JPFromTally
Senior Don Juan
I kick myself for not discovering this little technique sooner. Here's what happened with me. I'm in this class (summer sessions) with this hottie that I'd been scoping for a while. Well a couple of weeks ago I saw her in the computer lab and I observed the 3 second rule and said, "Hey aren't you in Professor X's class?" To my surprise she said, "Yeah, I usually sit behind you." Well we started talking about the class and how much of a pain it is, etc. etc. I had just finished doing the answers for the exercise that was due and asked if she needed them. She accepted excitedly and thankfully. Of course I said, "You owe me. Hopefully you can do something nice for me soon." (See my other post about not giving without getting).
Well it turns out that her lab class is the day before mine and that's when we had to take our midterm. The day before the exam I said, "Hey remember that favor you owe me? If you let me know everything that's on the test that would totally make up for it."
So that night she e-mailed me what the test was about etc. A couple of days later I e-mailed her saying, "Thanks so much. Because of you I got a decent grade bla bla bla." Then I wrote (and here's the key): "The test was 50% of the grade so for doing well I totally owe you dinner." She wrote back saying, "Your welcome, etc. etc. I'll take you up on that dinner offer."
Well the other day the professor didn't show up for class so I asked her if she wanted to redeem her dinner offer now. She happily accepted and we ate at the local sub place. (I NEVER take girls out to fancy places on the first date.) Now we're friends and she invited me to hang out with her and her friends this Thursday night.
So what's the lesson? If you're in class ask for something. Ask her if she had the notes from last week, etc. Tell her how much she saved your life because you had nothing to study from, etc. and in gratitude for not failing the class you'd treat her to a drink or whatever. Once you've got this initial rapport things are easy from there.
Hope this helps,
J.P.
Well it turns out that her lab class is the day before mine and that's when we had to take our midterm. The day before the exam I said, "Hey remember that favor you owe me? If you let me know everything that's on the test that would totally make up for it."
So that night she e-mailed me what the test was about etc. A couple of days later I e-mailed her saying, "Thanks so much. Because of you I got a decent grade bla bla bla." Then I wrote (and here's the key): "The test was 50% of the grade so for doing well I totally owe you dinner." She wrote back saying, "Your welcome, etc. etc. I'll take you up on that dinner offer."
Well the other day the professor didn't show up for class so I asked her if she wanted to redeem her dinner offer now. She happily accepted and we ate at the local sub place. (I NEVER take girls out to fancy places on the first date.) Now we're friends and she invited me to hang out with her and her friends this Thursday night.
So what's the lesson? If you're in class ask for something. Ask her if she had the notes from last week, etc. Tell her how much she saved your life because you had nothing to study from, etc. and in gratitude for not failing the class you'd treat her to a drink or whatever. Once you've got this initial rapport things are easy from there.
Hope this helps,
J.P.