Matches request additional pics b4 first date

[Dr.Suave]

This happens often, to me at least. Sometimes I do send them and sometimes Im like Nah, Im good thanks.

What is the best way to handle this. Ive been out of the game for almost 5 years so I guess I dont remember a lot of stuff

 

[Toddz]

send her a d*ck pic

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Compliance test. Always reject. I assume you are using OLD - so my first thought is that your pics on your profile aren't good enough or high enough in number. Fix that. From memory 5 years ago, most dating apps have 6 photos. You should ensure these are CLEAR photos and show you from multiple angles, and your whole body and clear face. One photo should be with friends.

Beyond that, I'd just ignore the request and reply, "see you at 8"

 

[Crissco]

I ALWAYS ask for more pictures through text. Always to see what the look like from different angles to make sure they look good, she is doing the same, the fact she is asking for pics shows a sign of interest. I send, i really dont care either way, it only has made them flake OR say not interested if i get lazy and send a bad picture of me. - Do what you want but if youre a good looking guy, send 2 pictures through text and have no more than 4 pictures total on your dating app(any more they can weed you out easier)

 

[AttackFormation]

Compliance test. Always reject. I assume you are using OLD - so my first thought is that your pics on your profile aren't good enough or high enough in number. Fix that. From memory 5 years ago, most dating apps have 6 photos. You should ensure these are CLEAR photos and show you from multiple angles, and your whole body and clear face. One photo should be with friends.

Beyond that, I'd just ignore the request and reply, "see you at 8"

Jesus that was a quick condemnation. Maybe she just wants to know hes not a Chadfish? i wouldnt know, but it could be.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

send her a d*ck pic

I'm sure this member is joking but just in case, do not do this.

If you end up sending a pic like this to a minor, you will be in a legal pickle. Plus no woman on the face of this Earth will be ever be aroused by a d**k picture. They are not visual like we men are.

To answer your question, you can send a pic or two. However, if this happens to you often, is it because you don't have enough pics of yourself in your profile or your face is not clear? That might be the root of it and you might want to work on your profile.

Also, if you have IG and you have pics of you it might be easier to send her that direction.


Modern Man Advice

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Women get catfished. I’m fine with sending them.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Jesus that was a quick condemnation. Maybe she just wants to know hes not a Chadfish? i wouldnt know, but it could be.

Would you require a woman to send you additional photos before you agreed to meet them for a date? If you did, what do you think the vast majority of their reactions would be?

 

[AttackFormation]

Would you require a woman to send you additional photos before you agreed to meet them for a date? If you did, what do you think the vast majority of their reactions would be?

Ive always requested body pictures from women if i feel like it, and have never perceived that that's why they reject me. But ive also only managed to meet very few women from OLD in the first place due to lack of matches, ghosting, and flaking.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Ive always requested body pictures from women if i feel like it, and have never perceived that that's why they reject me. But ive also only managed to meet very few women from OLD in the first place due to lack of matches, ghosting, and flaking.

Women on OLD are among the most entitled due to the near endless amount of options they have at their fingertips. Asking them for compliance prior to even meeting them is a near guarantee for her to next you. And as such, her requesting that of you should result in your nexting her. Just like her asking you how tall you are should be responded to by your asking her how much she weighs. Remember, women want equality, so we should give it to them.

 

[Crissco]

Women on OLD are among the most entitled due to the near endless amount of options they have at their fingertips. Asking them for compliance prior to even meeting them is a near guarantee for her to next you. And as such, her requesting that of you should result in your nexting her. Just like her asking you how tall you are should be responded to by your asking her how much she weighs. Remember, women want equality, so we should give it to them.

If shes into you she doesnt care, yes i have been nexted many times for asking for pics, but i do ask anyway, its up to them if they want to send or not, if not, there are always other fish i the sea. I do get where you are coming from though and agree to a certain extent. - Really does come down to the woman and her interest level

 

[corrector]

And as such, her requesting that of you should result in your nexting her.

She might next you if you don't give her the pics since they have near endless amount of options like you said. If there is an option imbalance then you can't really next her since you don't have much if any options in the first place.

 

[Stuffnu]

As IRL is always the best way to go perhaps a good catch phrase., “if you want to redeem your prize, you can meet me (insert time and location).
If she’s the Catfish, hopefully you can see her before the greet. Catch and release if necessary.

 

[nismo-4]

She might next you if you don't give her the pics since they have near endless amount of options like you said. If there is an option imbalance then you can't really next her since you don't have much if any options in the first place.

And she might next you if you do give her the pics. You can't next a girl you haven't slept with, you're just moving on and refusing to be an orbiter. Reason being is she fundamentally showed disinterest first.

In this situation, just request to meet in person. If she still needs pics first, she can look at your profile. Other than that, pic exchange sessions can groom you into an e-orbiter.

 

[andreihaha]

This happens often, to me at least. Sometimes I do send them and sometimes Im like Nah, Im good thanks.

What is the best way to handle this. Ive been out of the game for almost 5 years so I guess I dont remember a lot of stuff

Random chick: Can you send me more pictures of yourself?
Me: Haha
and then continue your conversation like that never happened.

or

Random chick: Can you send me more pictures of yourself?
Me: Wow, you haven't even seen me in person and you want to send your girlfriends pictures of this dreamy guy?

Or, if you're annoyed by this, just next her. I have kinda low interest in entitled chicks that want you to jump around for a date.

I usually just send a few texts on OLD and then ask for their number. I call them when I have time to set a date and to get a feel of how they're like(because over the phone you can get more insight than in texts). And then we go out, as simple as that.

But again, I don't have much patience with random chicks so that's why I cut the conversation on OLD short.
And the results are great, so try that if it fits your style.

 

[andreihaha]

This happens often, to me at least. Sometimes I do send them and sometimes Im like Nah, Im good thanks.

What is the best way to handle this. Ive been out of the game for almost 5 years so I guess I dont remember a lot of stuff

Oh, also:
I did get asked stuff like "Why do you have glasses on in your pictures" and I just responded with "I like that picture". Be confident and take it easy and their doubts will more likely go away. And if they don't go away, that's fine as well. There is no attraction without tension.

 

[2Rocky]

I don't have any issue with a quick Facetime chat so she has real time verification that I'm not a basement dwelling Buffalo Bob.

 

[RangerMIke]

Yeah.... I don't do online dating, but it's not like she's asking for something difficult. I would send the pictures and challenge her to exactly replicate the posed and send one with me doing a hand-stand.