my experience
My brother fell in love with a woman, she ended up setting him up and getting him killed.
I dated a girl for a year and she ended up a part time hooker to pay for college and Christian Dior hand bags.
I dated a girl who toyed with my head for nearly a year.
I worked in an office, and for a woman for 8 months, she treated me like crap becauses she was insecure about herself.
I have a lot of reasons to be suspicious of women.
You ever heard the old saying "the woman is the devils tool".
If you believe in the bible and God, the story of adam and eve illustrates a woman's mind and ease of manipulation. Women are easy to manipulate, which is why they have numerous affairs. They are gullible, and believe almost anything you tell them.
I know this from dating a lot of girls.
What I will say is this,
Some women are better then others.
Some men are nice, some men are pricks.
Are there more bad women then bad men?
There is no way of knowing any of these questions.
This is LIFE and this is what we deal with every day.
It happens to ALL OF US.
We are here on this board because most guys are depressed, lonely, and want to learn how to play women.
I guarantee nobody on this board will just come here, read the board, and become some master with women.
It's not reality. We can read about Presidents, Evil Leaders like Hitler and Stalin, Famous people, but just reading about them, watching their movies, it won't make us them.
The best advice I ever read and the simplest
"SOCIALIZE AND BE OUT THERE"
that is it. That is all you need to know.
to take control with women this is the hardest thing a man can possibly do
"BE CONFIDENT AND IN CONTROL"
confidence means a lot of things, it doesn't mean being mr big shot, money bags, and feeling like you control the world,
It means being able to not show you anger frustration, and being STOIC.
This is so hard, I strive to be this way but I can't.
I wish I could.
Men who are rich aren't exactly the most confident, many are lonely people.
Beautiful women are very lonely people,
The people who have BRASS BALLS, BRAINS are the ones who maintain in the game.
Even women, there are many beautiful girls who are depressed and hate themselves, and there are many beautiful girls who are
Femme Fatales, and have guys bowing 90 degrees to them...why? they are confident girls...
The guys who win are the ones WHO DONT CARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this means REALLY NOT CARING YOU CAN NOT ACT THIS OUT....
YOU HAVE TO INSIDE NOT CARE. I CAN'T DO THIS YET!!!!
BUT EVERY EXPERIENCED SUCCESSFULL GUY HAS TOLD ME LIKE A BROKEN RECORD..I HAVE MET CEO'S, PRESIDENTS OF COMPANIES, PLAYBOYS, SUGAR DADDIES,
"YOU HAVE TO NOT CARE"
"YOU HAVE TO ENJOY THEIR COMPANY, COMPLIMENT THEM, ENJOY YOURSELF"
"NEVER BE UPTIGHT, NEVER SHOW ANGER"
"BE IN TOTAL CONTROL, WHEN AND WHERE TO GO"
"IN THE BEDROOM TAKE CHARGE"
"NEVER PRESSURE HER"
"LET HER DEVELOP THE MENTALITY THAT YOU WOULD WALK AWAY ANY MINUTE"
"MAKE HER THINK SHE IS THE ONLY WOMAN IN THE ENTIRE ROOM"
"DATING IS A GAME, IF SHE PULLS CRAP WITH YOU , DON'T PUT UP WITH IT, IT'S A TEST, JUST WALK AWAY FROM HER FOREVER,---SHE'LL COME BACK"
"NEVER NEVER NEVER EXPRESS INSECURITY, WHERE WERE YOU, WHY ARE YOU LATE, WHY DON'T YOU CALL"
THAT IS IT FELLAS. I KNOW IT ALL BUT CAN I DO IT? HELL NO
I TRY REALLY HARD BUT I'VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT OF CRAP AND GET TOUCHY WITH GIRLS WHO PULL CRAP ON ME.
I AM LEARNING AND STILL YOUNG (22)
BUT MOST OF MY FRIENDS ARE OLDER AND SUCCESSFULL WITH GIRLS, AND THEY TELL ME THIS STUFF...BUT YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO HAVE BRASS ONES THE SIZE OF BASKETBALLS TO PULL THIS OFF.
FORGET AW'S, FORGET WH*RES, FORGET PRINCESSES, FORGET FEMINIST, FORGET ALL OF THE LABELS WE PUT ON WOMEN.
THEY PUT LABELS ON US FOR WHO WE ARE AND HOW WE ACT.
I'VE FAILED COUNTLESS TIMES WITH GIRLS, BUT I KNOW THE GOLDEN KEY TO SUCCESS, BUT I DON'T HAVE THE WILL POWER YET TO PULL THE ABOVE OFF.
LIKE MOST GUYS ON THIS SITE I IMAGINE, IF THEY WERE SO GOOD THEY WOULDN'T BE ASKING ADVICE ON THIS SITE.
