Your only competition is YOU. I completely disagree that other men are your competition when it comes to women. This assumes that if two or more men are competing for a woman, that someone is going to 'win'. That is complete BS, and I will tell you why....
EVERYTHING STARTS WITH THE WOMAN.... she either wants you or she doesn't. No amount of dancing around like a grinder monkey begging for coins is going to change this. So if you have a bunch of dudes at a club hitting on a chick what they are actually doing isn't really that important, because if she doesn't want any of them... none of them will get her.
Anyway... really men should start thinking of themselves as the prize, not that the woman is a 'prize' after successful completion of a competition. If you have to win a woman by being the best dancing grinder monkey... well then you better like being a dancing grinder monkey because that is what you will have to keep doing to keep her.