progressive1: a brief and rather broad answer to your question is that in order to be loved by women, you need to love yourself. And when I say that I REALLY mean love yourself... Do you love your physical appearance? Do you love your sense of humor? Do you love the way you are able to speak to a woman? (All the aspects about yourself that you have control over)
Take these few qualities that I have mentioned, along with others that you may think of, and sharpen them up.. keep sharpening them till summer..
Come summer you'll be a deadly weapon, unstoppable!