Masturbation

[Weezy]

Tight topic...

So as I'm diving into the DJ lifestyle / philosophies, I keep running into negative energy around beatin it.

Does not tuggin really help you be more, confident, ****y, successful with women? Or is it justed used as a metafore for not being able to bang an HB?

Has anyone field tested this theory?

 

[PlaysToWin]

There's a massive thread on this very subject in The Archive sub-forum.

 

[Special T]

I feel more hornier and bolder when I past the two day mark but I can never get past five. MIf you're going to whack off, do it every couple days.

 

[Die Hard]

When I don't masturbate for 2 days or longer, I feel more energetic, both mentally as physically. Both my mind as my body just feel more fresh, I'm better rested and have better focus. I feel my mind is more turned inwards when I masturbate too much, I'm a bit disconnected from my environment. When I stop maturbating for a few days, I feel much more connected with my environment, my focus is turned outwards instead of inwards. This alone makes a BIG difference in interaction with girls! And of course: the less you masturbate, the higher your need for a woman to suck your c*ck HARD heheeh... But everbody knows that, right?

 

[CaptainJ]

Just stop looking at porn, you'll get the benefits of not jerking it, and still get to jerk it

 

[Pimp101]

It's hard (haha no pun) the first few days but after a couple of weeks it'll be easy. Habits always take a lot of resolve and effort to change but it's worth it. Benefits are that it seems to work as both an anti-depressant and anxiolytic. Buddhism has a good lesson on this - attachment is suffering. So any kind of addiction, whether it's to masturbation, food, women, drugs, attention, gossip or pain will have the same effect.

 

[Sofomore]

If I am not consistently having sex I will probably beat it every 3-4 days. I feel like this is healthy and I still am able to get into a sexual frame of mind when meeting women.

 

[horaholic]

Hell, Im trying to cut down to less than twice a day! I just listened to 'overcoming porn and masturbation addiction' hypnosis, and I came out of it horny! Im a freak!

 

[Bible_Belt]

Kat Williams jokes about making himself go whack off in the bathroom of the club before he takes home another skanky ho, because after doing that, it won't seem like such a good idea any more.

Probably the right answer to the question is a balance between making you do things you regret because you're horny, versus not having the motivation to do what you should do because you're not horny enough.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Laziness = Masturbation.

 

[edger]

My buddy pulls hot women constantly whenever we go out, yet whacks off every morning and every night. Whacking off doesn't effect his success with women; he pulls regardless. So, let that be a guide for you.

 

[women haze]

Nothing wrong with Masturbation...Look at it like Practice. Focus upon when you reach your peak and stop..Kegel it then go again. See how long you last...

 

[Weezy]

Nothing wrong with Masturbation...Look at it like Practice. Focus upon when you reach your peak and stop..Kegel it then go again. See how long you last...

LMFAO... Too much detail..

I'm not really interested in jerk-off techniques, or practice regiments.

I was curious if there is anything behind not beatin it daily and being more successful with women, life, etc..

Seems like the Jury is split.

 

[r0cky]

My buddy pulls hot women constantly whenever we go out, yet whacks off every morning and every night. Whacking off doesn't effect his success with women; he pulls regardless. So, let that be a guide for you.

The fact that you have knowledge on that kind of info must discomforting for your friend.

 

[Eternal_water]

Does anyone have any tips for keeping your mind of it.

I'm trying to go 1 week, without doing it. I have so far managed 48 hours and am getting horny

 

[020204]

This topic seems to appair and reappear on this forum. For the sceptics who have never tryed it, don't knock it until you try it. Abstaining does increase your vigour for life and really make you feel great. To go for prolonged durations is difficult, I get a girl to relieve me every few weeks. I have vowed never to fap again.

 

[bish0p]

The fact that you have knowledge on that kind of info must discomforting for your friend.

Um, his friend could have told him. Once you get passed a certain age and you acquire a certain amount of wisdom, words like "masturbation," "penis," vagina," and "breasts," don't seem as comical and taboo.

Then, you can find yourself even having mature and not so serious discussions about it with other people...because those things are not "evil" or "ew, yucky gross."

 

[MisterD]

i said this when a similar topic came up recently and i'll say it again.

if you cannot both 1.) masturbate healthily and 2.) maintain a healthy sex drive/attraction to women then you have deeper issues than just spanking it

i have friends in LTR's who spank it when they feel like it but have no problems hooking up with their girls

masturbation is not a big deal. if you stop doing it, it's not like the matrix is solved and suddenly you have the raw masculine sex drive of a thousand men and will in turn bang every female in your path

a nut is a nut to me. whether you get it from your hand or from a female it doesn't change you

 

[Eternal_water]

So do you agree with the theory that abstaining from jacking off increases your testosterone level?

 

[cablecow15]

So do you agree with the theory that abstaining from jacking off increases your testosterone level?

well ive stopped for around two weeks now , and last time i danced with a girl i got a huge boner ,and she was rubbing all over it , for me , getting hard is like dangling a carrot in front of a donkey , so its a definate good thing to have in a club.

idk about testosterone , but i feel like i have higher energy and what not , if you watch those commercials of testosterone for those guys in their 50s, the things those pills claim to do , happen to you when you stop whacking it ,so even if its not actual testosterone , if it does the same thing =]

Ill also note i feel like its alot easier for me to do regular things that i was usually to lazy to do , I used to not shower dailey , or brush my teeth dailey , now that im not gonna fall back to "rosey palms" i feel the urge to be and look my best no matter where i go