Men who hate women

[Fenderules]

im seeing a lot of negative attitutes to women period on this site. I lotta guys just seem to act like women are all brides of satan and will turn on you at anytime. I think some guys have gotten burned bad......a lot (myself included) and they are brining their negative attitude here and infecting this site. Its really starting to piss me off cause its almost as if they are out to destory women or something. I mean there of course are attentionr *****s, major sluts and *****es out there.....but they are not all like that. I think the insecure guys just assume they are mean and nasty so they dont have to associate with them anyway......(insecurity) if they hate all women....then how can they get burned? of course how are they gonna get serious with a women?? just one night stands???? i mean how long can you do that for? The only thing that has a major effect on your life is your ATTITUTE! if you think women are the enemy.....then they will be the enemy because you will treat them that way and come off with a negative vibe.

and a Don Juan's attitue cannot be changed....he decides himself what emotions he feels with no influence from ANYBODY.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Me personally I think 98% of them aren't worth dealing with outside of sex let alone ltr's.I'm just being real and speaking from experience and from what I've seen my boys go through.

I'd be stupid to see a girl be a ***** to 10 people and expect for her not to turn on me sooner or later.

I'd be retarded to see all the women in my life be *****es and assume it's just men being afc's and making them angry.

One of the major keys to my success is knowing full well that they are all or have the potential to be *****es from hell.

Now that doesn't mean that I yell at them or instigate sh1t with them.That means I PLAY them. I let them think i'm a cool guy who isn't a symp who will put my game on pause just for them...then I strike.

That's the whole game.

 

[SamePendo]

Player_Supreme says I'm a woman hater.

 

[00Kevin]

The fact is most women are useless to you. It takes a man time to realize this in our modern society.

Guys who find this site are usually very frustrated, confused, and depressed. What else do you expect to find on here? Some kind of DJ utopia?

Is this site not an outlet for people to vent and then realize the errors in their ways?

Ever get into a fight with a guy and then end up good friends later on? Well.. that is the same thing that is happening here. These guys are fighting with women. Let them fight and then from that develop and understanding.


Don't get turned off by all the negative posts. These guys need to write posts like that. It helps them deal with the hate they feel. It is up to those of us how are past that stage to help them out thereafter.

 

[LucidDreamer]

Originally posted by SamePendo
Player_Supreme says I'm a woman hater.

with a rainbow colored sig like that i think he's right *just kidding*

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

As my favorite rapper would say, " I don't luv dem ho's"

Yeah yeah we know that carrying aound a bad attitude towards women is negative, but many of us need some edge, we need to learn to devalue women without disrespecting them.

Many of us assume that a pretty chick is something special and put her above everyone else. This disrespect that you find here is what the previous poster stated, a means for us to get our frustration out. In a man hating society can we say anything without the PC police *****ing at us?

my 2cents

 

[cave dweller]

hate........

Hey,

"Why do most men hate women."


After you spend a little time with several you will find out.

They are only good for one thing.

cave dweller

 

[Alpine]

The irony is, the better you become at DJing the less you have the bitter and twisted views of women because you start having much better experiences with them, and the bad ones you don't give a **** about anyway.

There's a big difference between hating women and being aware of their little games, tests and general manipulative strategies.

 

[belividere]

Let me take this opprotunity to express what I assume about 90% of the folks on here would consider a mortal sin. I geniunely LOVE women. Let me go ahead and confess another DJ "sin" that I indulge in. I have many good friends who are women.

Why am I even saying this? Throughout my life I have gone through a lot of periods regarding relationships. I have been in LTR's, been playing the field for flings and one-night stands and have taken sabbaticals from women all together. When I first started dating I had an attitude that placed women as inferior beings to myself. They were the prey and I enjoyed the hunt. I burned a lot of girls and some of them probably still hate me for it. I was well en route to becoming a sociopath.

I loved the hunt and the challenges that were associated with it. One thing that I realized though is that it wasn't making me happy. It also wasn't very successful. I could get one night stands or a few dates out of it but when I went in thinking that she was going to be a b1tch or an AW it would always come true. If she were to treat me like I could potentially be an ******* then hell I would act like an *******.

I'm glad I lost that mindset a long time ago. When I began to take a geniune interest in women as people and not objects my game shot up. I was happy and have remained so. Since then I also cannot remember a time where I have been burned at all. I treat women with the same respect that I in turn expect. It has worked quite well. Most importantly it has allowed me to have more fun.

 

[sexual_intellectual]

I love women! Shamelessly.

When they're good, they're very very good, when they're bad, they're horrid.

When a girls out of line, I won't hesitate to put her straight. If that makes me a misogynist, slap on the cuffs, cos I'm not changing.

There's nothing like spending a day with a woman you're absolutely crazy about. Maybe the experience can be topped, but I sure haven't yet!

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by sexual_intellectual
I love women! Shamelessly. When a girls out of line, I won't hesitate to put her straight. If that makes me a misogynist, slap on the cuffs, cos I'm not changing.

Nuff said...

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by Alpine
The irony is, the better you become at DJing the less you have the bitter and twisted views of women because you start having much better experiences with them, and the bad ones you don't give a **** about anyway.

There's a big difference between hating women and being aware of their little games, tests and general manipulative strategies.

Very well said.

When I read posts from guys who hate or disrespect women, it makes me cringe. It clearly shows that they are totally insecure and incapable of dealing with them.

It's like a defensive mechanism they put up to stop themselves being hurt. They might think they have balls because they can approach women and reel off some robotic PUA crap, but the truth is they are defensive because women scare them.

I think a lot of these women-haters need to grow some balls.

What a lot of guys don't realise is that most b1tches are b1tches because of the exact same reason - they have been hurt by men and come to hate and lose all respect for them.

 

[MrCode]

I think it is the nature of man to hate what he does not understand. So if you hate women it probably means you feel ignorant about them. The solution? Education (this site) and experience (field work.)

I think what a lot of guys need to realize is that there is not some massive conspiracy by women to f*ck over all men. Women, just like us, want to find that one special person and spend their life with them. In fact I'd say they want this a lot more than us. Do you realize that a lot of women have just as much trouble with men as some of us have with them?

I would also venture to say that a lot of the bad attitudes women have are due to some bad experience with men. Hmmmm, that sounds a lot like how guys here have bad attitudes about women because of how they have been hurt by them. Maybe we aren't so different after all, eh?

The solution is to try to be a little better and step above all the BS. Be a man and don't let women walk all over you, but that doesn't mean you should disrespect them.

I think a true DJ has a deep love for womankind, and that is a large part of his success and happiness. They are not the enemy guys!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

I don't hate women, but that doesn't stop me from realising that they have been a complete and utter headache in my life up until now.

That's just a fact. I wasted a good part of my 20s on LTRs and while there were happy times, most of it was f*cking grief.

And it's not me. I'm a catch and a half, and even I have women proplems.

They lack logical thought and are never accountable for their own actions. That's the truth. As long as you realise this you are less likely to get burned.

That said, there is always going to be a price that you will pay with women - I.e. the f*cking you are going to get as opposed to the f*cking you are going to take.

That is a fact of life, simple as that.

 

[Interpol]

Originally posted by Fenderules

and a Don Juan's attitue cannot be changed....he decides himself what emotions he feels with no influence from ANYBODY.

What is with the proliferation of all these asanine rules about being a Don Juan? They are ridiculous and impossible. If you are completely oblivious to the influence of the outside world, then you have a MENTAL DISORDER. You can't "decide" what emotions you feel. This is almost as bad as "a Don Juan does not need a woman". Please, enough already with the stupid catchphrases.

 

[Fenderules]

Yeah i think the problem is that they many guys think the past equals the future. i mean they are acting like they are going to war with a stick mean while they are now armed with a freaking big shot gun (knowledge of this site of course)

Thats the differnce. We are properly equiped.

Many of us are afraid of poisonous snakes cause we dont know how to handle one if we came in contact with it.....look at the crocodile hunder.......he has now fear and actually see's them as beutiful creatures.



Woman can be taken the same way....if you know that they cannot hurt you if you dont let them......then what do you got to hate them for??????

 

[Alpine]

Sorry to disagree, but one of the key skills in life is to be in control of your emotions, if you so wish.

The belief that you can't learn to control your emotions is very limiting.

Sometimes I want to let my emotions free, other times not.

Sometimes I feel lazy, if I let that take hold I'd be a bum.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah control of emotions.....and i think a lotta guys ont hsi site let the past get the best of them. I'v been burned as much as many of these guys but i still hold a smile......why? cause i know kow that i'v seen their worst and while it was bad....it was bad for only one reason......i let it get bad. Had i know given a **** i would have not bothered. So instead of my a pesimist always assuming the worst (so i dont get burned) I just decide to keep a smile on my head..... and if the worst happens....i assume its not and be happy.


Kinda sounds retarded but there is one thing i learned from Tony Robbins....and ironically from philosophy.....Sarte exactly.

Sarte has a notion on freedom. He says we are essentially free in the sense that world war 3 could be happening but we could still be happy.

combined with some of tony robbins principles i belive we can manage our states....



for example....



stand up....... tall and put a huge smile on your face. Now in this position try and be depressed????? its actually difficult. The first time i tried it and im like WTF its not working. So now everytime i start to feel down i stand tall.....shoulders back and smile. It helps a lot.

 

[the_great_gaia]

I am the perfect example on why Guys Hate Women. Just read up on my past posts. Women cause pain. Women gives me unconditional pain. And since it is genetically impossible for me to be a homosexual, I have to put up with this PAIN from women. I hate women, and I want them all to SUFFER! I will make life HARD for them as of right now! I look at women as the enemy, and one woman's wrath on me is EVERY other woman's downfall (that wrathful woman included). THEY-WILL-SUFFER! You know what? I made a mistake: To call them "women" was an overstatement. Yeah, they're all BYTCHES! No woman exists. ONLY BYTCHES!! The ONE that proves me wrong will be the one I spend forever with...

 

[cave dweller]

3 friends.......

ok,

Three buddies, talking, age 25........"We all love them women, they are soooooooo sweet."

The same three buddies at age 55..."Son-of-a-b1tch, Wow, I can't believe my ex-wife sh*t on me like that!"

cave dweller