Marriage- today's failure of marriage is on the woman

[exhausted]

Women have ruined society along with the family dynamic.
They no longer even care to raise and nurture their own kids putting them in daycare 6 to 8 weeks post birth choosing to allow a stranger care for their babies. And I am not talking low poverty families who have no choice due to financial concerns, I am talking middle and upper class families where the mother chooses to drop their babies off instead of taking a few years off when they can financially afford it.

If these women have no value to be good mothers to their own kids then it is easy to see why they have no care to be a valuable, reliable, loyal and honorable wife.
Hence over 80% of divorce is orchestrated by women. That is disgusting.

Add into society's beta bich men who not only allow this behavior but support it by rewarding these chit women with attention and dates and whatever else they want and the end result is a failing society respondet upon failing families.
Women have no reason to try to be good in a any way let alone better.

No wonder people just keep getting worse and worse.

How God the creator isn't disgusted by people is beyond me. Or maybe he is.
I know I am.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Think of it this way.

Humans split from chimps 6 million years ago.

Large societies were created about 10,000 years ago.

Electricity only a couple hundred years ago.

TV about 70 years or so ago.

Internet in most homes maybe 30 years ago.

Massive social media in the last decade.

On an instinctive level (which drives our sex, food, social and relationship behaviors), humans are very ILL EQUIPPED to deal with all this "stuff."

Modern humans are primates in a MASSIVE feeding frenzy of the senses.

NO WAY this type of society is sustainable.

However, it does present a unique (and perhaps never again repeated) set of opportunities as well as dangers.

 

[exhausted]

Think of it this way.

Humans split from chimps 6 million years ago.

Large societies were created about 10,000 years ago.

Electricity only a couple hundred years ago.

TV about 70 years or so ago.

Internet in most homes maybe 30 years ago.

Massive social media in the last decade.

On an instinctive level (which drives our sex, food, social and relationship behaviors), humans are very ILL EQUIPPED to deal with all this "stuff."

Modern humans are primates in a MASSIVE feeding frenzy of the senses.

NO WAY this type of society is sustainable.

However, it does present a unique (and perhaps never again repeated) set of opportunities as well as dangers.

Let's hope it is not sustainable

 

[Billtx49]

Women have ruined society along with the family dynamic.
They no longer even care to raise and nurture their own kids putting them in daycare 6 to 8 weeks post birth choosing to allow a stranger care for their babies. And I am not talking low poverty families who have no choice due to financial concerns, I am talking middle and upper class families where the mother chooses to drop their babies off instead of taking a few years off when they can financially afford it.

If these women have no value to be good mothers to their own kids then it is easy to see why they have no care to be a valuable, reliable, loyal and honorable wife.
Hence over 80% of divorce is orchestrated by women. That is disgusting.

Add into society's beta bich men who not only allow this behavior but support it by rewarding these chit women with attention and dates and whatever else they want and the end result is a failing society respondet upon failing families.
Women have no reason to try to be good in a any way let alone better.

No wonder people just keep getting worse and worse.

How God the creator isn't disgusted by people is beyond me. Or maybe he is.
I know I am.

It takes two to tango. Placing all the blame on the female is mgtow, so why are you on a pua site ?

 

[exhausted]

It takes two to tango. Placing all the blame on the female is mgtow, so why are you on a pua site ?

I mean from a statistical point of view. Of course there are no absolutes.
But overall today's marriage and family dynamic is diminished due to women. It means nothing to most of them.

I don't need help picking up women for one night stands.
I need help finding a good quality woman.

 

[Billtx49]

I mean from a statistical point of view. Of course there are no absolutes.
But overall today's marriage and family dynamic is diminished due to women. It means nothing to most of them.

I don't need help picking up women for one night stands.
I need help finding a good quality woman.

Masculinity is declining in many young men and young women are starting to get out of bounds. What else is new. How do you blame that on women exclusively?

 

[exhausted]

Masculinity is declining in many young men and young women are starting to get out of bounds. What else is new. How do you blame that on women exclusively?

Women don't want a masculine man these days. They want a beta bich they can boss around and control everything in the relationship and marriages.

My friends are of high quality. Successful athletes and college degrees, good careers at the fbi, hospital, high positions in good businesses and the ones divorced or with marital problems is because of the same thing, controlling entitled brat wives. All wives clearly married up yet still don't know their place. The result is misery.

 

[Billtx49]

Women don't want a masculine man these days. They want a beta bich they can boss around and control everything in the relationship and marriages.

My friends are of high quality. Successful athletes and college degrees, good careers at the fbi, hospital, high positions in good businesses and the ones divorced or with marital problems is because of the same thing, controlling entitled brat wives. All wives clearly married up yet still don't know their place. The result is misery.

Sounds like you have a very good social circle then. Should enable you to find a good quality woman from it. Work on that.

 

[exhausted]

Sounds like you have a very good social circle then. Should enable you to find a good quality woman from it. Work on that.

Never has. Ha.

 

[Billtx49]

Never has. Ha.

Mgtow

 

[exhausted]

Mgtow

I'm working on cleaning my mind first.
I would be of no good to a women at this point from the poison I have received from the npd for 3 years.

 

[Billtx49]

I'm working on cleaning my mind first.
I would be of no good to a women at this point from the poison I have received from the npd for 3 years.

I feel ya, but try not to blame women exclusively for the failure of marriage.

 

[AJ84]

I'm working on cleaning my mind first.
I would be of no good to a women at this point from the poison I have received from the npd for 3 years.

Good idea. Trying to get back to a balanced level of well- being from a bad relationship so you don't drag that around with you because women will definately pick up on that kind of vibe. The vibe where it seems like you don't like women, which is a hard sell.

I think part of cleaning your mind could involve spending more time with positive male friends who don't have the same view of women as you do. Its good to be around people who don't feed into the stuff that makes us feel mad or sad. Getting a more balanced perspective on things.

 

[exhausted]

Good idea. Trying to get back to a balanced level of well- being from a bad relationship so you don't drag that around with you because women will definately pick up on that kind of vibe. The vibe where it seems like you don't like women, which is a hard sell.

I think part of cleaning your mind could involve spending more time with positive male friends who don't have the same view of women as you do. Its good to be around people who don't feed into the stuff that makes us feel mad or sad. Getting a more balanced perspective on things.

I'm around no one. My friends are all married and busy. I have no one really.
Work.
Gym.
Home.
That's it.
I refuse to even go to church anymore. Haven't gone in 10 weeks. Tired of standing there by myself my whole adult life while everyone has wives and families. Many of them i know who are chit human beings and don't deserve it. Its like being punished and tortured. Done with it

 

[exhausted]

ive actually talked about this very same theory with a friend. we are advancing technologically way faster than our biology. our psyches and biology is still in the hunter-gatherer phase approximately.

i dont know if i agree its not sustainable. nature always balances itself out. thats if, we dont destroy ourselves, die off from some mass infection or dont get smashed into space dust by a rogue asteroid or cosmic event

I say bring on the asteroid. Fuch this place.

 

[Billtx49]

I say bring on the asteroid. Fuch this place.

Negative mindset, try with some time to fix that and get more rational…

 

[exhausted]

Negative mindset, try with some time to fix that…

Yep with all things coming to fruition recently i have finally hit the anger stage of losing my dad 4 years ago. It tok 4 years im not kidding. He was my best friend in the world. I found him passed away on his bed at 3am eyes lifeless staring at the ceiling. I can't unsee it. I wish that God awful horror on no one ever. Then had to go to the hospital to identify him as my mom couldnt do it.
To say I'm mad is an understatement.
Add in a fuching chit npd gf for 3 years who pushed pulled me into insanity I've had enough for a lifetime.

 

[Billtx49]

Yep with all things coming to fruition recently i have finally hit the anger stage of losing my dad 4 years ago. It tok 4 years im not kidding. He was my best friend in the world. I found him passed away on his bed at 3am eyes lifeless staring at the ceiling. I can't unsee it. I wish that God awful horror on no one ever. Then had to go to the hospital to identify him as my mom couldnt do it.
To say I'm mad is an understatement.
Add in a fuching chit npd gf for 3 years who pushed pulled me into insanity I've had enough for a lifetime.

No, you’ve had enough for the current time frame. Everyone dies, I was there when my father died. You will carry that past memory with you, but it only has the amount of importance that you give it mentally. It’s your personal choice.
As for the cluster B, all survivors are pissed, don’t let it infect your other memories.
Find the good in your life and discard the bad…

 

[exhausted]

No, you’ve had enough for the current time frame. Everyone dies, I was there when my father died. You will carry that past memory with you, but it only has the amount of importance that you give it mentally. It’s your personal choice.

Appreciate it.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

i dont know if i agree its not sustainable.

Consider that one of the things that make it MOST unsustainable (at least from a females and marriage point of view) is the main reason women can get away with the crap they can get away with is the STATE has more or less (from a purely financial standpoint) has taken the earning place of the traditional male.

Not directly (e.g. welfare) but most income for MOST WOMEN comes either directly (or indirectly) from the existence of our fiat reserve currency (which is essentially fungible with all dollar pegged currencies).

This allows governments to print money like there is NO TOMORROW.

Anything that results in this massive expansion of currency (real estate bubbles, anything related to universities, anything related to healthcare and other "industrial complexes") simply could NOT exist under a hard money standard, where governments could ONLY spend what they collect in taxes.

And since this frankensteinian monetary system is not sustainable past another couple decades (MAX - likely sooner, China, Russia, etc trying desperately to create a system outside the dollar system, which will CRASH the dollar system) when the fiat-dollar-reserve currency falls, so will females imaginary "girl power."

This will LIKELY HAPPEN in the lifetime of most members on Sosuave.

On the one hand it will SUCK, since the U.S. economy will more or less collapse. But all the sloozing, state-money dependent females will be left out in the cold.