Maximizing Her Interest Level

[bigneil]

If you ever have the luxury of having two women who want to have sex with you during the same week or even the same day, you will almost always discover that you like one better. It's like if a chicken lays an egg on the top of a roof, the egg is going to roll one way or the other. In that case you may likely find yourself trying to get rid of second choice.

It is ONLY during this process of rejecting her that you witness her interest level peak. It will even reach the point where she starts acting AFC (often for the first time). You'll catch her checking you out in a new way. You'll hear her confess things like "I can't believe you're done with me". She'll show up at your house randomly and won't want to leave when you tell her she must. She'll say she loves you and you'll pull a Han Solo. This behavior of hers is only compounded during the fleeting hours you spend together in which you will act indifferently without trying.

For this reason, those of you who are in a relationship but have lost the upper hand should remember that the only cure for a woman is another woman. Robert Greene reminds us that we only learn to love through rejection. And while you may feel bad should you succeed in rejecting her, know that she wouldn't feel bad for you in that situation (and women don't feel as bad as men during breakups to begin with), and you may even save the relationship by restoring her high interest.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Good post, I don't think you necessarily have to have another woman, but you at least have to make it obvious that you could or that your woman realizes you're indifferent. Awhile back I realized I wasn't that into this girl I was seeing and could care less what happened between me and her and after a week of acting distant and indifferent towards her she tells me she's falling in love with me. It's great hearing confirmation of that type of power.

 

[Uncharted]

As always a good post from bigneil. Women hate nothing more than competition whether or not it actually exists.

 

[Chickfight]

Good post, I don't think you necessarily have to have another woman, but you at least have to make it obvious that you could or that your woman realizes you're indifferent. Awhile back I realized I wasn't that into this girl I was seeing and could care less what happened between me and her and after a week of acting distant and indifferent towards her she tells me she's falling in love with me. It's great hearing confirmation of that type of power.

True enough, but you have to be careful with indifference.
A friend of mine met a girl with a boyfriend. My friend is very handsome, tall and has good game. They started hanging out and slowly getting more intimate and she would tell her boyfriend about this and he would just act indifferent, like he didnt care. He even went so far as to say he wasn't threatened by an Asian guy (my friend is half asian, as am I). My friend didn't like that. He kept doing weird stuff like letting her sleep in his bed and licking eachother tongues (not making out just licking eachothers tongues, weird I know) and her boyfriend still acted indifferent.

He even didn't mind them going on vacation together for 5 days. I was there with a different girl. On this vacation she completely fall for my friend, they make out and mutually masturbate each other. When she gets back she tries to break up with her boyfriend but he CRIES and she feels bad. Same thing happened 3 times before she finally actually broke up with him. Not so indifferent anymore. Now she's staying at my friends place snorting cocaine off his **** for a week before he leaves.

So what can we learn from this story? Her boyfriend is right to be indifferent, I think she would have left him earlier if he was all needy and jealous about it. Problem is he obviously wasn't indifferent cause he CRIED when she tried to break up with him. So he was just cold. Second, you can be indifferent, but don't ever take disrespect from anyone. If you're girlfriend is doing **** with another guy, it's not an issue of jealously, it's an issue of respect.

Had my girlfriend told me she was hanging out with a guy to try and make me jealous, I would have told her she can suck his **** for all I care, but I have standards with the girls I choose to be with so she won't be chilling with me any more.

Indifference is not enough. You have to be indifferent, but set down the law as well because you can't have a good relationship without respect.

 

[bigneil]

Indifference is not enough. You have to be indifferent, but set down the law as well because you can't have a good relationship without respect.

True, but your laying down the law should be done by virtue of the fact that you won't call her anymore if she acts that way, rather than your making it obvious that you were agitated by such behavior.

 

[cordoncordon]

True enough, but you have to be careful with indifference.
A friend of mine met a girl with a boyfriend. My friend is very handsome, tall and has good game. They started hanging out and slowly getting more intimate and she would tell her boyfriend about this and he would just act indifferent, like he didnt care. He even went so far as to say he wasn't threatened by an Asian guy (my friend is half asian, as am I). My friend didn't like that. He kept doing weird stuff like letting her sleep in his bed and licking eachother tongues (not making out just licking eachothers tongues, weird I know) and her boyfriend still acted indifferent.

He even didn't mind them going on vacation together for 5 days. I was there with a different girl. On this vacation she completely fall for my friend, they make out and mutually masturbate each other. When she gets back she tries to break up with her boyfriend but he CRIES and she feels bad. Same thing happened 3 times before she finally actually broke up with him. Not so indifferent anymore. Now she's staying at my friends place snorting cocaine off his **** for a week before he leaves.

You hang around with a very very strange group of people.

 

[Uncharted]

I'm indifferent when a chick hangs out with a guy but if any of that sh1t mentioned above occurred she would never hear from me again.

he's a beta though.

 

[zinc4]

If you ever have the luxury of having two women who want to have sex with you during the same week or even the same day, you will almost always discover that you like one better. It's like if a chicken lays an egg on the top of a roof, the egg is going to roll one way or the other. In that case you may likely find yourself trying to get rid of second choice.

It is ONLY during this process of rejecting her that you witness her interest level peak. It will even reach the point where she starts acting AFC (often for the first time). You'll catch her checking you out in a new way. You'll hear her confess things like "I can't believe you're done with me". She'll show up at your house randomly and won't want to leave when you tell her she must. She'll say she loves you and you'll pull a Han Solo. This behavior of hers is only compounded during the fleeting hours you spend together in which you will act indifferently without trying.

For this reason, those of you who are in a relationship but have lost the upper hand should remember that the only cure for a woman is another woman. Robert Greene reminds us that we only learn to love through rejection. And while you may feel bad should you succeed in rejecting her, know that she wouldn't feel bad for you in that situation (and women don't feel as bad as men during breakups to begin with), and you may even save the relationship by restoring her high interest.

Yep, happens with my plates often as i begin to drop them....their ILs always peak once you begin rejecting them...truth.....

That's why i sometimes flake on new girls on purpose to peak their ILs...just did it this weekend with one who wanted me to join her and her friends for a girl's night out the previous weekend and now she has been texting me like crazy and even nicknamed me her big bear hahaha......despite her IL being not so high after our first date...