I have been reading this discussion forum for quite a while and decided to post my first message this morning. I'm 26 and have not had difficulty talking to girls in the past. Until this married coworker shows up.....
We are both elementary teachers. We have known each other for two years now. When I first met her she was really quiet like me. We are also different though. She is shy and goes with the flow. She doesn't like to cause disruptions. I, on the other hand, talk back and don't care much about what people think. In fact, I have gone at it with our principal on several occassions. Maybe its because I'm single and am a little less afraid of losing my job. She says that she likes that I'm confident and smart. Despite our differences we quickly began building a strong friendship. She often tells me that she doesn't understand how that happened since it usually takes her a long time to be friends with someone. We are really good friends now. We trust each other and share lots of things. She knows about all the women I have sex with, including students' parents. When I'm sick, she calls to make sure I'm ok. She has told me intimate things about her family and herself.
However, we don't go out much after work hours. When we do hang out, we talk about silly things. I tease her and she teases back. We are both very sarcastic. I make fun of her hair (she never fixes it!) and she makes fun of a few gray hairs that I have, etc. I have told her (in an indifferent manner) that I have a crush on her and she has told me that she knows. She also said that I wouldn't really be interested cuz I like girls with booty and she doesn't have a big one. Which is true! She too hints that she only likes tall guys but then contradicts herself and says that now looks aren't too important and she looks for other attributes. (she is 31)
During one of our daily conversations three months ago, she expressed interest in going to a soccer game. She knows I love soccer and she told me she wanted to go one day. Last week I invited her to go to the game with me. She agreed to go. The problem is that the game will be at night on a weekday. She never goes out during the week so her husband will become suspicious. She has told me that he is going on vacation soon and that she wants to hang out with me during this time. She just doesn't want to get caught.
Since I have started talking to her I have had sex with at least 5 girls. She knows about each one of them. We talk at least an hour each day. There is really nothing that we don't now about each other. Yet I never feel bored talking to her. There is also another cute teacher at our building who talks to me on the phone. The other day I made several comments about how "pretty" this teacher looked. My friend began interrupting me and saying "yea she is pretty" anytime I brought up her name. It made me think she was a little jealous! lol
I know it is difficult to make judgments based upon a brief summary but what do you guys think. Is she feeling me? Or is she simply a great friend?
We are both elementary teachers. We have known each other for two years now. When I first met her she was really quiet like me. We are also different though. She is shy and goes with the flow. She doesn't like to cause disruptions. I, on the other hand, talk back and don't care much about what people think. In fact, I have gone at it with our principal on several occassions. Maybe its because I'm single and am a little less afraid of losing my job. She says that she likes that I'm confident and smart. Despite our differences we quickly began building a strong friendship. She often tells me that she doesn't understand how that happened since it usually takes her a long time to be friends with someone. We are really good friends now. We trust each other and share lots of things. She knows about all the women I have sex with, including students' parents. When I'm sick, she calls to make sure I'm ok. She has told me intimate things about her family and herself.
However, we don't go out much after work hours. When we do hang out, we talk about silly things. I tease her and she teases back. We are both very sarcastic. I make fun of her hair (she never fixes it!) and she makes fun of a few gray hairs that I have, etc. I have told her (in an indifferent manner) that I have a crush on her and she has told me that she knows. She also said that I wouldn't really be interested cuz I like girls with booty and she doesn't have a big one. Which is true! She too hints that she only likes tall guys but then contradicts herself and says that now looks aren't too important and she looks for other attributes. (she is 31)
During one of our daily conversations three months ago, she expressed interest in going to a soccer game. She knows I love soccer and she told me she wanted to go one day. Last week I invited her to go to the game with me. She agreed to go. The problem is that the game will be at night on a weekday. She never goes out during the week so her husband will become suspicious. She has told me that he is going on vacation soon and that she wants to hang out with me during this time. She just doesn't want to get caught.
Since I have started talking to her I have had sex with at least 5 girls. She knows about each one of them. We talk at least an hour each day. There is really nothing that we don't now about each other. Yet I never feel bored talking to her. There is also another cute teacher at our building who talks to me on the phone. The other day I made several comments about how "pretty" this teacher looked. My friend began interrupting me and saying "yea she is pretty" anytime I brought up her name. It made me think she was a little jealous! lol
I know it is difficult to make judgments based upon a brief summary but what do you guys think. Is she feeling me? Or is she simply a great friend?
