The_411 said:
Did you tell the girl she looked like a taxi driver with a smile on your face?:rockon:
Seriously though why are you telling your mother anything? Do you tell her which position you like best or what type of sex you prefer?
The problem is that many guys don't get the art of negging and what it's used for ....
First off most of time when you neg a girl it should be done in such a way so she's knows you're not being serious or at least she thinks you're not being serious. (Now whether you are or not is your little secret). It's supposed to be playful and suggest hey I get that you (girl) aren't perfect and I'm not going to pedestal you.
You have get a bit nastier with extremely hot women because they throw up massive walls but it still shouldn't lose the jovial element.
As for the comment itself it sucks. How does a girl ever look like a taxi driver? I don't quite get it so I'm sure it just wasn't funny. Noweif you said she smells like a taxi driver you might have been onto something ... even still
if you elect to neg make comments on something a woman can control like her clothes, and avoid negs about her looks, her weight as these almost always turn out extremely poor.
For example a girl I know wore a t -shirt with shiny rhinestones. The T shirt was a standard gray t-shirt nothing special no ornate designs so I teased/negged her by saying, "Now xxxx, where you getting busy with a bedazzler last night?" She laughed and started joking with me say yeah I stayed up late making this shirt.
I am a pretty funny guy in real life and I would always throw negs in, in somewhat of a funny way.
like the girl that i chased for a very long time, while she was very beautiful, she had an abnormally big head lol, so i would always call her waterhead. even now when I see her that's what i call her. very playful, very lighthearted, yet at the same time, letting her know that in fact, her head is fat as fvck, which i assure you it is.
like my wife and i, even now, and make no mistake i'm head over heels in love with my wife. But my 11 year old sister can (seriously) cook better than she can. bless her heart she tries, and it's gotten better, especially ythe things i eat on a regular basis, but if we are having company she better not step foot inn the kitichen. So right after our honeymoon i have been in the grilling mood and bought a new fancy grill, and i've been grilling some of everything. so she decides she was going to try to grill some chicken aboubt 2 weeks ago and i say "oh lord let me go ahead and call the fire department now, just so they can get a head start", she gives me a playful hit, but she's laughing.
That is how a neg hit is to be used. You see a girl out you start talking to her, get her laughing first, get her lossend up, find something about her that you can make her realize she is human. I have found it better you talk to a woman first, and let them give you ammunition then if you go towards her and start to just try to come up with something. you might talk to a woman for 10 minutes and she tells you a story about how she was too drunk to drive home the night before or last week, now you can call her a wino all night long and crack jokes about AA, and she can't do anything but laugh. That IMHO is how a neg hit is used.
I mean think about it. How would you like it if some chick came up to you and said "hey, i'm jane, nice to meet you.....you are black as hell you know that" rotfl i would laugh actually but you get the point, that's not very smooth. how would you feel if a girl came up to you and just said something that actually HURT lol. what if you are trying to lose weight and the chick said "damn those jeans really aren't fitting are they"
in other words, there is a fine line between negging and hurting a womans' feelings. women or not, they are human and have up's and downs and self esteem and all that good jazz. You don't want to hurt their feelings but at the same time, you don't want them to think that they are above you in anyway.
