though seems kind of submissive.
After the date and what I'm trying to figure out
Now guys the problem here is that her interest clearly dropped anyways, I think she did come because she was still willing to see what I was going to do or how I was going to behave after that, the date ensured that she still responds to my texts and I think is still possible, **** if it wasn't because of that I'm 100% sure I would have facked her that night.
Anyways the problem is that I invited her out the next week, and she flaked with the lamest excuse! I said "ok don't worry tell me when you have the time" so I basically put the ball in her court, its been two weeks and while she has initiated texts and we have texted back and forth, she hasn't even mentioned meeting up, I think that if I invite her out I will look weak as ****, but not sure maybe I could try again? is there anything else I can do? I feel kind of powerless and don't want to lose this one because of a dumb mistake, I do like her. I think maybe putting the ball in her court was a mistake? I don't want to loose too much frame man.
