There's no right way for anyone to 'save this guy'. Not even himself. Who's to say whether he'll have a better life overall as a single guy trying to make up for some idea of lost time or as a husband trying to make his marriage work not unlike most husbands.
This site is great for getting a multitude of perspectives in one spot that should provoke one's own process of introspection.
Unfortunately, my experience has been that the trapped or rutt situation in an LTR can be tough to stay out of. It seems like each time you fall into it, it gets even deeper and wider, such that it becomes easier and easier to fall back into it after climbing to get out. The upshot is you can get better at climbing out...
This site is great for getting a multitude of perspectives in one spot that should provoke one's own process of introspection.
Unfortunately, my experience has been that the trapped or rutt situation in an LTR can be tough to stay out of. It seems like each time you fall into it, it gets even deeper and wider, such that it becomes easier and easier to fall back into it after climbing to get out. The upshot is you can get better at climbing out...