Marriage and Controll

[zumachakazuma]

I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her

 

[young_gun]

Simple. Stop looking at porn. LOL

 

[MushroomGod]

DO what you want tell her you won't be happy if you are controlled. You have to be able to do the things you like to do. It doesn't not mean you love her less and would not cross the line into a state where trust is lost. Porn and Maxim is not breaking trust.

 

[Moofahsa]

Watch porn together lol

 

[Last Man Standing]

I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!

 

[ducaro]

I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her

seriously its freaks like you that are turning the very few good women out there to despise the very few good men like us!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithful loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her

Why did you marry this woman? She doesn't respect your porn watching or female friends and you believe that she feels inadequate and you believe that guys in this forum would want a woman like her. This seems really strange.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her

She controls the frame of your relationship. How old are you?

 

[Obsidian]

i'm with Lastman

 

[Monkey]

You knew exactly what she was like BEFORE you started dating yet you still married her?...

Divorce and quick!

 

[DonGorgon]

Why do people still get married and then expect people to have sympathy for them WHEN THEY REALIZE IIT WAS A BAD CHOICE....... STOP GETTING MARRIED ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE MALE...

 

[The Duke]

I'm new to these boards I Recently got married and I will tell you guys it's not that bad but. How do I remain in control. I told my wife that once in a while I like to view porn. She doesn't like it she's tried to contol me since before we started dating. I don't mind not looking at porn but she doen't want me to look at certain videos or talk to female friends I have she doesn't even allow me to read magazines I used to recieve (stuff). I understand that she may feel inadquete but she knows she's hot stuff. She knows I want to only be with her

I believe she's the women every man on sosuave wanted faithfull loving but. She's crazy what would you guys do. All I want her to know is that I want to be given the option to do anything not actually do? Help me her

Dude, don't be a chump. The controlling crap gets worse if ya don't put your foot down, your bound to get walked on. Do just like Don Juan would and turn the table on her. Throw something smooth at her that basically says if you had more romantic hot sex with her, you wouldn't have any other desire to view porn. See if she's up for the challenge.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!

I agree with this.

Also, why do you need to watch porn when you got your wife? If you do have to watch porn do it when she isn't home so she doesn't know. Maybe, you need to communicate more with her about your female friends too...

 

[DonGorgon]

Marriage = signing your life away to a woman...

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

I agree with this.

Also, why do you need to watch porn when you got your wife? If you do have to watch porn do it when she isn't home so she doesn't know. Maybe, you need to communicate more with her about your female friends too...

LMS right as always. A man that has a wife and still watches porn either
1. has some issues
2. has a wife that won't give him nuff sex so he makes up for it by watching porn
3. has been married a long time and is at the point where he hates his wife/wife is not what she was when first married.

You said you were recently married so you're wife is still good looking (at least to you), so you either have issues or you are not having nuff love with the wife.

 

[MooseGod]

I don't think the porn is the major issue here, it's kinda iffy. The red flag to me is that she doesn't trust you enough to "let you" talk to your female friends or read Maxim. Do you try to control her? Who wears the pants in this relationship?

 

[amoka]

I won't get into a long analysis here...so let me just say this - would you like her to view other mens' penises?? No? I didn't think so! It's not about control - it's about respect!! Respect your wife!!

LMS is not all about women bashing

 

[amoka]

Where is the Original poster?

Where is the original poster. It is very annoying for people to post and don't follow-up. Probably thinking "these people just want to dismantle my marriage. I'm out of here." Check-out his posts... one, uno, eins,un,Yi. This is why I propose " at least five posts/comments before thread." Which simply implies for an individual to create a New Thread, he/she must post at least five times in existing threads. The minimizes "unresponsive thread starters" while at the same time prevents spammers from posting unnecessarily.