Meeting up with Girl I haven't seen in 4 months...

[montybrown]

Next week I am picking up this chick I've been talking to on the phone for the past 4 months. I met her 4 months ago when she came on vacation here, I tried to hook up with her, but she said I was too pushy and I kinda fvcked up. But we've became really good friends, talking on the phone pretty much every day. I'm going to Vegas next week and she is flying there too for her first time to meet up with me. We'll be staying at my mom's house when she flys in and then we're getting a Hotel until she leaves.

Question is how should I react? I really want to fvck her so badly but I'm not even going to make any moves on her at all. Is this a good idea? For the Hotel room, I was planning on getting a King Size bed, but then it would be too obvious, so I was going to get 2 Queen Size so when she sees that I booked that, she will probably be thinking like "Wow, he got 2 beds..."

When should I start escalating and showing her my sexual side again or should I just not do this? Have her make the move? I'm afraid she won't that's why. But I don't want to scare her like I did when I first met her 4 months ago. Any tips or ideas on what to do? We pretty much are going to be doing BF/GF things too like going out to shows and everything and she'll be staying in my hotel so..just wondering how to handle these situations in how to escalate it into fvcking her before she leaves!

 

[ARrocket]

Get the king size, and don't worry about masking your intentions; that will only backfire.

 

[montybrown]

But see I'm not sure what her intentions are just yet...which is why I wanted to get 2 beds. First she tells me like "You don't just want to hook up with me do you?" and then a week later she's like "Hurry come get me. I miss you" and all this BS. It could go both ways. Me banging her or she just wants to be friends. Or she just wants to be friends but lets me bang her anyways. I'm trying to think of how to play my cards right. If I get the King Size, wouldn't it be too obvious once she walks in the room, like thinking "Hmm, I wonder why he only got 1 bed.....He probably thinks he's gonna get some"

 

[Beast from the East]

Next week I am picking up this chick I've been talking to on the phone for the past 4 months. I met her 4 months ago when she came on vacation here, I tried to hook up with her, but she said I was too pushy and I kinda fvcked up. But we've became really good friends, talking on the phone pretty much every day. !

You talked to her on the phone every day for 4 months? Let us know how that works out.

 

[montybrown]

Not literally every day, but I mean practically. Every 3-4 days or so probably the longest we didn't speak, then she ended up calling me. SHE calls me all the time basically. She also told me most of her friends are guys and it's hard for her because a lot of them just want to hook up with her. She says she knows this because whenever she calls certain guys they never ever answer and when they finally do talk to her he wants to meet up or whatever and go to a bar or something.

 

[Beast from the East]

Sounds like you have a good deal.. are you going to bang her for 3 hours or what?

 

[YoungSir4sho]

lol u cant b serious man. Listen she's willing to fly ova there to u to stay wit u at ur moms crib. Then go to the hotel????


Imma say dis once. Get da King size bed not no 2bed bs iight. If u get da 2bed ish den dats gonna make u look like a bytch real talk. She obviously wants u by her actions forget wat she is tellin u. She doesnt want to seem like a slut real talk.

N one more thing, dont get hyped yet until she actually comes. Cuz she might just flake on u next week sayin she cant go n sumthin came up so dont get too excited yet feel me

 

[montybrown]

Alright, King Size it is then. What do I tell her when she asks me "Didn't they have a room with 2 beds? Why did you get 1 bed?"

I just don't want her to think all I want to do is hook up with her, ya know? The reason she's staying at my mom's the first night is cause she's flying in at around Midnight, so why waste money on a hotel for that night? The next morning is when we check in at the Hotel. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[Dole]

Alright, King Size it is then. What do I tell her when she asks me "Didn't they have a room with 2 beds? Why did you get 1 bed?"

I just don't want her to think all I want to do is hook up with her, ya know? The reason she's staying at my mom's the first night is cause she's flying in at around Midnight, so why waste money on a hotel for that night? The next morning is when we check in at the Hotel. Nothing wrong with that.

Answer:
2 beds were sold out, there must be alot of unhappy couples this week *jokingly saying*

 

[montybrown]

Alright I was just thinking about this now and I'm still debating if I should get the King Size or 2 Queen Beds... The reason is because we're both going half/half on the room. I don't want her to feel uncomfortable when she walks into the room and just sees 1 bed and thinks to herself "wow i was right, 1 bed, monty just wants to hook up with me just like every other guy."

But see, if she walks in the room and sees 2 beds then she might think to herself "wow, he's not really trying to hook up with me after all...he really is different" but then when I get her drunk, thats when I pull the fvckin NINJA on her and be like "hey can i jump in the bed with you..." do some k ino, rub her elbows, and then bam.. fap fap. Doesn't that sound like a better scenario? Then just getting 1 bed and then making moves on her like that?

 

[Brandonc662]

But see, if she walks in the room and sees 2 beds then she might think to herself "wow, he's not really trying to hook up with me after all...he really is different" but then when I get her drunk, thats when I pull the fvckin NINJA on her and be like "hey can i jump in the bed with you..." do some k ino, rub her elbows, and then bam.. fap fap. Doesn't that sound like a better scenario? Then just getting 1 bed and then making moves on her like that?

No, No, No, no, no..... She will think "Monty is a pvssy, he has been Talking on the phone to me constanly..... umm no way am i going to fvck this looser... but i bet he'll buy me drinks like the "ninja" he is and I'll just keep telling him what a great friend he is to me and maybe he will buy me a car or somthing.... ohh look at this other guy here.... he is not being a chump.... Bye Monty I'm going to his room, your a great FRIEND, bye ya fvcking scared BlTCH"

That scenario is alot more likely to happen than the fairy tail you have in your mind. Get 1 Bed. Show her you a a man, a sexual being. If she doesn't like it she can sleep on the floor.

P.S. If you are too scared just to talk to a hotel employee to get a single bed, how do you plan on mustering up the courage to "ninja" you way in that glorious 2nd bed with her?

 

[OrangeCrusader]

^^ Or maybe she's being a fairly typical girl and not thinking about screwing him, in which case that will backfire horribly. Wommen are irrational (by our standards), remember.

If she wants to screw you, or just needs a little convincing, all it takes is you playing your cards right a little, even with 2 beds.

 

[montybrown]

ok i think im gonna have to elaborate more on this girl and her situation:

She was telling me how her dads an alcoholic and he punches holes in the wall and how she's afraid to leave her house for a few days cause her dogs don't get taken care of. She was telling me how she meets guys but doesn't want to be with them because she knows that there is someone better for her out there. Next time she gets into a relationship she isn't going to have sex with them and just wants to get to know the person.

How do I bang a girl like this? We're supposedly friends but she spills out everything about her life. At the end of our 1 hour phone convo she's like "Thanks for listening to me, I dont have anyone to turn to but you listen to me" and im just like you're welcome, anytime. b lah blah all my intentions are are just to fvck her! What game do I need to pull with this psycho bytch?


She told me about how shes afraid of bringing a guy home because her family is dysfunctional and her mom wants her to be with a tall, blonde, blue eyes, guy and rarely approves of the guys she likes. she says whenever she meets a guy the first thing she thinks is what will my mom think and if she feels that her mom w ont like him then she drops him./ its a lose lose situation. I don't want a relationship with her -- I just want my d!ck in her.

 

[Brandonc662]

give a little info on the vegas trip, what happeneded, why your going, how it was decided on ect

 

[Prodigy746]

ok i think im gonna have to elaborate more on this girl and her situation:

She was telling me how her dads an alcoholic and he punches holes in the wall and how she's afraid to leave her house for a few days cause her dogs don't get taken care of. She was telling me how she meets guys but doesn't want to be with them because she knows that there is someone better for her out there. Next time she gets into a relationship she isn't going to have sex with them and just wants to get to know the person.

How do I bang a girl like this? We're supposedly friends but she spills out everything about her life. At the end of our 1 hour phone convo she's like "Thanks for listening to me, I dont have anyone to turn to but you listen to me" and im just like you're welcome, anytime. b lah blah all my intentions are are just to fvck her! What game do I need to pull with this psycho bytch?


She told me about how shes afraid of bringing a guy home because her family is dysfunctional and her mom wants her to be with a tall, blonde, blue eyes, guy and rarely approves of the guys she likes. she says whenever she meets a guy the first thing she thinks is what will my mom think and if she feels that her mom w ont like him then she drops him./ its a lose lose situation. I don't want a relationship with her -- I just want my d!ck in her.

Man if ihad to judge it from this i would say you are already in a friend zone. It seems like shes talking to you like you are one of her best girlfriends and thats never a good thing. Only thing missing is her telling you "Thanks for listening you are like my little brother".

If she asked me why i got a room with King size bed i would prolly say jokingly "They were cheaper , you can always sleep on the floor hahaha",

 

[montybrown]

give a little info on the vegas trip, what happeneded, why your going, how it was decided on ect

She lives in Minnesota and I live in Texas. I told her that I'm going to Vegas for a week and we haven't seen each other in 4 months, (she visited Texas, that's when I met her 4 months ago). So she booked a flight to Vegas, she's never been to Vegas before and I told her that she can stay with me. So that's pretty much it, she's going because I'm going and we haven't seen each other for a while. She would sometimes make comments to me like "Come get me...I can't wait to see you....I miss you" and stuff like that, she'd tell me to send pictures of myself on my cell phone and then be like "your a cutie" and ask me for more. But then on the other hand she would tell me things like "You aren't just trying to hook up with me are you?"