Every stoned loser and every stoned juvenile delinquent you find was already a loser before weed. Now, I personally don't think it's good idea for young teenagers to date Mary Jane, because their brains are still getting wired up and their sense of more meaningful interests and priorities are still developing. So, there is a minimum age requirement and I would conservatively venture to put the age at 18. Wait until your high school prom or graduation afterhours party.
There are many highly successful people who lead a secret double life. Doctors, lawyers, politicians, paramedics, CEOs, astronomers, evolutionary biologists, anthropologists, television anchors, realtors, stock market mavericks, and Deep Dish. Marijuana may be sought as temporary relief from problems, but so the same with anything else which feels good; chocolate, wine, Tiramisu cake, going to the beach, taking a vacation, getting laid.
Once again I have run out of time, because lead a functional, pro-social life. Sitting in my bedroom, however, is the book "Naked Girls Smoking Weed: Best of 420 Girls" by Rob Griffin.