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Men: If lady says she wants a dildo instead of your penis...

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Is that ok? She wants dildo for a few reasons:

1. She is tired of same old stuff and wants something new
2. Less likely to get STDS/HIV/AIDS
3. No pregnancy.

Keep in mind she is straight though. What would you think if she said no to penal sex for a few weeks?
 

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Is that ok? She wants dildo for a few reasons:

1. She is tired of same old stuff and wants something new
2. Less likely to get STDS/HIV/AIDS
3. No pregnancy.

Keep in mind she is straight though. What would you think if she said no to penal sex for a few weeks?
It's an insult. But a few weeks let her sort it out. Ensure your getting head or anal
 

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How about vaginal-dildo sex and blow jobs during the relationship. Is that good enough?
No, she's playing you. I've heard of this before. With the physical penetration she has to concede some dominance, it's natural. By giving head, women can perform that massage without having to like the person.
 

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No, she's playing you. I've heard of this before. With the physical penetration she has to concede some dominance, it's natural. By giving head, women can perform that massage without having to like the person.
Some women will date a guy that is good to them, she knows he is, but she will keep giong after her pool of unavailable guys who won't do nothing for her but phvck. She will give this guy head to keep him "taken care of". They know what she does so she doesn't change it up. She will do what she does for you, while getting more out of you with you being her strongest contributer. A guy may be in the vagina at all times, while your getting your head and eating it.

Alot of woman do like to have one guy in there for the most part and don't switch out. Some don't care, but many in their slvttiness have "systems" which make them feel more comfortable.

Lemme guess, your doing way more than a boyfriend should and she doesn't really "need" a guy for anything else.
 

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Lol!

I made this thread just to make men taste their medicine. If it's insulting to replace your penis by dildo, it's also insulting to replace our vagina with an anus.

Guys asking me for anal is one of my biggest pet peeves!
 

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Lol!

I made this thread just to make men taste their medicine. If it's insulting to replace your penis by dildo, it's also insulting to replace our vagina with an anus.

Guys asking me for anal is one of my biggest pet peeves!
You can "offer" it though to like a husband. IT's a decent once in a while changeup. I'm not sure i'd have him back there all the time.
 

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Lol!

I made this thread just to make men taste their medicine. If it's insulting to replace your penis by dildo, it's also insulting to replace our vagina with an anus.

Guys asking me for anal is one of my biggest pet peeves!
Hey lady, some women this day and age WOULD think that one up.
 

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@Amy359
As a fellow female poster I don't appreciate your childish b.s.
You should stick around and read the content on these boards, you may learn a thing or two. These guys don't deserve to be fvcked with. There's some amazing content here, especially of you can open your mind.
 

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@Amy359
As a fellow female poster I don't appreciate your childish b.s.
You should stick around and read the content on these boards, you may learn a thing or two. These guys don't deserve to be fvcked with. There's some amazing content here, especially of you can open your mind.
I'm not angry, because it is something that CAN come up this day and age...
 

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I'm not angry, because it is something that CAN come up this day and age...
I understand. What frustrates me is that a fair amount of men are on these boards because they feel disrespected and not taken seriously by women. And here is an example of just that. If the female has a legitimate question, by all means ask. Otherwise, trolls suk
 

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I would say the same thing to @Amy359 that I would say to any man on this board. Figure out your standard , set those standards, and stick to them regardless. is a man is into anal you are not obviously you two are not compatible. don't drag anything on, you're both just wasting each others time.
 

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Most girls hate anal and just do it to please their man, even though it is degrading and painful. It's such a shame we would do that to make you happy, but you guys think using a dildo is too insulting. And all the men here say they wouldn't do it.

I'm sick of the idea of women sacrificing their happiness to make their men happy.

www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2266/anal-sex/
 
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Most girls hate anal and just do it to please their man, even though it is degrading and painful. It's such a shame we would do that to make you happy, but you guys think using a dildo is too insulting. And all the men here say they wouldn't do it.

I'm sick of the idea of women sacrificing their happiness to make their men happy.

www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sexual-health/a2266/anal-sex/
Sometimes we sacrifice to make the other happy. If they HATE it, they can choose to limit the amount or not allow it. If it's something you really don't like and do it only 6 times a year is it so terrible? Us men do things we don't like or wasn't plan on doing ALL the time to keep our women happy. Anyways in the end it's her body and her choice.
 

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Sorry but when it comes to sex, there should be no sacrifices. Especially when there's pain involved.

Outside the bedroom, sacrificing your happiness for your partner is ok... in fact I encourage it. Or else you are a selfish person that always wants everything your way.
 

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Sorry but when it comes to sex, there should be no sacrifices. Especially when there's pain involved.

Outside the bedroom, sacrificing your happiness for your partner is ok... in fact I encourage it. Or else you are a selfish person that always wants everything your way.
Losing virginity is painful and the next 3-5 times after this may be painful. Anal does not continue to be painful after 1/2 a dozen times and women actually find they strangely ORGASM from it. Women have done it to please me, I take my time and not rush it. Over time they grow to enjoy it. I prefer vagina. But I like the opportuntiy to change it up every once in a blue moon. ANd believe me, sometimes these women force your c0ck to their anus it's not even you taking it.
 

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Losing virginity is painful and the next 3-5 times after this may be painful. Anal does not continue to be painful after 1/2 a dozen times and women actually find they strangely ORGASM from it. Women have done it to please me, I take my time and not rush it. Over time they grow to enjoy it. I prefer vagina. But I like the opportuntiy to change it up every once in a blue moon. ANd believe me, sometimes these women force your c0ck to their anus it's not even you taking it.
I agree if she feels degraded time and time again after trying it a hand full of times then it's not for her.
 
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