Mentally ill women

[Ranger]

Most of these women appear normal and lure you in with good times and great sex for many months and even years, which is what makes the mental disorders so potentially damaging. It is not always so easy to spot right away.

Ok. I will bite. According to high end mental health personnel. Including Jordan Peterson, clearly state that there is no defense against true sociopaths.

So I guess if you are looking for a LTR or maybe even marriage, it can appear daunting. Basically, you’re not ready for either. There are plenty of us who have no fear whatsoever. There’s nothing really to fear. But I understand that there are different personality types that will fall for it every time.
Or at least be more susceptible to those influences. Cool. You recognize your failings and weaknesses.
You are easily brought into her frame.

What are you going to do about it? Keep studying the obvious? I really need to say this. Most of those women won’t do that to some of us. Plain and simple. We are not those personality types. We shut it down or limit the fuk time or just tell her it’s over. No remorse and no loss is felt. It’s really that simple. This is pretty easy stuff.
Are you really that unaware that you are being duped slowly? I can spot it pretty quick. What is it that you aren’t getting? Why can you see past the face of her game? What is actually going on with you that causes it? I’m in total mystery that you can’t see it.

 

[Spaz]

Exactly @Ranger

Everyone is excited 2 point fingers but yet don't offer much of a solution and when we do offer a simple solution, it's being shot down, why ?

Is it not workable? Why ?

Perhaps it's hard to say NO to being bullied by girls ? Why?

Is it hard to train urself not 2 be a doormat ? Why?

If anyone needs training in the above matters, let us know, some might hv the knowledge and share 2 ur benefit.

As for the red flags, there's perhaps plenty of threads littered in SS that speaks volumes on the variables present in any crazies mind - does anyone seriously think that men could remember all those as the days/weeks/months/years passes by ?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly @Ranger

Everyone is excited 2 point fingers but yet don't offer much of a solution and when we do offer a simple solution, it's being shot down, why ?

Is it not workable? Why ?

Perhaps it's hard to say NO to being bullied by girls ? Why?

Is it hard to train urself not 2 be a doormat ? Why?

If anyone needs training in the above matters, let us know, some might hv the knowledge and share 2 ur benefit.

As for the red flags, there's perhaps plenty of threads littered in SS that speaks volumes on the variables present in any crazies mind - does anyone seriously think that men could remember all those as the days/weeks/months/years passes by ?

I think the light at the end of the tunnel is to choose females that wouldnt bully or doormat you. Once thats your norm youll never go back.

 

[Ranger]

I think the light at the end of the tunnel is to choose females that wouldnt bully or doormat you. Once thats your norm youll never go back.

I just don’t know where a man would find a woman like that.
I would be asking her not to be a woman on this planet and have a completely different genetic encoding.
From what I have gathered, these types in question love bomb you. Who doesn’t want that? So any woman who shows too much affection she’s automatically dumped?
What if it’s been a while since someone made her feel really good?
They have to push your edges. How will she know you are still capable?
I just don’t see how a man can function with all these signs and red flags.
Wouldn’t just be better to be a more masculine man that is certain of himself?

 

[Music_czar]

This is pretty easy stuff.
Are you really that unaware that you are being duped slowly? I can spot it pretty quick. What is it that you aren’t getting? Why can you see past the face of her game? What is actually going on with you that causes it? I’m in total mystery that you can’t see it.

Yeah sure you can spot it pretty quick that’s why you spent 20 years and had four kids with a woman who was crazy.

Your laughable hypocrisy aside, you don’t even realize it but you’re the perfect poster boy example of how important it is to understand these disorders, how they work, and how to avoid getting too involved with toxic women.

 

[Ranger]

Yeah sure it’s pretty easy stuff that’s why you spent 20 years and had four kids with a woman who was crazy.
.

No crazier than any other woman and less crazier than some I run into. That’s when I figured out that it’s all the same.
Besides, I helped make her crazier by starting my journey to my unplugging. About four years ago. I didn’t really know where to find the info I have now. Not until I read the Rational Male.
I think there was a lot of things for me to learn.
Rule number one that I live and breathe by. In business, work and relationships.

1) if it happens to me, I did it.

I have never blamed a client in my life. I merely slid that over to apply to women. I never blame a woman for my failures. EVER
If in doubt, refer back to rule #1

 

[Ranger]

As long as you blame a woman, you are doomed to failure. Because there’s no solution. It’s women. Women are the cause. Power position ad-infinitum. You can’t win. That’s the feminine imperative. You are still in the matrix.

Now if you change your mindset, say “somehow, some way, I brought this on myself.”
Well, then there are solutions because you are back in charge.
This isn’t even about women. It’s about everything.

 

[Music_czar]

Besides, I helped make her crazier.

1) if it happens to me, I did it.

Your ex wife taught you well.

As long as you blame a woman, you are doomed to failure.

The comments in this thread are not about blame, they’re about identifying female toxic behaviour and getting out of a relationship with a damaged woman before you do something really stupid like marry her for 20 years and have four kids with her.

 

[Ranger]

Your ex wife taught you well.



The comments in this thread are not about blame, they’re about identifying female toxic behaviour and getting out of a relationship with a damaged woman before you do something really stupid like marry her for 20 years and have four kids with her.

Oh my. Never mind.

 

[Ranger]

Lol. When I ended relationships as a clueless AFC I thought exactly the way Ranger did too. Everything was my fault. I suspect some of the more stubborn people are as crazy as the women we are exposing though.

Wow. That is not what that means. Holy cow. LMAO
Please tell me you guys haven’t been living under a rock somewhere.
Have you read ANYTHING on personal power and responsibility? Are you self aware even a little bit?

First off. No one can force or assign responsibility unless you accept it. Never accept a woman’s urge to force what she is responsible for onto you. Throw it back in her face and kick her to the curb with extreme predujice until she can correct her conduct.

Accept and take on your failures. (What you have the courage to admit to yourself)
There is not one thing that has happened to you that hasn’t been your fault. To one degree or another. You have no power to change the make-up of a woman. She is incapable of that.
“You can’t cure a woman of being a woman.”

Stop talking about women and start talking about and thinking about concerning you.

1). I married her because I got her pregnant. Despite a few warning signs even though I didn’t recognize them at the time for what they were.
MY FAULT

2). I accepted the “Sex isn’t that important to me”
MY FAULT

3). Thinking that trying to please her and working harder than most men in the attempt to buy intimacy and love.
MY FAULT

4). Blaming her for my troubles in life.
MY FAULT

5). Thinking and knowing I was in a bad situation but had more children.
MY FAULT

6). Unable to leave because I couldn’t bear the idea of being poor and not having my children with me.
This was a conscious decision and I bided my time.
MY FAULT (still a good decision in my mind)

So pardon me when I tell you to STFU. What she is responsible for or did does not belong to me. I neither persecute nor blame her or my children.
I did it from day one. You got smashed by crazy women because you were a pvssy at the time and by the course of this thread you still are.

 

[Ranger]

You just took the most circular route from self-blame to self blame lol

Blank stare at the wonder. Unbelievable. Hahaha

 

[Spaz]

Using someone's ex wife 2 character assassinate?

Btw don't deviate from the true intentions of this thread. Get back on track guys.

Use this opportunity to teach, learn, share and explore possibilities towards improving.

 

[Music_czar]

Using someone's ex wife 2 character assassinate? .

No, it’s called uncovering bs by using a real life example to show that toxic women aren’t as “quick and easy to spot” as the author claims.

 

[Ranger]

No, it’s called uncovering bs by using a real life example to show that toxic women aren’t as “quick and easy to spot” as the author claims.

Who would even try to spot them? Why would one even be concerned? It’s BS from your victim viewpoint. I don’t even care if they are crazy.

 

[Ranger]

I think, can't say for sure cause this behaviour is confusing to deal with, that guys doing this seem to be trading pedastalling women for pathologising them.

Now that is something to think about. Thanks
A complete shift of responsibility.

 

[Billtx49]

Who would even try to spot them? Why would one even be concerned? .

A man that values his time enough not to waste months or years on a damaged woman and cares to not get damaged himself in the process of dealing with crazy…
It’s common sense.

 

[Spaz]

No, it’s called uncovering bs by using a real life example to show that toxic women aren’t as “quick and easy to spot” as the author claims.

You hv posted numerous times abt his ex wife who is not here to defend herself, as such there can be no uncovering.

People r watching, judging, and wondering the need to continously go for low blows merely to assassinate a man's character.

If you must, then disprove his theory or his philosophical stances with reason or an opposing stance of ur own.

We hv yet to see one viable solution that's sustainable from you.

All you've been doing is talking how bad BPD's are, repeatedly....

Inject something new into the thread.

 

[Ranger]

A man that values his time enough not to waste months or years on a damaged woman and not get damaged himself in the process of dealing with crazy…
It’s common sense.

I should qualify this. She will never be anything but a plate or a ONS. We will never have a relationship or “fall in love”.
Obviously she is not relationship worthy. I don’t suffer oneitis. I’ve had plenty of good sex so it’s not a factor.

 

[Music_czar]

They are trying to say your ex's are bpd now too lol.

How do you know she’s not?

I think, can't say for sure cause this behaviour is confusing to deal with, that guys doing this seem to be trading pedastalling women for pathologising them.

It’s important to understand their pathology or you will just end up making big mistakes.. such as marrying them for 20 years and having a bunch of kids with them.

You hv posted numerous times abt his ex wife who is not here to defend herself, as such there can be no uncovering.

People r watching, judging, and wondering the need to continously go for low blows merely to assassinate a man's character.

If you must, then disprove his theory or his philosophical stances with reason or an opposing stance of ur own.

She doesn’t need to be here to defend herself this isn’t a court of law. Her ex husband of 20 years himself called her crazy.

There were no low blows, the author claimed toxic women are easy for him to spot and he just avoids them, I pointed out that his own situation with his ex proves this is not the case.

We hv yet to see one viable solution that's sustainable from you.

All you've been doing is talking how bad BPD's are, repeatedly....

Inject something new into the thread.

All my posts discuss how bad BPD’s are precisely so men can understand what they’re dealing with and the necessity of avoiding them. That is the solution, are you really this thick to not understand that.

You should spend more time reading and learning than being argumentative and stubborn.

 

[Ranger]

How do you know she’s not?



It’s important to understand their pathology or you will just end up making big mistakes.. such as marrying them for 20 years and having a bunch of kids with them.



She doesn’t need to be here to defend herself this isn’t a court of law. Her ex husband of 20 years himself called her crazy.

There were no low blows, the author claimed toxic women are easy for him to spot and he just avoids them, I pointed out that his own situation with his ex proves this is not the case.



All my posts discuss how bad BPD’s are precisely so men can understand what they’re dealing with and the necessity of avoiding them. That is the solution, are you really this thick to not understand that.

You should spend more time reading and learning than being argumentative and stubborn.

Sounds like you have lots of experiences with BPDs. I wonder what causes that?

All women are crazy and more than just a few have admitted that to me. Even proudly. They know it. It’s not something new.
You said that as if you expect to find one that isn’t. Interesting.