mentor?

[Bryce556]

Im looking for a coach or mentor in this area of girls, ive read alot and done alot and I still dont seem to be getting any better. Im stuck, I try to talk to girls at school but make no progress. I am in grade 12 and would like to go out with a bang! My group of friends in enclosed with a few girls whose friends are only others in my group, all computer, gamers and relitivly smart people, not social popular by any respect, more or less the outcast group of kids no one elese can relate to, excluding some cause there is some kids we dont even like anyways is there anyone that can help me and work with me? I live in Canada BC and I use msn if somone wants to talk through that.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Young brother,

Go ahead and Start here:

We'll help you with whatever you need. But you must be honest with yourself above all else.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Yo Bryce556,


Also, you may want to check out another one of Karma's threads like this one. Pick you some goals that your progress in attaining them can be measured. Start out small, then work your way up. Move at a pace that motivates you, but at the same time, it keeps you from continuing to settle into your usual COMFORT ZONE.

Also, focus on just talking with people (different kinds of people----not JUST girls). Start becoming INTERESTED in other people, AND in what they say, and what THEY are "into". That way, you will continue to develop yourself as you find yourself developing other interests.

Practice talking to girls casually at first, and then as you AND HER get more comfortable, THEN you can begin to escalate things more and MORE towards the "romantic" direction. DO THIS until your confidence grows and you feel the "fear" getting smaller inside of you.

NEVER look at any girl, or ANYBODY as "above" you. You are the MOST important person on the planet, because there is only ONE "you". So focus on being ALL you can be. And celebrate EVERY success you have during this process----no matter how "small" you may think it is. Because ONE success ALWAYS builds into, AND inspires another.

Also, read this post I made in this thread just to get you started on the path of being able to relate to a broader and BROADER group of people------especially GIRLS.


March on, young soldier.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Your mentor should be grounded in truth and not in words. Seek your masculinity first and foremost before you seek a woman. Once you have a secure grasp of your masculinity then, and only then, will you know what women is best suited for you! Do not follow popular opinion - popularity leads to the same fate as the masses of men - which is disappointment and distress! Do the exact opposite of what the mass media tells you to do - seek your manhood and reject the hor!!!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

One of the best ways to improve your game is to follow SS bootcamp .

Reading without field work means nothing .