That's almost like saying "All I have to do is work out and get a killer bod". Unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
The thing about wealth/status/power is that it has a lot more to do with the intangibles that you bring to the table. Women are more attracted to a man who displays the types of qualities that are associated with a man who has the capability to achieve than the actual material possessions he has.
Don't get me wrong......a big house and a nice car will get attention, but at the end of the day if you want a relationship, it is your inner game that makes the most difference. Women don't automatically leave men who lose their jobs. They leave men who LOSE FRAME and become depressed over losing their jobs.
I could write an entire book on this, but the point is that:
a) Wealth/status/power IS the most powerful attractant there is
b) Even if you have a bunch of money and nice things, it is your attitude and your frame that will allow you continued success with women
c) The best thing you can do is forget about making money to attract women. Make money because you are a MAN who is ambitious. The women, status, and power will naturally follow.
BINGO!!
if more guys would focus on this, meaning focus on developing themselves as men and chasing their own dreams, 99% of their troubles with women would go away. the vast majority of woman troubles come from low confidence or not being a man and controlling the frame. not establishing yourself as a driven person who is to be respected. men who grow up and act like men, naturally attract women to them. instead, most guys spend their energy trying to play scientist and figure out all the little specifics of how to make a girl like them; what clothes to wear, what to say, when to say it, etc.
by doing this theyre missing the point completely, and STILL putting the woman on a pedestal.
and as far as career women... no thanks! my previous gf was an absolutely stunning, career minded asian woman. and boy do i love asian girls. she was 29 and i was 21. she had money, sports car, nice house, etc. im telling you, lots of guys would kill to land her. lots of sparks in the beginning but eventually i got annoyed by her wanting to wear the pants. she was so used to being in control and running frames, that shed kinda forgotten what it meant to be a woman. maybe im just old fashioned but where i come from, the man is the man and the woman is the woman.
needless to say, my current gf is 4 years younger than me, unlike the asian who was 8 yrs older... and combined with her actually being a nurturing, motherly type who comes from a family where mom and dad are still happily married, mother cooks and tends the house, etc.. its AMAZING how much happier i am with current wifey.
my gf and i watched that new tv show, "house husbands of hollywood" the other day. the premise is, wife wears the pants and works while hubby stays home and takes kids to day care and cleans and whatnot. haha her and i both were laughing at how ridiculous it is these days. so many men letting the women run the show and control everything. its almost as unnatural to me as seeing to gay guys kiss eachother (another reason to not watch MTV anymore).
aside from the asian, my collective experience with career women is that unless theyre willing to give up the reigns and submit to their man... all theyre good for is fun. nothing serious. especially if theyre a couger, or couger in the making. BUYER BEWARE!
-SLB
