Maybe Facebook is good for something afterall

[Solomon]

So this chick I met on Plenty of Foolery...

Anyway were suppose to hang out tommrow, but on Tuesday, her "Grandma" happened to have a stroke on Wednesday. I then get a call from her @ 10:30 in the morning and she is sloppy drunk (Spidy senses are tingling) The weird part was she was suppose to see her Grandma that day in another town, but was super drunk, she then made some lame excuse about seeing her Grandma later in the "evening"

The next day aka Today the flake comes (surprise, surprise) having lost a Grandmother recently as well I'm sensitive to this fact.

I then go on her Facebook, there is no mention of her Grandmother, just 5 of her friends making wall-post about "how crazy the night at the bar was" and how fucced up drunk she got then to top it off she never left town. I decided to post under some of her friends post and said some **** like

"Gee when did you see Grandma again?" and "Did that happen before Grandma had the stroke or after"

She send me some text messages calling me an Ahole and that the only reason she went out was because she needed to take her mind of it and that she isn't lying blah blah

NEXT!

 

[Jitterbug]

Ah, the grandma excuse. A lot of chicks seem to use it - poor old ladies! I used to go out with this chick whose grandma appeared to die whenever she really needed a good excuse, which was twice while we were dating.

 

[cordoncordon]

Good call! Drive through please!

 

[Nutz]

"You're grandma had a stroke? Oh, I'm so sorry. What hospital is she in, I'll send over some flowers."
"Uh, um, uh, I'll, uh, call you back, uh oh, with the information."

 

[saber]

so she lies to you and you give her ****? seems like a DLV

guilt tripping her and blowing her off would have been better imo

 

[Nutz]

so she lies to you and you give her ****? seems like a DLV

guilt tripping her and blowing her off would have been better imo

Oh absolutely, although calling her out doesn't really work. Remember the threads about women being amoral. They don't get it when you catch them and just get mad at you for making them feel bad. You punish them with a sense of loss instead.

1. Go dead air. Just stop all contact.

2. When she finally starts wtih the insults come back with somethign like your phone died, just got a new one, and got all her messages at once and you're dissapointed that she went off the deep end. She'll apologize profusely for it if you play it right.

3. Now that you've got her undivided attention you can go out with her.

4. Pump & Dump as she already demonostrated with the flaking she's low quaility and not worth seriously investing in.

 

[scrouds]

That's great advice to get the lay Nutz, but sometimes there's something satisfying in a blowout like that, even if you don't expect the chick to get it or anything.

 

[Solomon]

That's great advice to get the lay Nutz, but sometimes there's something satisfying in a blowout like that, even if you don't expect the chick to get it or anything.

Agreed Scrouds, I never liked the PUA mentality of trying to screw the chick out of spite. It's a waste of my energy and most important time. In theory it sounds great, but realistically if she is already flaking and making up lame elaborate stories then screwing her in itself would be a task which I don't care for.

I understand a women will lie to themselves aren't won't hold themselves accountable especially if she gets caught but maaaaaaaaan I don't have time to deal with that type of bullshyt

 

[Zarky]

Sucks man, but I'da just said, "oh that's too bad" and deleted her contact info. No sense in showing her it got to you.

 

[Nutz]

By pump & dump, I don't mean it literally. If she's good in bed then keep it strictly a physical relationship, but I wouldn't for a moment let myself get emotionally invested in this kind of chick.

 

[romangod]

Since this topic mentions Facebook, I thought I'd post a link my sister sent me. I knew I would never sign up and my reasons are somewhat similar to this blog entry. To me, it was like being assimilated by the Borg on Star Trek.


http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/



Cheers!

 

[Slickster]

Agreed Scrouds, I never liked the PUA mentality of trying to screw the chick out of spite. It's a waste of my energy and most important time. In theory it sounds great, but realistically if she is already flaking and making up lame elaborate stories then screwing her in itself would be a task which I don't care for.

I understand a women will lie to themselves aren't won't hold themselves accountable especially if she gets caught but maaaaaaaaan I don't have time to deal with that type of bullshyt

I agree 100% Solomon. Putting up with this shyt for a chance at sex is just pitiful.

I think the "before or after Grandma's stroke" comment is classic!