I've written something on Women that spans 80 pages. I've decided to post two parts of it on this forum.
The other one is here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65176
It's on John, the guy I learned a lot from.
This one is about memory.
One of the challenges I had when learning to get good was remembering everything. All those articles and books would go out the window as soon as I lay eyes on a beautiful girl, standing next to the bar, ordering a drink.
At best, I remember some of the basics, and overcome my fear long enough to start a conversation. And then I say whatever, and do whatever.
Great.
I have found a solution since then. I combined the most important methods I learned in to a mnemonic.
Mnemonics were invented by the ancient Greeks to help themselves remember information. You use the first letter of a sentence, and then combine them with other letters to make a sentence.
SEVEN LAWS
In this example, I’ve used DERTAMS. Read the following twice and you’ll have memorised it.
It’s by no means a complete guide, but next time you need to act, imagine this in your head, and you’ll feel more confident and know how to act.
The following are only tactics I've used. I don't believe anything until I see it working. This lot did.
And to begin.
Killer Seven: From the Master File
Devastating compliment – Tell her she’s beautiful, tell her she’s intelligent, flatter her, make her feel good – “you’re actually really intelligent” and “you’re looking as beautiful as ever.”
Eye contact – Hold your eye contact, look deep in to her eyes – give her an intense gaze, hold your eye contact for as long as you can and imagine taking a shower with her to cause your pupils to dilate.
Rapport – Mirror her actions, posture, voice tone. Get her comfortable, and increase your connection – create that spark.
Touch – Wrist and neck manoeuvres, touch her shoulders, tap her on the arms, brush past her and and hold her waist.
Attitude - Hold your shoulders back, hold you head high and act cool, calm and controlled because you are the man, you are the one who can get rejected, only to move on to another girl in seconds.
Make fun of her - ****y and funny, make fun of her insecurities, all that she can change, call her a friend – “this isn’t going to work”, “you’ll make a nice friend” and “tell me something interesting”.
S peak about interesting, emotional conversation topics: childhood, holidays, beliefs, social life - skip from level 1, to level 3 and talk about her – “how do you feel about that” and “ and “what do you do for fun?”.
The other one is here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=65176
It's on John, the guy I learned a lot from.
This one is about memory.
One of the challenges I had when learning to get good was remembering everything. All those articles and books would go out the window as soon as I lay eyes on a beautiful girl, standing next to the bar, ordering a drink.
At best, I remember some of the basics, and overcome my fear long enough to start a conversation. And then I say whatever, and do whatever.
Great.
I have found a solution since then. I combined the most important methods I learned in to a mnemonic.
Mnemonics were invented by the ancient Greeks to help themselves remember information. You use the first letter of a sentence, and then combine them with other letters to make a sentence.
SEVEN LAWS
In this example, I’ve used DERTAMS. Read the following twice and you’ll have memorised it.
It’s by no means a complete guide, but next time you need to act, imagine this in your head, and you’ll feel more confident and know how to act.
The following are only tactics I've used. I don't believe anything until I see it working. This lot did.
And to begin.
Killer Seven: From the Master File
Devastating compliment – Tell her she’s beautiful, tell her she’s intelligent, flatter her, make her feel good – “you’re actually really intelligent” and “you’re looking as beautiful as ever.”
Eye contact – Hold your eye contact, look deep in to her eyes – give her an intense gaze, hold your eye contact for as long as you can and imagine taking a shower with her to cause your pupils to dilate.
Rapport – Mirror her actions, posture, voice tone. Get her comfortable, and increase your connection – create that spark.
Touch – Wrist and neck manoeuvres, touch her shoulders, tap her on the arms, brush past her and and hold her waist.
Attitude - Hold your shoulders back, hold you head high and act cool, calm and controlled because you are the man, you are the one who can get rejected, only to move on to another girl in seconds.
Make fun of her - ****y and funny, make fun of her insecurities, all that she can change, call her a friend – “this isn’t going to work”, “you’ll make a nice friend” and “tell me something interesting”.
S peak about interesting, emotional conversation topics: childhood, holidays, beliefs, social life - skip from level 1, to level 3 and talk about her – “how do you feel about that” and “ and “what do you do for fun?”.
