Maybe race and height actually matter

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What piqued my interest is the fact that this barely registered a blip on the mainstream news media. Not a word. I guess it's because he didn't go on a shooting rampage or his note didn't contain woman hating elements.
 

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I saw black guys pulling some of the HOTTEST white girls when I was in Mexico. They want guys with big ****s man.! And many of the black guys are very in shape just look at pro athletes. You don't see that with Asian dudes, most are on their computer all the time.
Because most asians act like fobs. A Clean good looking asian guys will be able to pull from the same pool of girls as Chad. However, the girl cleat chasing for Demetrius is not going to like Chad. This girl is most likely low quality and on a jungle fever craze. I'd much rather go for girls out of Chad's pull, but its harder for me.

Yes, it is easier for me to find interested girls, but I have a smaller pool. Chad can walk in a party and have 70% girls willing to give him a chance, but he will have to put in more effort. Me, it will be 5-10%, but once I find that one girl I am pretty much set.
 

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He could have bagged fatties easily enough probably, but some guys are just not willing to lower their standards to get what they want sometimes.
 

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Everything matters. How much it matters depends on the particular female being courted.

What helped me the most with women was growing out my hair, finding a clothing style suited for me, and lifting weights to get a better build. My race (black) and height (5'9) certainly didnt make me a puzzy magnet.

The Asian dude who killed himself is just a defeatist who gave up and never really put in the work to find what would work for him. Im sure if he had a few good guy friends who knew about women he would have been fine.

Theres nothing stopping an Asian guy from getting fit, getting some nice clothes, learning how to talk to women, and thus succeeding with them. Sure there are plenty of women who dont run to Asian men...but hey..you gotta work with what ya got. And if you look at pics of Wilkes...youll see he didnt put much effort into being in shape or dressing well.

And btw, there have been times where Ive been broke as a joke and still got laid. This dude let race, height and money be huge excuses for him. Hes blame shifting and it cost him his life.
 

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Looks are so subjective, I mean, someone mentioned it above that location matters. Women generally like the same thing, so of one woman likes something, they all like it. Go to a new location where people have different tastes. The dude made it seem like he had money.

Yes, looks DO matter. Anyone who says otherwise is a crackpot joker. We tend to look for what we don't have as Pook had once said. If I am 80% masculine and 20% feminine, I will like for a girl who is 80% feminine and 20% masculine. Then there are our own personal tastes as well.

Wealth matters too. Every woman cares about due to it making life easier and because it makes it easier on offspring. This can be very complex and I don't feel like explaining every little detail about it though.

Status, fame, power, the like does help, but it isn't of utmost importance. Cuz finding someone with this attribute(s) is like winning the lottery: it ain't gonna happen.

The thing about status is that you can somewhat mimick it within your social circle. Women tend to like the more extroverted fun types.

The problem with this dude is that he was too logical with this stuff. That's the issue with some people, you need SOME emotion. Too much = bad. Too little = Jeffrey Dahmer. Another problem, this dude based his whole life on women from what it looks like. He didn't have anything going for him that he was planning. That's a big problem. He thought about it too logically and saw nothing going for him. You need spontaneousity to make stuff fun and perhaps he never saw that. Always PLANNED dates, never just bump into somebody and say 'Hey what's up?' Strike a convo and then just hang with them for a little while after that and see what happens. He never just saw where life would take him on the road. That thrill of not really knowing is what makes life more interesting. Just see where life takes you.

This dude is partially right, but offing himself for something so petty is stupid. This is just a person who failed to adapt to society and modern social interactions. Part of it is his fault, the other part is his parents' fault for raising him in such a way to where he couldn't figure it out. But he doesn't have my respect.
 

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http://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle...ds-on-the-man-behind-the-smiles-10041117.html

The dude was not poor by any stetch of the imagination. He went to one of the best universities in the world and had a very successful career without being a multi millionaire. He lived in an expensive part of town and had an affluent middle class lifestyle. Sure he was slightly overweight but there was no problems with fashion, there is a sense of style:

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=w...-restaurant-coq-dargent-10035119.html;620;465

Unfortunately for him he was asthetically not the best on show which didn't help. If this dude was a local corcasian guy of the same appearance he would no doubt have found a girlfriend.

The newspaper title states "He couldn't find the connection he was looking for - not just a girlfriend but in the world". That is basically saying he could not fit in his new homeland. When people move from one part of the world to somewhere new, its inevitable some of them are going to have a hard time of it for all manner of reasons. If he had stuck to just the culture of his parents he would have got on ok in the UK but choose to branch out into the local customs.

If he had model like looks or anywhere near, women would had made sure he fitted in. He has a busy life meeting people including women but could not hook up.
 

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What piqued my interest is the fact that this barely registered a blip on the mainstream news media. Not a word. I guess it's because he didn't go on a shooting rampage or his note didn't contain woman hating elements.
No one cares about the plight of any man except for other men. Outside of being some kind of noteworthy celebrity.
 
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