BEAUTIFUL_PRINCESS
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Hi all,
I was searching for romantic ideas to surprise my handsome b/friend tomorrow night as I invited him for a dinner in one of my favorite restaurants, and the search engine brought me to this Forum. Well, the title of my topic tells you exactly how I felt when reading your posts.
Maybe because of your shallow thinking you don't have a chance with a quality woman?
For instance this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61650
VERY SHALLOW COMMENTS
with an exception of 1 guy who had courage to speak up. You see, I would NOT date any of you (if I am single and available) because shallow thinkers don't interest me. I think they either have low IQ, low EQ or they have both IQ and EQ extremely low. How else you would explain the shallow thinking?
For instance, to say that all single women = SLUTS can be said only by someone who is slut by himself. None of you ever placed any responsibility on the father. It's you men who sleep with a women just for sex so why don't you take birth control pills and condoms yourself if you don't want to father a child? It's you men who don't pay child support and rarely take responsibility for your offspring. It's your men who strive in sexual ecounters with anyone you can get so why would not you be slut as much? ( when I say "it's you" I am making a reference to those who categorized single woman as SLUTS. )
Gee, I can tell you 100 arguments about your shallow thinking. For instance the guy who said that IF THE WOMAN IS MARRIED - she is LESS SLUT or NO SLUT just because she was 'married'.
I have a g/friend who husband cheated on her with PROSTITUES! They have a child. She is going out now having fun with all guys she wants yet they both decided to remain married. Suppose they divorce? WHO IS SLUT HERE? She because she is single mother who has decided to have some happiness with someone else, or HE because he slept with prostitutes???????
I am 32 single mother - never married. My child is 11. I became Mom at age of 21. Every man I ever wanted I had. I was proposed 4 times at least. I DO NOT WANT TO BE MARRIED.
I have lived in 3 different countries, I have 3 degrees, and I am independent and Self-Employed. I do NOT want a man to be father to my child because my child already has a father. The father even wants to have more children with me - it's up to me to say 'yes' or 'no'. I chose, he offers. Everything is up to me.
I have all I want in the life and my b/friend is my PARTNER and my best friend not some shallow guy who thinks that single unmarried women must be sluts. Gee, I would never give a chance to a low IQ guy like that!
I have never met a guy who REJECTED me because of my child. The guy I pick is a Gentleman not some shallow thinker, and no my b/friend does not give me rules what I can or can't do. That's controlling. He would be out because I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. It's immature. As one guy who posted the tons of rules. One of them was - that he never ever wants to meet a child!
LOL - Honey - you would not be able to visit me in my Palace with that shallow attitude and you would beg me to see my child to impress me, probably you would be HURT when I make huge b/party for my child and all my friends are invited except YOU !!!! I would not invite you because I think you are shallow!!! In fact, I would not be involved with someone like that.
Just for the sake of argument, from my experiences my previous partners mostly INSISTED on meeting and knowing my child and IT WAS ME who made that decision not they. If my child tells me they the partner is not up to expectations of our family - I DROP THE GUY. Only exceptional guy can win that privilage after passing many tests and proving himself worthy of being a part of my FAMILY. Or he remains in the shadows as a b/friend with no chance for any involvment in my family therefore it's his loss because that's the sign he might be out very soon.
Also I have read some threads about so called "PLAYERS".
PLAYERS ARE LOSERS.
Gee, not even in 100 years I would be ever interested in a player or a womanizer! Most of the smart and attractive women RUN AWAY from this kind. Players ATTRACT only ONS and cases such as my g/friend and her husband. Easy non-committed stupid mind games and lonely holidays, empty sex, manipulations, dishonesty, cheat and deceit, always searching and playing with false sense of superiority and security. For instance, IF I know that guy is a player and I notice the signs of it - no mater how good looking and good he is - he is OUT. Players can only have DUMB women, women who are tricked - manipulated or players themselves. The tricks never work. Why would a good looking and intelligent attractive guy ever want to manipulate a woman? Or play her?????? If he is "all that" he does NEED to manipulate.
It's not about GAME it's about HONESTY and the whole feeling the man and woman have between each other. It’s about devotion and loyalty, true friendship and passion all mixed into the journey between 2 UNIQUE persons who RESPECT EACH OTHER and FEEL COMFORTABLE with each other. Surely the guys with shallow thinking are not good candidates for this journey.
I also want to make a comment in regards to that single guy with a daughter who asked you a question about him being a single father. I read some shallow guy telling him that he should DATE SINGLE MOMS because they are sluts, and sex is the most appropriate including ONS!!!!!!!! How he came to this conclusion only God knows. THE FACT IS THAT IF A MAN DATES A SLUT HE IS A SLUT TOO. THERE ARE NO DOUBLE STANDARDS - otherwise you are shallow!
Don't listen the shallow advice! If you discriminate a person because of the marital status and children - you yourself will be discriminated. There is no proof that a single never married woman without child will be BETTER partner to you then a woman who has a child like YOU. You treat a person the way you want to be treated YOURSELF.
Finally, since I am already here - would any GENTLEMAN here like to give me some uniqe idea what would a real MR. NICE b/friend and true gemtleman find romantic (beyond sex)? I am aware of the fact that men and women have different ideas about what's romantic and what's not, but I need a gentlemen to speak up if there are any!!!!
I hope you are not mad at my blunt response, and sorry of any spelling errors I have no time to correct them- my secretary is on vacation.
I was searching for romantic ideas to surprise my handsome b/friend tomorrow night as I invited him for a dinner in one of my favorite restaurants, and the search engine brought me to this Forum. Well, the title of my topic tells you exactly how I felt when reading your posts.
Maybe because of your shallow thinking you don't have a chance with a quality woman?
For instance this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61650
VERY SHALLOW COMMENTS
with an exception of 1 guy who had courage to speak up. You see, I would NOT date any of you (if I am single and available) because shallow thinkers don't interest me. I think they either have low IQ, low EQ or they have both IQ and EQ extremely low. How else you would explain the shallow thinking?For instance, to say that all single women = SLUTS can be said only by someone who is slut by himself. None of you ever placed any responsibility on the father. It's you men who sleep with a women just for sex so why don't you take birth control pills and condoms yourself if you don't want to father a child?
It's you men who don't pay child support and rarely take responsibility for your offspring. It's your men who strive in sexual ecounters with anyone you can get so why would not you be slut as much? ( when I say "it's you" I am making a reference to those who categorized single woman as SLUTS. )Gee, I can tell you 100 arguments about your shallow thinking. For instance the guy who said that IF THE WOMAN IS MARRIED - she is LESS SLUT or NO SLUT just because she was 'married'.
I have a g/friend who husband cheated on her with PROSTITUES! They have a child. She is going out now having fun with all guys she wants yet they both decided to remain married. Suppose they divorce? WHO IS SLUT HERE? She because she is single mother who has decided to have some happiness with someone else, or HE because he slept with prostitutes???????
I am 32 single mother - never married. My child is 11. I became Mom at age of 21. Every man I ever wanted I had. I was proposed 4 times at least. I DO NOT WANT TO BE MARRIED.
I have lived in 3 different countries, I have 3 degrees, and I am independent and Self-Employed. I do NOT want a man to be father to my child because my child already has a father. The father even wants to have more children with me - it's up to me to say 'yes' or 'no'. I chose, he offers. Everything is up to me.
I have all I want in the life and my b/friend is my PARTNER and my best friend not some shallow guy who thinks that single unmarried women must be sluts. Gee, I would never give a chance to a low IQ guy like that!
I have never met a guy who REJECTED me because of my child. The guy I pick is a Gentleman not some shallow thinker, and no my b/friend does not give me rules what I can or can't do. That's controlling. He would be out because I don't tolerate that kind of behavior. It's immature. As one guy who posted the tons of rules. One of them was - that he never ever wants to meet a child!
LOL - Honey - you would not be able to visit me in my Palace with that shallow attitude and you would beg me to see my child to impress me, probably you would be HURT when I make huge b/party for my child and all my friends are invited except YOU !!!! I would not invite you because I think you are shallow!!! In fact, I would not be involved with someone like that.
Just for the sake of argument, from my experiences my previous partners mostly INSISTED on meeting and knowing my child and IT WAS ME who made that decision not they. If my child tells me they the partner is not up to expectations of our family - I DROP THE GUY. Only exceptional guy can win that privilage after passing many tests and proving himself worthy of being a part of my FAMILY. Or he remains in the shadows as a b/friend with no chance for any involvment in my family therefore it's his loss because that's the sign he might be out very soon.
Also I have read some threads about so called "PLAYERS".
PLAYERS ARE LOSERS.
Gee, not even in 100 years I would be ever interested in a player or a womanizer! Most of the smart and attractive women RUN AWAY from this kind. Players ATTRACT only ONS and cases such as my g/friend and her husband. Easy non-committed stupid mind games and lonely holidays, empty sex, manipulations, dishonesty, cheat and deceit, always searching and playing with false sense of superiority and security. For instance, IF I know that guy is a player and I notice the signs of it - no mater how good looking and good he is - he is OUT.
Players can only have DUMB women, women who are tricked - manipulated or players themselves. The tricks never work. Why would a good looking and intelligent attractive guy ever want to manipulate a woman? Or play her?????? If he is "all that" he does NEED to manipulate.It's not about GAME it's about HONESTY and the whole feeling the man and woman have between each other. It’s about devotion and loyalty, true friendship and passion all mixed into the journey between 2 UNIQUE persons who RESPECT EACH OTHER and FEEL COMFORTABLE with each other. Surely the guys with shallow thinking are not good candidates for this journey.
I also want to make a comment in regards to that single guy with a daughter who asked you a question about him being a single father. I read some shallow guy telling him that he should DATE SINGLE MOMS because they are sluts, and sex is the most appropriate including ONS!!!!!!!! How he came to this conclusion only God knows. THE FACT IS THAT IF A MAN DATES A SLUT HE IS A SLUT TOO. THERE ARE NO DOUBLE STANDARDS - otherwise you are shallow!
Don't listen the shallow advice! If you discriminate a person because of the marital status and children - you yourself will be discriminated. There is no proof that a single never married woman without child will be BETTER partner to you then a woman who has a child like YOU. You treat a person the way you want to be treated YOURSELF.
Finally, since I am already here - would any GENTLEMAN here like to give me some uniqe idea what would a real MR. NICE b/friend and true gemtleman find romantic (beyond sex)? I am aware of the fact that men and women have different ideas about what's romantic and what's not, but I need a gentlemen to speak up if there are any!!!!
I hope you are not mad at my blunt response, and sorry of any spelling errors I have no time to correct them- my secretary is on vacation.
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